More women and men stuff

[kris31280]

I think they'd be more like Bobcats than Pumas.

I don't make the names up. There was an article about them in some magazine not that long ago.

 

[pixiegirl]

Good Lord, *perhaps* he was just being sarcastic.

:muchadoaboutnothing:

I could swallow that if I turned around and looked at him or something but he came up from behind me and said that. He started speaking and I turned around to see who was talking to me. I was unaware that I'd had anyone behind me. It was creepy.

 

[DPA469]

#1, never bragged about it. Called him the boy toy.
#2, there's nothing wrong with men or women dating someone who's older or younger than them... but 20 years, for me personally, is too big of a stretch. It's silly to think everyone is going to be the exact same age range, but I'll go 10 years up or 5 years down. That being said, before you can throw my words back in my face, the boy toy was 20 when I met him and I was 28. By the time it was done, he was 21 and I was 29.
#3, Puma's are women in their late 20's, early 30's who date younger men, not Cougars.

COUGAR: Women in their 40s who smoke, drink and go to clubs and pick up men in their 20s. Cougars are often divorced, sometimes with cubs and financially independent.
PUMA: Women in their 30s, also referred to as "cougars in training."
COUGAR CUBS: Women in their 20s.
WILLING PREY: Men.
WHITETAIL DEER: The preferred choice of prey for cougars, usually men in their 20s.
LIVESTOCK: Married men, not that desirable, but an option if prey is scarce. Also known as "domesticated."
ENDANGERED SPECIES: Nice guys.
GAME WARDEN: Men in their 40s and 50s. Not that desirable because they carry tranquillizer guns and relocate cougars against their will.
GURUS: Successful self-made men who have made lots of money, usually in their 40s and 50s. To be closely studied but not hunted.
ROADKILL: One-night stands

 

[HunterJJD]

I'd have called the cops.

An old man speaks to you in a store and you want to call the cops on him. Now we see why you don't have many friends

 

[Toxick]

You know you want some of dis!!!

Who wouldn't want some of dat?

I'm not even gay, and I'd hit it.

 

[cattitude]

An old man speaks to you in a store and you want to call the cops on him. Now we see why you don't have many friends

It was a joke. I'm unaware that we've met or know each other but I don't need many friends.

 

[BS Gal]

An old man speaks to you in a store and you want to call the cops on him. Now we see why you don't have many friends

That wasn't very nice.

 

[toppick08]

I find this odd. How can a person who celebrates anything and everything "unconventional" regarding sex or relationships say a 20 year age difference in a hetero couple is "Gross" yet 2 guys in lipstick and skirts coating each other in baby oil and stroking each others scrotum hair while an attendant wearing a donkey mask gives them welts with a riding crop is A-OK?

 

[morningbell]

That's just because they are working on making a bigger tip.

Carded by the door person They don't get any tips.

 

[ItalianScallion]

#2, there's nothing wrong with men or women dating someone who's older or younger than them... but 20 years, for me personally, is too big of a stretch. It's silly to think everyone is going to be the exact same age range, but I'll go 10 years up or 5 years down.

For dating purposes yes, it is stupid to go more than 15 years either way. For just fun and friends, it's totally Ok with me... Been there a lot! I just can't date gals near my age.
Guys want young, hot and lively women. Most men (not all) would jump at the opportunity. (Why do you think Hooters always packed)?
Some women look for a "daddy figure" to protect and take care of them (looks irrelevant in most cases). Why do I see soo many "babes" with "duds"? What do they see in them? Just what I said.
Not many of you ladies would turn down a guy 25 years older than you if he pulled up to a dock in a yacht or cigarette boat and asked if you'd like to go out for the day, would ya???
Nor would you 40 & 50 year old ladies turn down that 21 year old Chippendale dancer...Fess up; I've heard you talk about it...

I think it's skeevy for anyone of any age to approach in an abrupt manner. You're supposed to feel out the situation first, see if there's any interest or any impediments (such as a SO) before you go for it.

Although I agree with you, I must say:
"...But here in the real world"...

 

[cattataint]

Although I agree with you, I must say:
"...But here in the real world"...

Here in the real world what, you're a freak? That's obvious.

 

[kvj21075]

Here in the real world what, you're a freak? That's obvious.

omg

 

[ItalianScallion]

Here in the real world what, you're a freak? That's obvious.

This is a women and men thread. It doesn't apply to you... Poof, gone, bye-bye newbie.

 

[ItalianScallion]

omg

OMG what? It's apparently not used to being around human beings...

 

[Flavor]

Although I agree with you, I must say:
"...But here in the real world"...

Here in the real world what, you're a freak? That's obvious.

 

[backagain39]

I wasn't averse to older guys, but they had to have something going on: either good-looking, or intelligent or funny or something attractive. But then there'd be some guy my age who was just stupid and for some reason he'd think I should be interested in him.

I was always a dork magnet, anyway, because I tend to be nice to people and they think I really mean it.

Ditto................

 

[toppick08]

 

[steeler_chick]

With the divorce rate around 65% (?) now, it's all a crapshoot -so who cares?
There's a hill for every billy out there.


I actually feel kind of sorry for the poor "freaks" - they must get smacked down a lot looking for their matches...

 

[toppick08]

tell me cabbage won't head.........

 

[ItalianScallion]

Here in the real world what, you're a freak? That's obvious.

MPD The lower you go in the county, the lower the life forms...

C'mon, was it really necessary to talk to Pixie?

She wasnt even aware of you, you could have continued oggling her and she would have been none the wiser.

:shrug: