I don't. I jump right in. And if you are new to the area, and find this forum you find that on most search engines it states it is a community forum to discuss life in southern Maryland "Whether you're relocating or a native, discuss general topics about living in Southern Maryland. What's happening locally" and then this particular section shows up as "This is a forum for members who are planning events and get-togethers. Make plans and post your meeting information here." Both of which makes us sound like a quite friendly group of Southern Marylanders.
I remember when I joined way back when, I thought I had finally found a place to meet some nice people in the area. Disillusion people later, after they've become sucked in. that's my motto.