Choklatjunkeee
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It sound like your teen is trying to fit into a new crowd that unfortunately is not of the same ilk as her previous set of friends. If it were me, I would video her using this type of language (racial commentary). Then after a day or so I would play it back for her and let her see how she looks and sounds. Then I would ask her if she would be comfortable if her previous friends saw this behavior from her? Ask her what has changed about her? I am not suggesting you post it on the net, just give her a chance to reflect on her behavior. Hopefully she will evntually see her new friends for what they are, and go back to being herself. JMHO
...until we moved to Calvert County from Charles. Since then, she makes the "watermelon and fried chicken" jokes, she says that "all black women look mean," she says that "all the blacks in her school are related," she dislikes Hispanic people (who she refers to all as "Mexicans"). This is definitely not how she acted when we lived in Charles County. She had many friends of many races in Charles County, and paid no mind to what race or cultural background they were from. I have not heard her use racial epithets, but her friends use them regularly from what I understand. Her mother is definitely not like this. She must be getting it from her friends. Many of her friends and their parents admit they dislike blacks due to their experiences that they claim have caused them to leave other counties. Does anyone else witness this prejudiced behaviour in Calvert? It seems like it is more prevalent in Calvert than in Charles. I can't speak for St. Mary's.