Nice Guys.....

DreamBlaze

Do I smell Burning Rubber
I met my husband on unplanned blind date at my friend's house right here in St. Mary's County. :shrug:

I was not expecting to meet nice guy that night when I met my husband.

I never said that you can't find everything you want right where you are, and where your not looking.

Odds, people, the odds.

Somepeople are lucky to stumble upon their other half, other people need to search their whole life. I figure the more I search, the more likely I am to stumble upon what is right for me.
 

Pasofever

Does my butt look big?
Toppick you have been here a few times...so has Unix and others..never had any problems and think you all are great and I feel safe around you..Last night I had a scarry thing happen :gossip: came over drunk and then got pushy about me coming to spend the night with him...I was really rattled as he was pushy and would not take NO for an answer...and years ago this same person grabbed me and tried to kiss me and I had to push to get away..Bill told him he would kill him if he did it again and now he knows Bill is gone..Anyway long story short even Unix said to call him if he comes over here again and not to let him in..Unix said he would come "take care of him" I hope I have ended it..anyway..I just want to say you have been nice to me..I dont feel threatened with you here and us "alone" You are a nice guy and it will pay off in the end..don't change..
 

StrawberryGal

Sweet and Innocent
I never said that you can't find everything you want right where you are, and where your not looking.

Odds, people, the odds.

Somepeople are lucky to stumble upon their other half, other people need to search their whole life. I figure the more I search, the more likely I am to stumble upon what is right for me.

That's true.

I wasn't looking for a boyfriend at the time and my husband was already dating someone else at the time, and we met that night because a friend told me that I needed a date that night. No matters how many "No" I had to say that night, a friend wouldn't listen to me. If she had listen to me, I would have never met my husband. I'm glad she didn't listen to me. :lmao:

People will meet someone when they are not expecting or looking for someone. It will fall right in your hands and there she/he is! :buddies:
 
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toppick08

Guest
Toppick you have been here a few times...so has Unix and others..never had any problems and think you all are great and I feel safe around you..Last night I had a scarry thing happen :gossip: came over drunk and then got pushy about me coming to spend the night with him...I was really rattled as he was pushy and would not take NO for an answer...and years ago this same person grabbed me and tried to kiss me and I had to push to get away..Bill told him he would kill him if he did it again and now he knows Bill is gone..Anyway long story short even Unix said to call him if he comes over here again and not to let him in..Unix said he would come "take care of him" I hope I have ended it..anyway..I just want to say you have been nice to me..I dont feel threatened with you here and us "alone" You are a nice guy and it will pay off in the end..don't change..

You have been very nice to me, and I appreciate it.....It won't be long, 'till I bring you some lilac booshes', and some stump killer...:wink:....:smoochy:
 

Dougstermd

ORGASM DONOR
I have learned through extensive work with people that when a man tells you they are a nice guy, they are trying to convince you of something that if were true, they would not need to convince you of.... and often, nearly ever time, I find out the exact opposite is true.

Sorry Toppick… it is just how I feel nothing towards you personally because I have never met you and probably never will because I just rarely socialize outside the forum bandwidth.

see your right.
I have a dirty little mind, an slutty persona, and could give a rats azz about others feelings. I never come in last and some people still think I am a nice guy:popcorn:
 
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toppick08

Guest
see your right.
I have a dirty little mind, an slutty persona, and could give a rats azz about others feelings. I never come in last and some people still think I am a nice guy:popcorn:

You were damn nice to me.........:yay:
 
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toppick08

Guest
I have learned through extensive work with people that when a man tells you they are a nice guy, they are trying to convince you of something that if were true, they would not need to convince you of.... and often, nearly ever time, I find out the exact opposite is true.

Sorry Toppick… it is just how I feel nothing towards you personally because I have never met you and probably never will because I just rarely socialize outside the forum bandwidth.

With all due respect Pandora.......flesh and blood, trumps internet posts.

:huggy:
 

Pandora

New Member
You were damn nice to me.........:yay:

That is completely different. You are a guy and not sure about you, but Doug does not swing that way so there is nothing to gain by playing the nice guy persona in that situation. I am speaking of situations where the other person's opinion does matter because a guy wants to gain something, piece of tail, sympathy, leniency, whatever, and in my personal and professional experience IRL, I have found that when somebody tells me what a nice guy or even puts themselves in the nice guy role, it is a red flag. In fact, nearly all times I have been faced with that comment up front, I have learned differently.

Now go show us how nice you are and clean Julz gutters. :lol:
 
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toppick08

Guest
That is completely different. You are a guy and not sure about you, but Doug does not swing that way so there is nothing to gain by playing the nice guy persona in that situation. I am speaking of situations where the other person's opinion does matter because a guy wants to gain something, piece of tail, sympathy, leniency, whatever, and in my personal and professional experience IRL, I have found that when somebody tells me what a nice guy or even puts themselves in the nice guy role, it is a red flag. In fact, nearly all times I have been faced with that comment up front, I have learned differently.

Now go show us how nice you are and clean Julz gutters. :lol:

Well, your opinion of me is your opinion...........I assure you, I am available to be met, and the crap about all I want is a piece of tail is crap....If two people meet, converse, and have decisions about what they feel or want from each other,...well that's their decision among consenting adults, and is a private matter.........I , have always give women, that choice.
 

Pandora

New Member
Well, your opinion of me is your opinion...........I assure you, I am available to be met, and the crap about all I want is a piece of tail is crap....If two people meet, converse, and have decisions about what they feel or want from each other,...well that's their decision among consenting adults, and is a private matter.........I , have always give women, that choice.

:doh: You really missed my point! Please, just go clean some gutters. :lol:
 

unixpirate

Pitty Party
That's true.

I wasn't looking for a boyfriend at the time and my husband was already dating someone else at the time, and we met that night because a friend told me that I needed a date that night. No matters how many "No" I had to say that night, a friend wouldn't listen to me. If she had listen to me, I would have never met my husband. I'm glad she didn't listen to me. :lmao:

People will meet someone when they are not expecting or looking for someone. It will fall right in your hands and there she/he is! :buddies:

I liked your mellons when I met you. :howdy:
 

backagain39

New Member
Not meaning to change the topic here but since the post is about guys........

Have you ladies noticed how many gay men that are in this area? Have you ladies noticed how many guys in this area have some MAJOR baggage? Have you ladies noticed how many men don't want to be bothered with your kids or family but want you to be all in the mix with theirs....

Or maybe this has just been my experience.......

I guess my logic here is that dating today is HARD whether you are male or female!!!!
 
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