Nice Guys.....

DreamBlaze

Do I smell Burning Rubber
Ah, most of them are.

Well, after being bucked off the horse numerous times, even getting back on isn't easy but yes, once your on, it's scary as hell because your waiting for the horse to just give you the boot. So instead sometimes you just get off the horse and say "I'm done".

I've gotten bucked off of almost everytime. I just hope I never "Learn my lesson" and stop. You'll never know how the ride is unless you grab the reins and dig your heels in. I just hope I'll find that ride one day:love:
 

Queenofdenile1

Love is Blind
I've gotten bucked off of almost everytime. I just hope I never "Learn my lesson" and stop. You'll never know how the ride is unless you grab the reins and dig your heels in. I just hope I'll find that ride one day:love:

Well, you haven't given up on the idea and that's good. As for me, I'm tired, my azz hurts and I just don't have the energy that I once had. I haven't completely given up, just takes more out of me now...I need longer breaks.
 
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toppick08

Guest
He is insecure.

Ok..just got back in from trimming hedges............:rolleyes:

No, I'm quite happy with who I am,(in a humble way) and try to be a better person everyday.

Recently though, I've just grown a little weary, confused, worrying, down on my-self, with issues in life that we all go through......are the sacrifices I made along life's journey been worth it?, has chilvary died ?...:blahblah:....you know life..:lol:....Not trying to draw attention to myself, but just trying to see if manners and being a giver is still important...:shrug:
 

SoMDGirl42

Well-Known Member
Ok..just got back in from trimming hedges............:rolleyes:

No, I'm quite happy with who I am,(in a humble way) and try to be a better person everyday.

Recently though, I've just grown a little weary, confused, worrying, down on my-self, with issues in life that we all go through......are the sacrifices I made along life's journey been worth it?, has chilvary died ?...:blahblah:....you know life..:lol:....Not trying to draw attention to myself, but just trying to see if manners and being a giver is still important...:shrug:

It's important to some. Others just care how deep your pockets are :lmao:
:love: BIG:huggy:
 
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toppick08

Guest
It's important to some. Others just care how deep your pockets are :lmao:
:love: BIG:huggy:

I understand....I have put myself myself in a position to have deep pockets, but that don't mean crap in the longrun...that's where I speak of sacrifices.
 

kelb

art imitating life
Ok..just got back in from trimming hedges............:rolleyes:

No, I'm quite happy with who I am,(in a humble way) and try to be a better person everyday.

Recently though, I've just grown a little weary, confused, worrying, down on my-self, with issues in life that we all go through......are the sacrifices I made along life's journey been worth it?, has chilvary died ?...:blahblah:....you know life..:lol:....Not trying to draw attention to myself, but just trying to see if manners and being a giver is still important...:shrug:

I understand....I have put myself myself in a position to have deep pockets, but that don't mean crap in the longrun...that's where I speak of sacrifices.

Awww I think you are nice and chilvary is NOT dead.. but deep pockets are not a problem either :huggy:
 

LateApex

New Member
I have a couple of friends that left the area because they felt the area didn't have anything to offer and they couldn't meet that special someone.

I'll give you the same advice that I always gave them...

You can't expect to make others happy if you aren't happy with yourself. You have to work on - you - first. If you're not happy with yourself - it'll show.

As is evident in your post - you're not happy. Change that! Take care of yourself. If you need to - workout - it will make you feel better about yourself. If you look good, you feel good.

Don't feel sorry for yourself. Drop this "woe is me" attitude. Use that as motivation and things will/can turn around.

$.02
 

DreamBlaze

Do I smell Burning Rubber
I have a couple of friends that left the area because they felt the area didn't have anything to offer and they couldn't meet that special someone.

I'll give you the same advice that I always gave them...

You can't expect to make others happy if you aren't happy with yourself. You have to work on - you - first. If you're not happy with yourself - it'll show.

As is evident in your post - you're not happy. Change that! Take care of yourself. If you need to - workout - it will make you feel better about yourself. If you look good, you feel good.

Don't feel sorry for yourself. Drop this "woe is me" attitude. Use that as motivation and things will/can turn around.

$.02

I agree, BUT if you ARE at peace with yourself...we all can't deny that there is a more likely chance of meeting someone if you are in a place with higher population...say D.C./B.More.

Everyplace is the same, yet every place is different, there are the same types of people, it's just a numbers game and in what proportion.

Good questions are, Is what I think I want really what I need? Can I find what I want where I am in an acceptable amount of time? Am I doing what I need to do to attract the right people?
 
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toppick08

Guest
I have a couple of friends that left the area because they felt the area didn't have anything to offer and they couldn't meet that special someone.

I'll give you the same advice that I always gave them...

You can't expect to make others happy if you aren't happy with yourself. You have to work on - you - first. If you're not happy with yourself - it'll show.

As is evident in your post - you're not happy. Change that! Take care of yourself. If you need to - workout - it will make you feel better about yourself. If you look good, you feel good.

Don't feel sorry for yourself. Drop this "woe is me" attitude. Use that as motivation and things will/can turn around.

$.02

Are you talking to me ?
 

StrawberryGal

Sweet and Innocent
I agree, BUT if you ARE at peace with yourself...we all can't deny that there is a more likely chance of meeting someone if you are in a place with higher population...say D.C./B.More.

Everyplace is the same, yet every place is different, there are the same types of people, it's just a numbers game and in what proportion.

Good questions are, Is what I think I want really what I need? Can I find what I want where I am in an acceptable amount of time? Am I doing what I need to do to attract the right people?

I met my husband on unplanned blind date at my friend's house right here in St. Mary's County. :shrug:

I was not expecting to meet nice guy that night when I met my husband.
 
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