No Sex With Wife After seeing Her Give Birth

[Toxick]

Typical democrat. Only believe what MSM feeds you. Confronted with simple questions and runs away.

I told you before I'm not open to debate on this subject.

I don't need your ####ing approval and I certainly don't need your judgement. You started a debate thread on the subject elsewhere. If I feel like discussing this issue, I'll see you there.

Otherwise piss off.

 

[kara teoke]

I told you before I'm not open to debate on this subject.

I don't need your ####ing approval and I certainly don't need your judgement. You started a debate thread on the subject elsewhere. If I feel like discussing this issue, I'll see you there.

Otherwise piss off.

 

[Hank]

Tradition I will buy the other two are fallacies.

Yes mutilation was only meant to incite.

You have a penis pouch? Do you play "Guess what's in my pouch"?

 

[withrespect]

This tread was an odd one.

 

[stockgirl]

I wonder if men get insecure about stuff like this like women do. Do they worry about their woman not being physically attracted to them like they once were? Does an inkling of jealously float through their heads when we start a thread over Magic Mike? Or how Jack Nicholson looks old and, by default, now unattractive?

Jack Nicholson is on my top sexiest men list. I don't care about his looks. His personality is what does it for me.

 

[Bann]

I wouldn't hold it against a guy for being grossed out because I learned a long, long time ago that men just plain outright do not think or react with the same emotions and thought process as a female brain does. We are wired differently and there is no changing it.

I don't think a woman should be offended if the father of her child choses to stay to the other side of where the action is happening.

ITA!

Heck - *I* didn't want to see anything when I was giving birth, and that is no lie!! I had one delivery nurse try to force me to have the mirror in place (with Thing1) and then a doctor, no less, trying to make me watch the miracle of Thing2 coming into the world with one arm leading the way. I finally went Linda Blair on both of them and said NO I do NOT, before they'd get the message. I had both kids without an epidural - only had a little bit of Stadol with Thing1. Thing2's birthing came so fast there was no time for any pain meds. I was in pain with both and was not exactly in the mood for any watching of it! But that's just me.

 

[Bann]

I truely, firmly, with alllll my heart believe that men do NOT belong in the delivery room. It is only recently that it has become the thing to do..and half the time it is women holding a gun to their head forcing them to take part in their fantasy of the "miracle of life" let me tell you..having a baby is ####ing disgusting. there is nothing miraculous, pretty, or special about it no matter what hippie feminists want to sell you. I also do not get the trend of having everyone and their mother in the room with you..siblings, parents, neighbors, the guy in the cube down the hall..for heaven's sake they can visit with you once your vagina is sewn up and the baby has the amniotic fluid sucked from its nose. Doesn't make birthing a brand new human any less exciting if they don't get to be involved in all the gory disgusting details.

Men and everyone else belong in the waiting room handing out cigars like God intended.

OMIGOSH, I knowit! A friend's son & DIL must have had half of their graduating class in there, not to mention 4 generations of family! Unbelievable.

 

[Bann]

The brief second of seeing two heads on one body at different ends was a little weird for me but I got over it. I did not like cutting the umbilical cord though because some of the juice got in my mouth and eye.

Ew!

 

[Bann]

Hell, giving birth is so yucky that even I didn't want to be there. I sure as he'll didn't want anyone else there with me, too.

 

[stockgirl]

I had the ex, my mom, dad, stepmom, cousin, OB doc, 3 nurses, and a pediatrician in with me. I had no issue with it and the ex did not get grossed out. :shrug:

 

[Dakota]

When my 1st was born, they brought in a class to watch. I didn't even realize that because I was going ape shiat over a phone that wouldn't stop ringing.

 

[Hank]

Jack Nicholson is on my top sexiest men list. I don't care about his looks. His personality is what does it for me.

Jack is the man! Probably my favorite actor...

 

[MMM_donuts]

Jack is the man! Probably my favorite actor...

I like him, too. I was all mad recently when the magazines posted a picture of him at the beach and made fun of him for how he's "let himself go". Geez, the man doesn't look bad at all and then when you take his age into consideration - he's 75!!

 

[doubtfull24]

My cousins wife gave birth a few weeks before me anyway we were at a family dinner and she passed around a photo album of the birth... No lie she had pictures of everything even the babies head coming out! My husband was creeped out. I had a c-section so he had never seen that before. I couldn't believe she didn't care who saw her vijayjay.

 

[drivingdaisy]

I want my husband and my mom with me. That is it. Hubby should be there so he knows what I went through and maybe to help. I'm mostly counting on mom for the helping and "taking care of me." And after watching What to Expect When You Are Expecting, I've been thinking it would be fun to smack him just for the fun of it. He does not need to be at the business end unless he wants to, I mostly want him there for support.

 

[stockgirl]

I want my husband and my mom with me. That is it. Hubby should be there so he knows what I went through and maybe to help. I'm mostly counting on mom for the helping and "taking care of me." And after watching What to Expect When You Are Expecting, I've been thinking it would be fun to smack him just for the fun of it. He does not need to be at the business end unless he wants to, I mostly want him there for support.

A friend of mine clawed the bleep out of her hubby. He begged her to hold his hand during the process. She did not want to. But, he insisted so she did. Afterwards, she looked at him and said..."maybe you'll let me have the ####ing manicures that I ####ing begged for while pregnant with YOUR kid". I'll never forget how loudly I laughed after hearing that.

 

[Wenchy]

I really wanted nobody with me with the exception of my midwife.

I was afraid the fathers would freak at would would happen.

Both fathers cut the cords of my two babies and insisted on being there.

It did nothing negative to our sex life.

This is selfish of me but I kind of wanted the moment to myself.

Instead, I shared, because they really wanted to be there.

Nothing gross about it...IMO. I watched in the mirror and even pulled each baby out once their shoulders emerged. Laughing/crying the whole time.

Birth is beautiful.

The man who said a woman changes in a negative way after birth should be shot.

I think men are jealous because they can't give birth.