Notifying the "ex" of Remarriage

Should your "ex" be notified of your impending remarriage?

  • Yes, if kids are involved. Otherwise, it's 'nunya'.

    Votes: 15 83.3%
  • Yes, regardless of whether kids are involved.

    Votes: 1 5.6%
  • No, it's 'nunya'

    Votes: 2 11.1%
  • Other -- Explain

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Total voters
    18
  • Poll closed .

pixiegirl

Cleopatra Jones
Originally posted by vraiblonde
My ex called me when he was getting remarried and I was like, "Who cares?" I'd already heard from the kids that they liked her and Daddy was thinking of getting married. Anything after that is just sh*t stirring and attention whore behavior.

My ex made it a point to tell me like a year ago that he had a girl friend. I said "great, I'm sure she'd be interested to know that you're still trying to get me back." So then it was "well, I am married to you still and I'd leave her if we were to get back together." Finally, the conversation got to the point where he told me he was FOS and just trying to get me jealous. :crazy:
 

pixiegirl

Cleopatra Jones
Originally posted by vraiblonde
But again, Crab - wouldn't the kid have already told the other parent?

Noah's 2 and told on me. He told his grammy that his mommy had a baby in her belly.
 

crabcake

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Originally posted by vraiblonde
But again, Crab - wouldn't the kid have already told the other parent?

Perhaps, but perhaps not. I've had a talk or two with the DQ and explained to her that what goes on in our house stays in our house (talks/discussions included). I told her it was rude to report on the goings-on that you witness in another person's home. Therefore, if she's at Daddy's, and the same rule is applied (which I'm pretty sure it is, in talking to him), she may not discuss it with me. :ohwell: Daddy might tell her, "Listen, this is what we are talking about, but as we've not yet made a final decision, I'd rather you not talk to your mother about this; rather, let me inform her at the appropriate time." Or, depending on the age of the kids, it might not be discussed around them at all. :shrug:
 

crabcake

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Originally posted by vraiblonde
"Hi, Ex! I'm getting married! But I'm not married yet so it's not too late to stop me!"

:rolleyes:

Naaaahhhhh ... I'm expecting this scenario to fall on mature eyes/ears. I'd start pinch-hitting for the other team before I'd wanna get back together with my ex. :lmao:
 

crabcake

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:offtopic: but Vrai ... you said one of the changes you were making to the board was the ability to see who voted in a poll. How do ya do that? :snacks:
 

vraiblonde

Board Mommy
PREMO Member
Patron
Originally posted by crabcake
How do ya do that?
It's on the next version, which we'll implement in the next couple of months. The update we just did was for security and boring stuff - no new goodies. :frown:
 

Nickel

curiouser and curiouser
Originally posted by migtig
I'm kinda with you CC, but I think we are rarieties. I have a great relationship with my ex and I would probably even invite him the the funeral, er I mean wedding, if I was ever be stupid enough, I mean lucky enough to do that again. And if he was ever to get married again, I'd be appreciative of a heads up on it since we do still communicate regular and share some of the same friends. But I think if we were not regular chit chatters and still friends, then I would probably give less than a hoot if he ever told me he got remarried. After all, I know all types of people who have nothing but baggage, resentment and anomosity leftover from their failed marriages. And if I felt that way I'd be saying NYOB too. However, I am a weirdo and looked at my failed marriage with a lot of pride. :lmao:
That's a very mature attitude to have. I know I'm not that mature, of course I've also never been married or divorced, so I can't say how I would act in the exact situation. But I will say this...if I was marrying Marc Anthony's ugly ass I wouldn't tell a soul :rolleyes:
 

crabcake

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Originally posted by Nickel
But I will say this...if I was marrying Marc Anthony's ugly ass I wouldn't tell a soul :rolleyes:

:yeahthat: :lmao: No wonder JLo's not admitting to being knocked up by his sorry azz! :lol:
 

Nickel

curiouser and curiouser
Originally posted by crabcake
:yeahthat: :lmao: No wonder JLo's not admitting to being knocked up by his sorry azz! :lol:
That is gonna be one effed up kid. All the gorgeousness of J Lo is immediately cancelled out by his hideousness. The kid's gonna have a huge ass and a jacked up grill. :ohwell: They should bring up charges of child abuse on J Lo.
 

pixiegirl

Cleopatra Jones
Originally posted by Nickel
That is gonna be one effed up kid. All the gorgeousness of J Lo is immediately cancelled out by his hideousness. The kid's gonna have a huge ass and a jacked up grill. :ohwell: They should bring up charges of child abuse on J Lo.

There are many people who procreate that should have abuse charges brought against them soley based on looks. Haven't you looked around lately? :lol:
 

unixpirate

Pitty Party
Another dumb topic I thought of.. Cause I'm bored at work

Do you notify your ex or chil-dens of a g/f or b/f?


If so how long do you go before notifying them?
 

crabcake

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Originally posted by pixiegirl
There are many people who procreate that should have abuse charges brought against them soley based on looks. Haven't you looked around lately? :lol:

:nono: I KNOW you ain't talkin' about MY kiddo! :really:

actually, for the most part, I think the somd forumites' kids (that I've met) are all pretty darn cute kids, for the most part. :smile:
 

Nickel

curiouser and curiouser
Originally posted by pixiegirl
There are many people who procreate that should have abuse charges brought against them soley based on looks. Haven't you looked around lately? :lol:
Sweetie, I work in Calvert County, I am surrounded by the ugliest people I have ever seen in my life on a daily basis.
 

Nickel

curiouser and curiouser
Re: Another dumb topic I thought of.. Cause I'm bored at work

Originally posted by unixpirate
Do you notify your ex or chil-dens of a g/f or b/f?


If so how long do you go before notifying them?
No, it's none of his business, and his love life is none of mine. He got married and I found out through my aunt. I'm glad I didn't find out from him, I would've laughed in his face, and that would've been rude. I've moved on for a reason, I don't want him in my life, I'm not gonna go out of my way to inform him of my every move. As for notifying the kids, my son met my bf before I did, so I didn't have to worry about that.
 

crabcake

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Originally posted by Nickel
Sweetie, I work in Calvert County, I am surrounded by the ugliest people I have ever seen in my life on a daily basis.

:popcorn: you gonna take that Otter, Catt, PFgal, Sharon, Sleuth, 2A, Vince, and everyone else who lives in Calvert?
 

pixiegirl

Cleopatra Jones
Originally posted by crabcake
:nono: I KNOW you ain't talkin' about MY kiddo! :really:

actually, for the most part, I think the somd forumites' kids (that I've met) are all pretty darn cute kids, for the most part. :smile:

I wasn't talking about anyone in particular. B and I were watching some thing on VH-1 the other night about "hair bands". I think people in general have gotten more attractive over the past 20 years. But the world in general still has a long way to go.

Go to women.com and look at their 12 sexiest musicians. :barf:
 

crabcake

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Originally posted by migtig
:yeahthat: I really think Boy is a hottie.

Ya know what'd be cute ... a calendar of somd kids with the proceeds being donated to the Alzheimers Research association or something. :smile: I'd buy a couple and give them to peeps. Peeps could submit a pic of the young kids with their grandmom/grandpa ... to kind of send the message home to folks about it. :bubble:
 
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