Trip went okay! We decided we really like owings and the surrounding area so that is where we are currently focusing our search!
The only issue right now is I may be working on the other side of the bridge so we are trying to figure out what will be best for us. Most likely I would have to cross during rush hour whereas he would not.
thank you all again for the input and help
Just to let you know, there is an alternate route when the T Johnson bridge is snarled. You could go by way of Benedict bridge, but it will be a longer commute. Good luck on your decision. And no matter where you choose to live, I think you will enjoy Southern MD. We lived in Calvert for 20 years, and loved it very much. We moved for family reasons in 2016. Happy moving.
PS. If there is a back up on Johnson bridge, it will take less time to go over Benedict bridge.