Paranoid mom-to-be - OB in Calvert/Annapolis?

[CalvertNewbie]

We waited 12 weeks before we told anyone my DW was pregnant, I won't give the reason why.

AAMC and Women's OB/GYN (Annapolis) are outstanding, private rooms with a sofa for dad and your baby can room in if you choose. If you breast feed this will be important. Our son was born via C-section, and it was not that big a deal for my wife, she just had me to wait on her hand and foot for the following week to 10 days.

12 weeks feels like forever but I really wanted to wait 12 weeks before we told our family & friends. Hubby wanted to tell the world the second we found out and did tell most of his coworkers right away. We had a miscarriage about a year ago (luckily, we hadn't told anyone about the pregnancy yet) so I was afraid to get anyone's hopes up in case it happened again. Once we got the first ultrasound done, we told our parents, our brothers and my best friend up in NY (who will keep her mouth shut). Once we get out of the first trimester, we'll tell everyone. I really want to tell my Gram - she just lost her hubby in April and needs some good news.

A few of hubby's coworkers said the same thing about Annapolis. They loved the rooms and the fact that both parents & baby could stay in the suite. I also like my privacy so that place sounds great to me. I guess our best bet is to check out both places and go from there. Thanks!

 

[CalvertNewbie]

as a matter of fact, I'm considering letting toppick get me pregnant, he has to take full custody though I've got two spitfires now; and I have to clear it w/ my hubby first. Hubby surely doesn't want to get me pregnant anymore and I love every moment of it and have been begging--it's a win-win! HA!

Did you get a response from toppick yet?

 

[workin hard]

Sometimes I wish I were pregnant. I really love it! Some women hate it, but not me. I felt great! I love having a baby grow in me.

I did too. I was sick for the first 4 months and my sciatic hurt like a mofo the rest but I loved being prego.

 

[CalvertNewbie]

I did too. I was sick for the first 4 months and my sciatic hurt like a mofo the rest but I loved being prego.

It's great to hear so many women say that they loved being pregnant. Although I always feel tired and I'm nauseaus more often than not, I'm still so happy & excited. It's just an amazing feeling - can't wait for the kicks to begin!

 

[SAB]

Congratulations! I loved being pregnant too! I craved broccoli & asparagus like crazy. My twins (who will be 12 soon) were born @ 32 weeks - PG Hospital. I don't think the hospital is still in operation but it had the best neonatal team available (one in each corner of the room). My wee ones were only 3 lbs. when born. Some babies there were only 1 lb. My little guy was born in 03 (boy was I scared he would be twins too) in Annapolis. Annapolis was terrific. Private rooms, lots of food & special treatment. I personally do not like Calvert Hospital at all. If one of us is sick, I take them to DC (Children's Hospital) or to Annapolis. Both times I had a c-section and it was convenient, painless and quick. Some extra healing time is needed but it is nice to be pampered. Good luck! Best of wishes and don't worry - I'm sure it will be fine no matter what you decide to do.

 

[CalvertNewbie]

Congratulations! I loved being pregnant too! I craved broccoli & asparagus like crazy. My twins (who will be 12 soon) were born @ 32 weeks - PG Hospital. I don't think the hospital is still in operation but it had the best neonatal team available (one in each corner of the room). My wee ones were only 3 lbs. when born. Some babies there were only 1 lb. My little guy was born in 03 (boy was I scared he would be twins too) in Annapolis. Annapolis was terrific. Private rooms, lost of food & special treatment. I personally do not like Calvert Hospital at all. If one of us is sick, I take them to DC (Children's Hospital) or to Annapolis. Both times I had a c-section and it was convenient, painless and quick. Some extra healing time is needed but it is nice to be pampered. Good luck! Best of wishes and don't worry - I'm sure it will be fine no matter what you decide to do.

Luckily, I'm not stressed or worried. I'm actually a really laid back, go with the flow, kinda chick. I just want to make an informed decision and enjoy the pregnancy. I've heard nothing bad about Annapolis. Everyone has had great things to say, on the forums and irl. I've gotten a few negative pm's about Calvert, which bring up some great points to speak with my OB about.

While I understand that hubby & I have to make the decision that is right for us, it helps to get feedback from others who have been in our situation. Obviously, there are A LOT of kids around here so you all know what we're going through. Keep the responses coming. Thanks everyone!

 

[DanceMom]

For my 2nd child I had a normal pregnacy and had a repeat c-section at St. Mary's - however, unforseen complications arose and my child was given the best care SMH could give. Dr. Nwideke delivered him, and the team of nurses and pediatrican on staff jumped to save him. The nurses manually breathed for my boy for 3 hours while we awaited for the emergency team from Childrens National Medical Team to arrive. Thankfully my boy recovered. Bottom line is SMH does not have a NICU and they don't have the specialists - but they do know how to deliver babies and save them if necessary. If I were to have more children I wouldn't go to any other OBGYN.

 

[DanceMom]

still am, along with my, other nephew and nieces now...

Don't forget a wife comes with a baby/babies - and when we're pregnant we are way worse than our worse PMS day - so be sure you really love her!!! I told my husband, you promised to love me forever in our wedding vows - and I'm holding you to it! And yes, you will get the cravings in the middle of the night and yes, hubby needs to run and get them.

 

[deemerma]

Did you get a response from toppick yet?

No, actually...should I take offense to that, lol!?!:shrug:From what I read on other threads, he had family in town and so I'm sure he just didn't see my proposition yet, yeah...I'll go with that :brushingoffbruisedego: Good luck with your pregnancy to all!

 

[toppick08]

as a matter of fact, I'm considering letting toppick get me pregnant, he has to take full custody though I've got two spitfires now; and I have to clear it w/ my hubby first. Hubby surely doesn't want to get me pregnant anymore and I love every moment of it and have been begging--it's a win-win! HA!

 

[me123]

Hubby and I are expecting our first baby!

I'm starting my 7th week of pregnancy. I currently go to Calvert OBGYN and as things stand now, I would deliver our baby at Calvert Hospital. I like my doctor there but we only moved here less than a year ago so I don't have a long standing bond with her. The hospital is only 10 minutes from our house, making it really convenient.

I recently spoke with someone who lives in Calvert but opted to go to Annapolis OBGYN (an hour away) to deliver her 4 kids instead of staying local. She was considered high risk (twins & age). She said that Calvert would have to fly the baby out if there were any complications during birth. She further stated that if the baby was ready to join us prior to week 36 that they would advise me to go somewhere else for the delivery because it would be considered high risk and again, they aren't equipped to handle the high risk cases. I will speak with my doctor about all of this at my appt next week.

I know this is a personal decision and I'm probably being paranoid. I have no reason to believe that our baby will have any issues. I just want to get some input from those of you who have had babies at Calvert or opted to go up to Annapolis. I have a few friends who's babies had major issues at birth. It kind of scares me that they may have to fly our baby out instead of taking him/her down the hall for care, if something should go wrong. TIA!

Congrats on your pregnancy!! I'm not sure how close you are to St. Mary's but i go to Dr. Polko's office in Leonardtown and i really like it there I'm delivering in St. Mary's. but if you want to set up a consultation with one of the dr.s there and mention you live in Calvert they have a list of OB's in Calvert you can contact that they like. I live in Calvert and that's what they told me.

 

[redhotmomma]

Hubby and I are expecting our first baby!

I'm starting my 7th week of pregnancy. I currently go to Calvert OBGYN and as things stand now, I would deliver our baby at Calvert Hospital. I like my doctor there but we only moved here less than a year ago so I don't have a long standing bond with her. The hospital is only 10 minutes from our house, making it really convenient.

I recently spoke with someone who lives in Calvert but opted to go to Annapolis OBGYN (an hour away) to deliver her 4 kids instead of staying local. She was considered high risk (twins & age). She said that Calvert would have to fly the baby out if there were any complications during birth. She further stated that if the baby was ready to join us prior to week 36 that they would advise me to go somewhere else for the delivery because it would be considered high risk and again, they aren't equipped to handle the high risk cases. I will speak with my doctor about all of this at my appt next week.

I know this is a personal decision and I'm probably being paranoid. I have no reason to believe that our baby will have any issues. I just want to get some input from those of you who have had babies at Calvert or opted to go up to Annapolis. I have a few friends who's babies had major issues at birth. It kind of scares me that they may have to fly our baby out instead of taking him/her down the hall for care, if something should go wrong. TIA!

I had that problem. My doctor was in the hospital i would of gave birth in and it was 5 minutes away. Because i kept going in and out of labor premature they said they wouldn't deliver my baby there. I would have to go to another hospital. i was so mad.