Originally posted by vraiblonde
Penguin, just because you get annoyed with your mate doesn't mean they're not perfect for you. When you live with someone it's inevitable that you're going to get bent with them from time to time. I wouldn't be interested in having a husband that we agreed on everything all the time - I'd have to pick a fight with him to keep it interesting.
I guess I just feel that perfection in ANY shape or form can't be reached on earth. So... I can't fathom the concept of finding a "perfect mate".
However, I completely understand what you mean...
I would consider that individual right for you...
or that they may even be your soulmate.
IMO, if your mate is "perfect" for you, then you would have the perfect relationship... in which there are no fights, etc... which like you said isn't possible for me...and seems unnatural.