Private Detective

[Pandora]

What crawled up your butt and died?

Slotted, but I don't think he wants anyone to know. Too painful.

 

[CandyRain]

Private Detective 10-09-2006 09:58 AM Will you watch me undress and jerk off at my window?

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Private Detective 10-09-2006 10:06 AM Whats gross about that? Mag is a sexy man who I would like to be at my window...

Magnum, looks like you have your own stalker....

 

[Magnum]

Ya kinda asked for that one. But

No I have really helped people before. My cousin was cheating on her husband and I wound up getting pictures of her with the guy kissing in a bar. Also tailed some people for my friends a long time ago. No one ever knew all my vehicles so if a friend was curious I would pile everyone in and we would go for a ride to follow people.

 

[Magnum]

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Private Detective 10-09-2006 10:06 AM Whats gross about that? Mag is a sexy man who I would like to be at my window...

Magnum, looks like you have your own stalker....

I know.... If only I knew who

 

[mainman]

What crawled up your butt and died?

:shrug: Lighten up...

 

[Pandora]

YEARS ago, I was dating the oldest of three brothers and I went out one night with the other two brothers girlfriends. We went to dinner and the movies and on the way back, they wanted me to go with them, walk through the woods, in the dark, to the rear of Reeves Place, off of Banister Circle, to stalk his house. I said y’all have at it; I’m going home. Glad I did, because THEY got caught.

 

[vraiblonde]

I'm here trying to find a legal way for her to help herself.

A legal way for her to help herself would be to get counseling and figure out why she engages in destructive relationships.

 

[CandyRain]

A legal way for her to help herself would be to get counseling and figure out why she engages in destructive relationships.

Yes but somehow she's convinced herself that the only way to make the break and move on is to have proof of infidelity. Her suspicions are making her (and thus, me) a little . She's also convinced herself that if she breaks up without proof, it's possible he's not a bad person and that he'll end up happy with someone else and she'll be left wishing she'd stayed with him.

 

[vraiblonde]

Yes but somehow she's convinced herself that the only way to make the break and move on is to have proof of infidelity. Her suspicions are making her (and thus, me) a little . She's also convinced herself that if she breaks up without proof, it's possible he's not a bad person and that he'll end up happy with someone else and she'll be left wishing she'd stayed with him.

No offense, but your friend sounds crazy.

 

[aps45819]

She's also convinced herself that if she breaks up without proof, it's possible he's not a bad person and that he'll end up happy with someone else and she'll be left wishing she'd stayed with him.

They don't live together, he's a big drinker, when they're not together, he's often not accessible on his cell and/or home phones.

So she doesn't want the drunk that avoids her to be happy?

 

[Pandora]

Yes but somehow she's convinced herself that the only way to make the break and move on is to have proof of infidelity. Her suspicions are making her (and thus, me) a little . She's also convinced herself that if she breaks up without proof, it's possible he's not a bad person and that he'll end up happy with someone else and she'll be left wishing she'd stayed with him.

It amazes me that the heavy drinking wouldn't have already sent him packing. :shrug: Heavy drinking is usually a sign of unresolved emotional issues.

 

[Nanny Pam]

There is a TV show, called "CHEATERS" and they do the investigation for free as long as you allow them to put the confrontation on TV.
That show cracks me up.

 

[Nanny Pam]

 

[Magnum]

YEARS ago, I was dating the oldest of three brothers and I went out one night with the other two brothers girlfriends. We went to dinner and the movies and on the way back, they wanted me to go with them, walk through the woods, in the dark, to the rear of Reeves Place, off of Banister Circle, to stalk his house. I said y’all have at it; I’m going home. Glad I did, because THEY got caught.

I knew someone that lived back there, not a good place to be at night. I was driving around the circle a few years ago and someone shot at my truck, hit my dang window, I tried to chase the guys but they hid in the woods

 

[nightowl]

A legal way for her to help herself would be to get counseling and figure out why she engages in destructive relationships.

I agree, why would she want a man that drinks and doesn't call back. Sounds like she has a lot of thing to work out in her own head.

 

[lillymay]

Yeah, if you have to hire someone because of being suspicious then I'd say move on! But, if you want to hire someone, I'm available but not cheap.

 

[Winn Dixie]

No offense, but your friend sounds crazy.

and extremely insecure. Why would she even want to waste her time and money? :shrug:

 

[Wenchy]

and extremely insecure. Why would she even want to waste her time and money? :shrug:

She thought he was her exclusive gigolo, and now she's on the warpath.

 

[Mikeinsmd]

Drama for the day. :eyeroll:

A friend of mine suspects her boyfriend may be cheating. They don't live together, he's a big drinker, when they're not together, he's often not accessible on his cell and/or home phones. She's thinking about hiring someone to camp out and watch his house to see his comings and goings and to see if there's anyone coming and going with him. Anyone ever used one or know someone who did? How expensive was it?

Tell Tigerlily to PM me. I know a couple forumites who are good snoops. Dougster won't be able to get lost if he tried.

 

[RoseRed]