Public Humiliation as a Punishment?

bohman

bohman

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Fubar said:
This is insensitive and cold. I believe in discipline but this is ridiculous. How could a mother subject her child to such humiliation. This could scar him for life. Discipline can be effectively addressed within the home. She could have done this by withholding his Nintendo for a month, no allowances, no treats, suspension from the baseball team, etc..there are so many other options.
All it will do is produce more anger and resentment in the child. Shame on the mother.

A parent can shape a child without being cruel. This woman should be made to take classes in good parenting. I think she should wear a sign... that reads - " I failed as a parent " and on the other side - " I will make better choices for my children " How can one belittle their own children, in public no less?

It's wrong to spank our children but it's ok to mentally abuse and humiliate them?
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I do agree that the mother never should have let it come to this. Had there been a little more discipline, and maybe a few spankings, drastic measures wouldn't be needed.

I actually just finished a little reading on the MD Judicial case site. A former friend of mine will be living in state-provided housing for a while - Possession, distribution, assault, armed robbery, breaking & entering, burglary; the long list of crap he's done is all catching up to him now, at the ripe old age of 26. Throughout our childhood, his mom ALWAYS stuck up for him no matter what he did. "Oh no, he was home with me all night!" BS. He knew that Mom would always provide bail, lawyers fees & legal support no matter what.

If she would have just beat him silly a few times when he started stealing cigarettes at age 11, maybe he wouldn't be wearing an orange jumpsuit. :shrug: Should have put him out on the corner with a big sign that said, "I steal cigarettes."
 
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Gwydion

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Fubar said:
This is insensitive and cold. I believe in discipline but this is ridiculous. How could a mother subject her child to such humiliation. This could scar him for life. Discipline can be effectively addressed within the home. She could have done this by withholding his Nintendo for a month, no allowances, no treats, suspension from the baseball team, etc..there are so many other options.
All it will do is produce more anger and resentment in the child. Shame on the mother.
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And when she has tried all of those, and the twit is still acting up, what then? Sit around and let him be an azzhole?

It's wrong to spank our children but it's ok to mentally abuse and humiliate them?
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Nobody said it was wrong for kids to be beat. I got beat, and I would assume most older people on these forums did as well. And most of us turned out alright.


Do you remember that article about those two bimbo sluts from Florida that stole the money from the Girl Scouts and then went back and taunted the little girls when they were made to give it back?

What should happen to them? IMO they should have to do something like this. Those two sluts should have to do some sewer diving then be forced to stand in the middle of a mall with a sign that reads I'm a #####.


Someitmes standard punishments are not enough.


DO you recall when that guy right after 9/11 went around a neighborhood and stole the american flags hanging off people's porches?

When he got caught, the punishment HE got was standing along side a road and waving an american flag for a few days. Which, IMO, is a MUCh better punishment than the minor fine he would have gotten.
 
High EGT

High EGT

Gort! Klaatu barada nikto
Fubar said:
This is insensitive and cold. I believe in discipline but this is ridiculous. How could a mother subject her child to such humiliation. This could scar him for life. Discipline can be effectively addressed within the home. She could have done this by withholding his Nintendo for a month, no allowances, no treats, suspension from the baseball team, etc..there are so many other options.
All it will do is produce more anger and resentment in the child. Shame on the mother.

A parent can shape a child without being cruel. This woman should be made to take classes in good parenting. I think she should wear a sign... that reads - " I failed as a parent " and on the other side - " I will make better choices for my children " How can one belittle their own children, in public no less?

It's wrong to spank our children but it's ok to mentally abuse and humiliate them?
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What rank do you hold within the PC police?
 
High EGT

High EGT

Gort! Klaatu barada nikto
Fubar said:
I'm not in the PC police dept or w/the grammar nazi brigade-but when did it become okay to humiliate children?
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When our society decided to limit choices of discipline from schools and further when big brother government intruded into homes and public (PC Police). But if you care to bother, look at how the Japanese handle discipline and you'll discover they use the power of humiliation very effectively through out their society. Thanks for the Red...:really:
 
Lugnut

Lugnut

I'm Rick James #####!
This thread is awesome. :sarcasm:

I have a unique idea. Discipline your kid as YOU see fit, and leave other kids discipline to THEIR parents.

If you have enough time to put your nose into some strangers business and form thoughts on how they should go about raising kids (in a completely different situation/environment than your own) to YOUR satisfaction, you probably aren't putting enough time and attention into your OWN kids.
 
Chasey_Lane

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Lugnut said:
This thread is awesome. :sarcasm:

I have a unique idea. Discipline your kid as YOU see fit, and leave other kids discipline to THEIR parents.

If you have enough time to put your nose into some strangers business and form thoughts on how they should go about raising kids (in a completely different situation/environment than your own) to YOUR satisfaction, you probably aren't putting enough time and attention into your OWN kids.
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Good post! :buddies:
 
smoothmarine187

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Lugnut said:
This thread is awesome. :sarcasm:

I have a unique idea. Discipline your kid as YOU see fit, and leave other kids discipline to THEIR parents.

If you have enough time to put your nose into some strangers business and form thoughts on how they should go about raising kids (in a completely different situation/environment than your own) to YOUR satisfaction, you probably aren't putting enough time and attention into your OWN kids.
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:rolleyes: That's why I saw some older lady hooking up with your 15 year old
 
Mdcopswife

Mdcopswife

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Lugnut said:
This thread is awesome. :sarcasm:

I have a unique idea. Discipline your kid as YOU see fit, and leave other kids discipline to THEIR parents.

If you have enough time to put your nose into some strangers business and form thoughts on how they should go about raising kids (in a completely different situation/environment than your own) to YOUR satisfaction, you probably aren't putting enough time and attention into your OWN kids.
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:high5:Good post!
 
Lugnut

Lugnut

I'm Rick James #####!
Public Humiliation as a... 02-26-2008 04:39 PM STFU asswipe-God forbid if you have children!

Getting a little testy are we? I can probably guess why...

You must be one of those pieces of #### that likes telling others how to raise their kids while your own are failing school, giving blow jobs for lunch money, snorting your pain pills (no doubt prescribed for the cranial rectal inversion you suffer), and screaming at you in the middle of wally world for not buying them ANOTHER 12lb's of candy (like that fat tub of lard needed the FIRST 12lb's for dessert after a double whopper combo meal :rolleyes:), while you quietly whisper hollow "time out" threats with a look of constipated chagrin stuck to your face like last nights duct tape on your poor kids gerbil!

:howdy:
 
flomaster

flomaster

J.F. A sus ordenes!
Totally off topic here but I had to laugh as the Benya realestate site that story is linked through had me rolling on the floor. 3 for the price of one. Thats because she sucks at doing her job. She screwed me out of buying my dream home by not doing what she said what she was going to do in a timely manner. back then she worked for Comstock Earnest in Waldorf and I will never use them or any century 21 realty place again. Just for the record marsha if you read this, I never forgot about the poor service I recieved from you and how crappy Comstock Earnest treated me in resolving the problem.

Okay kids, back to you regularly programmed schedule! :)

As far as public humilation goes, I think its a great idea but only under extreme circumstances.
 
getbent

getbent

Thats how them b*tch's R
Didn't someone post a story that their child acted up (can't remember what he/she did) and they were made to call her relatives and explain to them what happened? I could be wrong but thought I read about it on here.
 
vraiblonde

vraiblonde

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Fubar said:
This is insensitive and cold. I believe in discipline but this is ridiculous. How could a mother subject her child to such humiliation. This could scar him for life.
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This, my friends, is what's wrong with children today - parents like Fubar.
 
Fubar

Fubar

Look my ass glows!
vraiblonde said:
This, my friends, is what's wrong with children today - parents like Fubar.
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Well he managed to make it to 30:lmao: He's never been arrested, is clean and sober, has a steady job, contributes to society and even owns a Harley.:faint:
Sorry most of you find humiliating your children SOP. This my friends, is what's wrong with the children today.:deadhorse
 
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