Question for Married Folk w/ children NOT by your spouse...
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lovinmaryland
Well-Known Member
Well if your kind would stay up there in waldorf shiat like that wouldn't happen in our neck of the woods now would itQurious said:Which one of your friends has skeletons in his closet, got his ass beat and ended up in ICU at the Green Turtle?
mv_princess
mv = margaritaville
I didn't know the Green Turtle had an ICU. I figured those were just at hospitals.Qurious said:Which one of your friends has skeletons in his closet, got his ass beat and ended up in ICU at the Green Turtle?
lovinmaryland
Well-Known Member
You know exactly what i am talking about there is no need for me to explainQurious said:"your kind"
Explain.
Is your spouse just supposed to say nothing when your kid does wrong? I'd make sure the ex-spouse and my new spouse were in agreement on what punishments should be, but YES they should be able to take part in disciplining....in my opinion.
Tinkerbell
Baby blues
Mikeinsmd said:
mv_princess
mv = margaritaville
I thought you said you had class?Qurious said:
A person with class doesn't tell someone else to kill themself
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wkndbeacher
Guest
Qurious said:Do you let him/her discipline your kids even though they aren't the biological parent?
Well I think if your kids are only use to you doing the punishments, then youd need to sit down with them and explain that in a relationship everything is 50/50 and that includes correcting children when it should be done. I know this will be in my future when I find someone so advise is also appreciate on how other posters dealt with this situation.
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wkndbeacher
Guest
Qurious said:I do.
Cant you feel the love in here today?
mv_princess
mv = margaritaville
No you pretty much don't. Or else you wouldn't have told someone to kill themself.Qurious said:I do.
It's ok, I am sure there are classes out there for you to learn some class.
thank u for sticking to the topic.
lovinmaryland
Well-Known Member
Qurious said:
Oh really now
migtig
aka Mrs. Giant
I'm not married and have no children, but I am going to answer anyway. Even when dating someone who has kids, pets, or senile parents, I am willing to discipline them, and I expect the same in return. I'd be the mean mommy and everybody would be grounded. No excuses. So in return, I do expect others to discipline my young'uns if I had any, and not just my spouse, but my friends and family as well. I get mad if people visit and encourage bad behavior in my dog. I expect discipline at all times. Rules must be obeyed. :ten-hut:
Seriously, my roommate was dating a guy with kids. Said kids came over every weekend. No discipline whatsoever by anybody. So I did it. Those children behaved for me and nobody else. Why? Cause I was the only one sat them down told them the rules and the punishment. I have never once yelled at a child, nor have I ever hit/smacked one. Being a disciplinarian doesn't mean being mean.
Seriously, my roommate was dating a guy with kids. Said kids came over every weekend. No discipline whatsoever by anybody. So I did it. Those children behaved for me and nobody else. Why? Cause I was the only one sat them down told them the rules and the punishment. I have never once yelled at a child, nor have I ever hit/smacked one. Being a disciplinarian doesn't mean being mean.
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wkndbeacher
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Question for Married Fo... 08-24-2007 02:08 PM Thought I'd return the red
Thanks for the red, whoever did that.
Thanks for the red, whoever did that.
