Re: A visit to a gay website...
Originally posted by Hessian Why try to lure more to join this "lifestyle?" Why glamourize it? Wouldn't a diseased person who was under such oppression be screaming "Flee! Stop before its too late! Don't do what I have done!" (but then again we are not dealing with normal people so that logic does not apply)
What luring goes on, Hessian? You've bought into a sack of lies, and you're so deeply into it that you can't see anything else.
What glamour? My life is the most boring life I know of.
What disease? Physiological disease? We've already been over that. Psychological disease? Check what the
American Psychiatric Association and the
American Psychological Association have to say about that.
Originally posted by Hessian
Why fight so hard to say you're satisfied with it?
You really have to ask that question? It's because of folks like you, Hessian, who constantly tell us that we are
not happy, well-adjusted, normal, decent human beings, when
we know that we are. Call me slow; I am finally beginning to learn that the Hessians of the world will never accept some truths.
Originally posted by Hessian
Why flaunt it when you know society will condemn you even more?
Flaunt it?! Clearly you see only what you want to. Do you take the "Jacks" of television as perfectly accurate representations of every gay man on the planet? I can only suggest that you take a look around you at church this Sunday, and say to yourself, "Someone in this sanctuary is probably gay." You may be surprised at the feeling that evokes --
if you have the nerve to try it.
Failing that, and since you are into blanket generalizations, please tell me exactly how I "flaunt it."
Originally posted by Hessian
I say it is a love of victimhood. A cry for attention... A form of revenge against a family...a form of rebellion...an act of defiance toward God...
You say? ~chuckle~
Victimhood? BS. Revenge? You didn't read my post wherein I mentioned my family, did you?
Rebellion? Defiance?
Why would a follower of Christ -- and many of us
are followers of Christ, or observant Jews, or otherwise faithful and devout believers -- need to defy God, who has no problem with us?
(In this vein, here's a web site I'd like to get your opinion on. I've mentioned Fred Phelps on these boards before;
this is one of his sites. Please do comment.)
Originally posted by Hessian
Thus it is hard to reform your life because it would involve saying...I was wrong, it was immoral...and I'm sorry for the pain I have caused both emotional & physical.
There's no need for me to reform my life
again. I did it years ago, when I was so f*$#&! up I couldn't function. I was wrong about a great many things, including my orientation. I only found peace after I accepted who I am. Furthermore, my orientation has not caused a single soul any harm, either physical or emotional. It's caused my dad some embarrassment, but that is his baggage, and it's due mainly to the fact that he thinks about the subject like you do.
Originally posted by Hessian "I'm Happy!, I'm satisfied!, I'm normal!" They aren't...and we know it...:hohum:
How freaking absurd can one get? Who is this "we" who defies the life experience of millions of gay folk?
I'm sorry, Hessian - I'm not buying it. I know too many gays that just don't fit that stereotype. And I know too many heterosexuals that are as sexually "unsanitary" as the day is long. 
:silly: :stooges: 
