Where's the calls for equality here?
If this was a team mate, a male friend in an elevator, they'd be expected to shake hands, move on, right? Well, this woman married the guy AFTER the incident. Does she need to be protected from herself now that we, with all our super powers of KNOWING what's going on merely by use of our Youtube's, have handed down our decree?
This is, of course, somewhat tongue in cheek but it IS to question this idiotic construct of equality in this and that but, not that and this. Is it, truly, never ok to hit a guy? Well, of course not. If that was what's his face the dundering wanna be college student/little angel in Ferguson, we'd say Ray was well within his rights and fat boy shouldn't oughta had approached a fella in an aggressive manner like that. So, what of equality?