If there weren't men out there that loved big women I would still be a virgin
is not gonna be happy about this.
you told them that you were a virgin.
For the record, big difference between fluffy hottie (BBW) and nasty cow. Of course, everyone's definitions of "big," "fat," "normal," "twig," etc. are different. I like to start with the following checklist:
1. Under 250- how much under depends on several factors. I don't expect a 6' chick with a nice rack and hips as wide as a truck to be 160 or even 180 lbs.
2. Boobs stick out father than the belly
3. Belly does not resemble "nasty, hanging-over-belt beer gut"
4. I cannot use their ass as a shelf
5. T&A are somewhat proportionate to each other
6. Face is kissable