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Chain729

CageKicker Extraordinaire
Are you referring to me? :confused:

Being Mistress of My Domain means not even using B.O.B. I don't want to live without it, but I can.

No, Kris.

I know what you meant. Technically, you can live without your children too, but you'd be miserable- that was the original point. you forget who you're trying to fool. :lmao:
 

Radiant1

Soul Probe
No, Kris.

I know what you meant. Technically, you can live without your children too, but you'd be miserable- that was the original point. you forget who you're trying to fool. :lmao:

My children would be a different case all together.

I said I didn't want to live without it but I could, being :gossip: doesn't mean one is miserable.

Now, I'm going to go back to ignoring you. :buttkick:
 
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kris31280

Guest
No, she just whines to her gf's about life not being fullfilling. There's a difference between sex and just getting off. One can't replace the other.
:lmao: I don't whine to my girlfriend's about life not being fulfilling. I've apparently been so vocal about my not wanting someone that any time I mention an interest in someone I'm asked "I thought you were against marriage." or "I thought you were a lesbian."

Sex and B.O.B. are different, sure... but with B.O.B. I'm guarenteed to get off without all the BS drama that goes in to relationships and at least I know it's sex with someone I love :shrug:
 

Chain729

CageKicker Extraordinaire
My children would be a different case all together.

i said i didn't want to live without it but i could, being a snappy, evil :gossip: going off over stupid crap because i'm high strung doesn't mean one is miserable.

Now, i'm going to go back to ignoring you. :buttkick:

:duh: Like I said, I don't who you're trying to kid. :lol:
 

ItalianScallion

Harley Rider
Your right!!! I don't think women or men realize. Nobody like loneliness but who the he$$ likes the crap too? I would 10 times rather be alone now then to have to go through the other stuff. It's nothing but a headache and I'm too old and too tired to put up with it. You also have to understand it's YOUTH!!! You do things like that at 24 and be surprised how much you can tolerate. It's not until MUCH LATER and too many lousy relationships that you begin to not care anymore of whether or not your alone. You also become set in your ways and much choosier about potential mates.

Sure but even in my youth I never had any intention of living with a gal I was dating. I spent a day or night or 3 with her but then it was go home time for both of us. She could call anytime and so could I and it worked out fine but today it's; "get her #, move her in and ask her name later" and this crap is ruining the name of marriage and relationships.
I find that too many people today settle for much less than they want for the sake of NOT being alone and I will NOT go that route. Recently, I've gone out with gals as few as one or two times just to have a good time and the door is still open to any of them today but I made my intentions clear from the start and they accepted them. Maybe I should lie and mentally abuse them and they'd be asking me to marry them.:lmao: I swear, the worse that some gals are treated, the more they stay with their boy toys....
 

Queenofdenile1

Love is Blind
Sure but even in my youth I never had any intention of living with a gal I was dating. I spent a day or night or 3 with her but then it was go home time for both of us. She could call anytime and so could I and it worked out fine but today it's; "get her #, move her in and ask her name later" and this crap is ruining the name of marriage and relationships.
I find that too many people today settle for much less than they want for the sake of NOT being alone and I will NOT go that route. Recently, I've gone out with gals as few as one or two times just to have a good time and the door is still open to any of them today but I made my intentions clear from the start and they accepted them. Maybe I should lie and mentally abuse them and they'd be asking me to marry them.:lmao: I swear, the worse that some gals are treated, the more they stay with their boy toys....

Interesting to hear this coming from a guy, not bad!! I would have to agree with much of what you are stating. I think times are much different today. When I was 24, I didn't live w/a guy but I did eventually and you do learn quite a bit from living with a person. However, the downside of it is that there is no "dating" anymore. I think some people just have a more difficult time coping with "not having someone" and especially when they have been used to having someone around all the time. As for the women, it bothers me that they are the pursuers these days. I'm all for women's lib but it's still nice to have a guy pursue a young lady. The women of today are too aggressive. They see something they want and they just go for it. You made the perfect statement...they ask the men. I wonder if men like aggressive women? I wouldn't think so, but guys of today are different too.

I admit I've done my share of poor relationships, but am I now too set in my ways or too picky or just afraid? I don't know, perhaps all three!! I never intended to live with anyone when I was younger but I did. I am much more skeptical today. I also wonder if it's being alone that people are afraid of or if they move someone in based on finances? Maybe a little of both? Times are tougher today.
 

backagain39

New Member
Interesting to hear this coming from a guy, not bad!! I would have to agree with much of what you are stating. I think times are much different today. When I was 24, I didn't live w/a guy but I did eventually and you do learn quite a bit from living with a person. However, the downside of it is that there is no "dating" anymore. I think some people just have a more difficult time coping with "not having someone" and especially when they have been used to having someone around all the time. As for the women, it bothers me that they are the pursuers these days. I'm all for women's lib but it's still nice to have a guy pursue a young lady. The women of today are too aggressive. They see something they want and they just go for it. You made the perfect statement...they ask the men. I wonder if men like aggressive women? I wouldn't think so, but guys of today are different too.

I admit I've done my share of poor relationships, but am I now too set in my ways or too picky or just afraid? I don't know, perhaps all three!! I never intended to live with anyone when I was younger but I did. I am much more skeptical today. I also wonder if it's being alone that people are afraid of or if they move someone in based on finances? Maybe a little of both? Times are tougher today.

I am too picky, I am looking for John Wayne..........:killingme
Actually I am not looking. I was married for 24 years before my husband passed and our marriage was no picnic. I loved him but it was rough. I am enjoying so much now that I don't want to give up my freedom and it's as simple as that.
 

ItalianScallion

Harley Rider
Interesting to hear this coming from a guy, not bad!! I would have to agree with much of what you are stating.....
As for the women, it bothers me that they are the pursuers these days. I'm all for women's lib but it's still nice to have a guy pursue a young lady. The women of today are too aggressive. They see something they want and they just go for it. You made the perfect statement...they ask the men. I wonder if men like aggressive women? I wouldn't think so, but guys of today are different too.
Why do you say that's " interesting...coming from a guy"? I grew up the hard way and learned what I know "from the street" as they say.
And yes, today the women are the pursuers. Sadly, they're too agressive because of self esteem problems caused mostly by a lack of their dad in their lives.
I don't mind aggressive gals to a point. I enjoy a gal coming up and showing an interest in me but it isn't necessary because, if I'm interested, I WILL find out if she is available within 2 minutes.
I can't remember the last time I saw a young guy driving a young girl around. 99.9% of all teen kids I see together in a car are usually being driven by a girl. This, too, is wrong but that's for another thread.
Queenofdenile1 said:
I admit I've done my share of poor relationships, but am I now too set in my ways or too picky or just afraid? I don't know, perhaps all three!! I never intended to live with anyone when I was younger but I did. I am much more skeptical today. I also wonder if it's being alone that people are afraid of or if they move someone in based on finances? Maybe a little of both? Times are tougher today.
I've lived alone for 31 years now and I'm not afraid of being alone, it's just that I don't want to be. I retired at 48 to care for my parents and now that they're both gone, I enjoy life as much as I can. The problem is that everyone is working!!! I do a lot of things during the week to keep busy but mostly for others and not for me so I feel good but there is still one small void in my life. Financially I'm fine and I've done everything I want to do so now I just have fun with anyone I can. I still need my space and quiet so I will not have someone living with me, unless we're married, even if we're totally compatible. Humans weren't meant to be alone so there is a need for companionship.:yay:
 

ItalianScallion

Harley Rider
I am too picky, I am looking for John Wayne..........:killingme
Actually I am not looking. I was married for 24 years before my husband passed and our marriage was no picnic. I loved him but it was rough. I am enjoying so much now that I don't want to give up my freedom and it's as simple as that.
Marion Morrison, didn't he die a few years back??:lmao: J/K.
A rough marriage can make you "once bitten twice shy" for sure. Don't give up, just be very careful to use your head more than your heart.:howdy:
 
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kris31280

Guest
I'll have a relationship when I find the man who can understand what the lyric "...Deeper in to our heavenly suffering our fragile souls are falling..." means and understands why it's important to me.
 

ItalianScallion

Harley Rider
I'll have a relationship when I find the man who can understand what the lyric "...Deeper in to our heavenly suffering our fragile souls are falling..." means and understands why it's important to me.
There you go expecting us to be mind readers!
Come back down to earth please!
 
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kris31280

Guest
I know all about heaven and souls but I can't understand what these psycho song writers mean with their lyrics most of the time.:shrug:
:lol: "What's true about music is true about life, that it reveals nothing because it expresses everything."
 

Radiant1

Soul Probe
I know all about heaven and souls but I can't understand what these psycho song writers mean with their lyrics most of the time.:shrug:


I'm not familiar with the song and I can understand that verse in two different ways; however, words mean different things to different people so it would be hard to say what Kris understands by it, or even what the writer meant by it.

Kris, i think ItSc is right, you're kind of expecting someone to read your mind.
 
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kris31280

Guest
I'm not familiar with the song and I can understand that verse in two different ways; however, words mean different things to different people so it would be hard to say what Kris understands by it, or even what the writer meant by it.

Kris, i think ItSc is right, you're kind of expecting someone to read your mind.
Heh... I'll just put that on the "getting to know you" list... ask a guy what that lyric means to him and we'll see if it jives with my answer :yay:
 
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