wow, thanks for the overwheliming reponse everyone! I had a blonde momenth last night with the whole glen forest thing, i did know they were on base housing, but in all my frustration of trying to figure this out, I didn't even realize that's what people were talking about! Lol, I get wound up pretty tightly about things, and this was no exception. It's nice to hear all these things about the community though....I think our number one priority will definitely be military housing right now...because when it comes down to it, we'd basically have $400 after housing if we lived off base and rent was $850, and seeing how the places we actually would be considering are $1000+, living off base would hurt us....plus, I didn't realize, but because of the way the split your pay and bah into the two week pay periods, we'd also have to hope to find a landlord flexible enough to let us split the rent! I'm definitely going to keep all your tips in mind though if on base housing doesn't work out for some unforseen reason. Does anyone know if there's a wait? I know someone previously mentioned they didn't think there would be, just wondering if anyone else had any input. Also, with on base housing, I know we're looking at trying to get into glen forest, but if you go to lincoln military housing's pax river page (the people who run mil. housing there), they have pictures that aren't any of the layouts I've seen, and I was just wondering if anyone knew what those homes were, because they looked really nice. Anyone have any suggestions as far as jobs? I'm thinking of trying to get a job at jcpenney or old navy over in california, and I know people have mentioned trying to do secretarial work for contractors....I'm looking to work full time, so if anyone has any suggestions, I'm open! To be honest, I do think I'm going to like the area. Believe me, I'm sure it sounds weird, but I'm looking forward to having nothing to do. Where I come from, life isn't so fast paced like it is down here, and I do like it down here but the traffic and some elements of city life just aren't my cup of tea. Again, thank you all so so much!