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I'm on my way over.beachcat said:things are so dry in my life these days, if a man did that to ME, i'd be charged with raping him
I'm on my way over.beachcat said:things are so dry in my life these days, if a man did that to ME, i'd be charged with raping him
I agree. Boob grabs should be mandatory.vraiblonde said:And while we're scoffing:
Abuse? He grabbed her boob and licked her neck
It's not like he raped her in the bathroom or anything. What a friggin' baby.
"So nice of you to disclose your wifes attack..bet she loves the fact the WHOLE world knows she was assualted...TARD..go away and leave the Forums...."
APS..... PAGING APS.beachcat said:things are so dry in my life these days, if a man did that to ME, i'd be charged with raping him
sockgirl77 said:Dear Mommy,
My friends dog assaults me each time I visit. He sniffs my ass to an extreme that I've never seen. Can I press charges?
,
Socki
vraiblonde said:And while we're scoffing:
Abuse? He grabbed her boob and licked her neck
It's not like he raped her in the bathroom or anything. What a friggin' baby.
sockgirl77 said:Dear Mommy,
My friends dog assaults me each time I visit. He sniffs my ass to an extreme that I've never seen. Can I press charges?
,
Socki
Your wife chose to put herself in to a situation she couldn't handle... and while I'm sorry for her alleged assault, I cannot sympathize with your anger or her choice to not do something about it.metal.guru said:Well Kris, he has been in my book. My wife was one of his previous victims, who decided to let it go, like has been suggested here. My thoughts were to go put a bullet in his skull after it happened, but I followed her wishes. The story this latest victim gave in her reporting document? Verbatim to what I heard a few years ago after my wife could finally talk about it. She's now sorry she didn't say something then. I'm sorry I didn't take care of it my way. Glad you want to give him the benefit of the doubt, I can't.
Heresay. JMO. I'm a woman who has pretty much always worked in a male dominated environment. Sometimes I am not sure on the PC way to handle certain situations and ask for advice, but over the course of my adult life I have been grabbed, fondled, held by the arm, had my job threatened, and more while working. Not once have I ever called the police. 98% of the time you can nip behavior like that in the bud, by not playing along.metal.guru said:Well Kris, he has been in my book. My wife was one of his previous victims, who decided to let it go, like has been suggested here. My thoughts were to go put a bullet in his skull after it happened, but I followed her wishes. The story this latest victim gave in her reporting document? Verbatim to what I heard a few years ago after my wife could finally talk about it. She's now sorry she didn't say something then. I'm sorry I didn't take care of it my way. Glad you want to give him the benefit of the doubt, I can't.
Kinda like a mans wife carrying another mans baby....citysherry said:What one woman might believe is harmless, another might find grossly offensive. When you are sexually harassed or sexually abused, it is not because the perpetrator is horny, but because they are people who will abuse power.
This reminds me....when I die, I want to come back as a dog. I'd be great at leg humping.sockgirl77 said:Dear Mommy,
My friends dog assaults me each time I visit. He sniffs my ass to an extreme that I've never seen. Can I press charges?
,
Socki
I don't consider a boob grab to be "abuse". We toss that word around so much these days that true abuse gets lost in the shuffle of silly claims like this one. Sort of like this rash of willing women suddenly crying rape because "they were too drunk to give consent". It bastardizes the claim for the women who were truly and forcibly raped with threat of bodily harm.citysherry said:What one woman might believe is harmless, another might find grossly offensive. When you are sexually harassed or sexually abused, it is not because the perpetrator is horny, but because they are people who will abuse power.
Where do you draw your conclusions from??kris31280 said:Your wife chose to put herself in to a situation she couldn't handle... and while I'm sorry for her alleged assault, I cannot sympathize with your anger or her choice to not do something about it.
If he indeed has done this many times and your wife chose to let it go, then she is in part responsible for perpetuating his behavior.
I am not implying that it happened many times to his wife... just simply that the claim has been made that the gentleman in question has done this many times before.Mikeinsmd said:Where do you draw your conclusions from??
She CHOSE to put herself in a sit. she couldn't handle??? UFB!!!
Where did he say his wife endured this many times?? In fact, I got from his post that it happened once and he wanted to kill the guy.
migtig said:A woman is hanging out in a dominately male environment, chatting up everybody. She's sassing right back, telling dirty jokes, playing into conversation with sexual innuendo. She says to some guy "oh what I wouldn't do to you but you can't handle it". Days - weeks - conversations like that and flirting - yep it's flirting - and some of it is trying to be one of the guys - which rarely works. When finally that guy says to her "hey let's bang bang I want some". Then the woman gets all freaked out and starts screaming harrassment. IMHO, that's BS, and it's her frigging fault, cause she played into that situation.
kris31280 said:Your wife chose to put herself in to a situation she couldn't handle...
kris31280 said:If he indeed has done this many times and your wife chose to let it go, then she is in part responsible for perpetuating his behavior.
vraiblonde said:I don't consider a boob grab to be "abuse". We toss that word around so much these days that true abuse gets lost in the shuffle of silly claims like this one. Sort of like this rash of willing women suddenly crying rape because "they were too drunk to give consent". It bastardizes the claim for the women who were truly and forcibly raped with threat of bodily harm.
And Metal Guru? I don't believe your story about your wife. Sorry. I find it hard to believe that she was so traumatized by a boob grab that she "couldn't talk about it", even to her own husband.
Back in the day before every touch was considered abuse and every guy was considered an abuser, the women banded together, went to the boss and demanded that the dirty old man be fired. And that was typically the end of it.
Pretty much.bohman said:So any random guy can grab your tit, you slap him, and go on about your day? Nothing else needs to happen at that point?
vraiblonde said:Pretty much.