Chasey_Lane
Salt Life
"Only the strong survive."fttrsbeerwench said:
SAD Angry SAD
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Kain99
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Careful Beerwench....fttrsbeerwench said:
kwillia
n/a
I understand your anger, but I agree with some of the others that your anger is misdirected. A person that lives to use, degrade, and/or disgrace another is only as powerful as the abused allows. If your friend was weak enough to decide that suicide was the only way to handle this abuse, you friend had many other issues that were bigger and deeper than you were obviously aware of. The woman at the receiving end of your hatred is obviously a vial and low-life person, however, she was simply the catalyst.Kain99 said:
Pegster710
The Pegster
Sorry about your friend... 
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Kain99
Guest
BeerWench you just don't know the whole story. Stay out of it! That's advice from someone who cares about you.
If you need to vent go scream into your pillow.
If you need to vent go scream into your pillow.
morganj614
New Member
Kain99 said:
Or find a deserted place and scream into the sky...Berating this lady at the funeral or in a public place only brings negative attention on you.
BuddyLee
Football addict
morganj614 said:
And most importantly, as it follows into Kains logic a bit, is how can you possibly 100% know that this is what that man wants now? How can you be certain that he wants you to attack this woman or do anything for that matter? Live and let live Ms. Wench.
Wickedwrench
Stubborn and opinionated
These are the wisest words I have ever read on these forums.......................vraiblonde said:
fttrsbeerwench
New Member
Thanks alot guys.. I just kind of needed to vent a bit.. I needed to tel SOMEONE how pissed of I was about this.. I know it's really not HER fault.. I'm just angry.....I believe that she will ceom face to face with herself soon enough and she won't like who she finds.
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migtig
aka Mrs. Giant
Sometimes, I find BuddyLee wise beyond his years.
Fttrs, I love you. Events and circumstances are sometimes beyond our power and comprehension. Anger and sadness and the whole gamut of emotions are understandable. Don't act in haste. And when you do act, I will offer my assistance, and perhaps we will take a third along as well.
Fttrs, I love you. Events and circumstances are sometimes beyond our power and comprehension. Anger and sadness and the whole gamut of emotions are understandable. Don't act in haste. And when you do act, I will offer my assistance, and perhaps we will take a third along as well.
fttrsbeerwench
New Member
migtig said:Sometimes, I find BuddyLee wise beyond his years.
Fttrs, I love you. Events and circumstances are sometimes beyond our power and comprehension. Anger and sadness and the whole gamut of emotions are understandable. Don't act in haste. And when you do act, I will offer my assistance, and perhaps we will take a third along as well.
MIG, you know me.... I'm over-sensitive and want to do the right thing.. I want to tell her what I think she is lacking.. I want her to know she isn't fooling anyone and that we all see her as a snake and a whore.. She probably already knows, yet she fails to make an effort to change her habits.
I am mostly talking out my butt about beating her up.. That's not my style.. I might get so overwhelmed at watching her "show" that I tell her to STFU and go find pity elsewhere. Thats what I really want to do.. She sits in my bar, on my shift and I have the right tell her to move the pity party elsewhere.. This is just a way of relieving pressure..
GRRRR! I hate crappy people. I think that if you know you're being a POS... Try to fix yourself.. I wish someone would have b!tchslapped me before I did something I ended up regretting, I would thank them today.
Your last statement sounded almost like a gang bang... Perhaps we should move that to Woody's!
I love you Evil!Uncle Charlie
Beer is Good!!!!
Write a letter and on't mail it
Beerwench - sorry to hear about your friend. Suicide truly only hurts those left behind. And I understand your overwhelming desire to "thrash" the other woman. Don't do it. Don't lower yourself to her level, you are a better person than that.
A good therapy I have done in the past, write a letter. In fact, write two.
Write one to the woman who you feel contributed to this and write one to your friend. BUT DON'T MAIL them. Simply write all the things you are thinking, and wanting to do, keep writing it. Put it in an envelope, address it, and set it aside. In a week or so, burn them and let it all go.
It helps to get it all out of your system just like you have started doing here. Then move on.
Good luck
Beerwench - sorry to hear about your friend. Suicide truly only hurts those left behind. And I understand your overwhelming desire to "thrash" the other woman. Don't do it. Don't lower yourself to her level, you are a better person than that.
A good therapy I have done in the past, write a letter. In fact, write two.
Write one to the woman who you feel contributed to this and write one to your friend. BUT DON'T MAIL them. Simply write all the things you are thinking, and wanting to do, keep writing it. Put it in an envelope, address it, and set it aside. In a week or so, burn them and let it all go.
It helps to get it all out of your system just like you have started doing here. Then move on.
Good luck
fttrsbeerwench
New Member
Great Idea Uncle C.
But that is what I think the forums are for.. I have actually found alot of useful information in this place and when I vent a bit here.. I have a flurry of voices that respond to what's in my head and for the most part, the voices give good advice, because they don't really know me.. Because they can see it from a different POV. More important than the
and the 
, I like to think that at least some of the people on here are smart and have something valuable to say.
Thanks again folks..
But that is what I think the forums are for.. I have actually found alot of useful information in this place and when I vent a bit here.. I have a flurry of voices that respond to what's in my head and for the most part, the voices give good advice, because they don't really know me.. Because they can see it from a different POV. More important than the
and the , I like to think that at least some of the people on here are smart and have something valuable to say.Thanks again folks..