Scenario: Should he be in the delivery room?
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Qurious
Im On 1.
He's a Jerk!
I dont think he's entitled at all. Dude is playing with her emotions. He just has to be or he's bipolar and confused as to what he wants in his life. Leaving her out on a limb not knowing if he's coming home or not is what is driving her nuts. She has no idea if they are seperated temporarily or if its truley over.
Either way I told her wait to see how she feels at the time and not to feel bad if she has that "need" for him to be there. But he certainly doesn't deserve to be there. A woman goes through a lot of emotions I'm sure during that time, especially since she loves him and wants the family to stay together.
I just wanted to see what all of you thought...
im sure there will be more to come.
I dont think he's entitled at all. Dude is playing with her emotions. He just has to be or he's bipolar and confused as to what he wants in his life. Leaving her out on a limb not knowing if he's coming home or not is what is driving her nuts. She has no idea if they are seperated temporarily or if its truley over.
Either way I told her wait to see how she feels at the time and not to feel bad if she has that "need" for him to be there. But he certainly doesn't deserve to be there. A woman goes through a lot of emotions I'm sure during that time, especially since she loves him and wants the family to stay together.
I just wanted to see what all of you thought...
im sure there will be more to come.
LexiGirl75
100% Goapele Head!
Mikeinsmd said:If he's moved out, doesn't visit HIS kids, doesn't call HIS kids, (Dr's appts are irrelevant) he obviously wants out of his former life, why on earth would he want to be in the delivery room??
Oh wait, I put myself in that situation and figured out why.Yeah, let him attend.
:fixed:
Larry Gude
Strung Out
I think he should not only be...
...there, but should get to name the kid, too. And the house should be signed over to him so he can open a line of credit to get his childs room ready which means he's gonna need the keys to the car as well and their damn well better be beer in the fridge before anyone even thinks about leaving the house to go off and laze around the hospital for a few days while he's doing all the work.
Qurious said:Men:
You left your wife who is 6 months pregnant with your 3rd child because you weren't happy. Your staying with a relative who you can't stand but refuse to come back home because you want to move on with your life. You do not visit your kids nor do you call them. You haven't been to one doctors appointment with your wife since she's been pregnant. The time comes for her to have the baby and you want to be there - Do you think your entitled to be in the delivery room when your 3rd child is born?
Ladies:
Do you think he is entitled to be there? Would you want him there?
...there, but should get to name the kid, too. And the house should be signed over to him so he can open a line of credit to get his childs room ready which means he's gonna need the keys to the car as well and their damn well better be beer in the fridge before anyone even thinks about leaving the house to go off and laze around the hospital for a few days while he's doing all the work.
LordStanley
I know nothing
Sounds like she needs a good lawyer and Azzhole needs to start making child support payments...... If you walk out on your family you arent entitled to sh!t
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Fat Momma
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Qurious said:I dont think he's entitled at all. Dude is playing with her emotions. He just has to be or he's bipolar and confused as to what he wants in his life. Leaving her out on a limb not knowing if he's coming home or not is what is driving her nuts. She has no idea if they are seperated temporarily or if its truley over.
Either way I told her wait to see how she feels at the time and not to feel bad if she has that "need" for him to be there. But he certainly doesn't deserve to be there. A woman goes through a lot of emotions I'm sure during that time, especially since she loves him and wants the family to stay together.
I just wanted to see what all of you thought...
im sure there will be more to come.
is this the same person you had on another thread? Can I ask you something....why in the world would you want to get involved and put ot out here on the local chatbox......how old is this woman and can she not think for herself. The writing is on the wall....from the last thread she knew it was coming....so it did....move on....if he wants to be a part of the kids life so be it...if not then as hard as it is they will still be ok.....there is more to this than you are telling, right?
Dougstermd
ORGASM DONOR
hes not allowed in the delivery room
But I bet he is allowed in the bed room.
Am I the only one who is verry veryabout this topic?
But I bet he is allowed in the bed room.
Am I the only one who is verry very
about this topic?
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Fat Momma
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Dougstermd said:hes not allowed in the delivery room
But I bet he is allowed in the bed room.
Am I the only one who is verry very
Yeah I got that too. Three kids and a history of problems......don't be surprised the next thread reads....
....what you you do if your friend has three kids and is carrying the fourth and the man.......
Girl you have too much time on your hands...or you are too nosy...
these are a few of your threads....what gives?
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I know exactly where you are coming from.. My husband left me after we planned to have our second child.. He wasn't happy anymore and wanted to live the single life.. which he did.. He didn't go to not one doctors appointment, didn't visit me while I was in the hospital because I was so sick.. Yet I was still torn because I thought he deserved to be in the delivery room.. Needless to say our baby was born in June and he did come in the delivery room it was a great day and the very next day he was back to being his jackass self.. Hope this helps..
Bustem' Down
Give Peas a Chance
Ah yes. I didn't think about her as a patient. That makes more sense.itsbob said:
