Sex and kids...

Sex, sex, sex...

  • I was too young, wish I'd waited

    Votes: 34 53.1%

  • I was older, glad I waited

    Votes: 18 28.1%

  • I was younger shoulda done it even younger

    Votes: 3 4.7%

  • I was older wish I'd started younger

    Votes: 9 14.1%
  • Total voters
    64
  • Poll closed .
Larry Gude

Larry Gude

Strung Out
Is it better for kids to wait to start having sex or is it better for them to start younger? This is a generalization so, spare me 'what's too young and what's older?' There's plenty of 'adults' who have no business having sex.

If you had sex 'too young' do you wish you would have waited?

If you were over 18 when you started having sex do you wish you'd been younger?
 
vraiblonde

vraiblonde

Board Mommy
PREMO Member
Patron
Too young - should've waited.

Besides, it wasn't all that exciting anyway. Teen boys are such dorks, you have to wonder why any girl would even give them the time of day.
 
lovinmaryland

lovinmaryland

Well-Known Member
vraiblonde said:
Too young - should've waited.

Besides, it wasn't all that exciting anyway. Teen boys are such dorks, you have to wonder why any girl would even give them the time of day.
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:yeahthat:

They didnt know what the hell they were doing, and there was no pleasure involved the first few times... for me anyway :lol:
 
K

KWAK

New Member
I was only 13 - looking back I was too young and wish now I had waited. He was older - knew what he was doing but I still agree it was awful at that age!
 
thurley42

thurley42

HY;FR
13 wow....my friends and I shared a laugh over Xmas talking about this....we weren't really concerned with girls all that much until around 17/18...we'd have parties and worry more about who was winning the Madden Tournament or playing sports...then all the girls that were sitting around trying to get our attention....I was 17 and I think that was a good age...not too old, not too young...
 
puggymom

puggymom

Active Member
Hindsight is 20/20
Think of yourself as a 15-16 year old (I refuse to believe as a parent that anyone younger than that has sex).

Yes I know most people believe they should have waited but why did you make that decision as a teenager? Face it if I knew as a teenager what I know now I would be a completely different person.
 
Larry Gude

Larry Gude

Strung Out
That's...

puggymom said:
Hindsight is 20/20
Think of yourself as a 15-16 year old (I refuse to believe as a parent that anyone younger than that has sex).

Yes I know most people believe they should have waited but why did you make that decision as a teenager? Face it if I knew as a teenager what I know now I would be a completely different person.
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...a cop out I say, politely. Having a civil understanding and general agreement about what is and what is not acceptable is the first step.

We don't accept 30 year olds having sex with 15 year olds but we do accept 45 year olds having sex with 30 year olds.

Point being, stupid teens will, on the whole, do better with guidance and, perhaps one of Vrail's implanted devices. :lmao:
 
bcp

bcp

In My Opinion
Larry Gude said:
We don't accept 30 year olds having sex with 15 year olds but we do accept 45 year olds having sex with 30 year olds.
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Whats the general opinion of a 50 year old boinking a 20 year old?

you know, just curious thats all.:whistle:
 
vraiblonde

vraiblonde

Board Mommy
PREMO Member
Patron
HalfAngel said:
Yeah - and I *thought* I was the $hit for having an older boyfriend!! Obviously, I now have a very different opinion on that!
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This ^ and the poll results are saying something very profound:

Young people think they know everything, that they can "handle" it and are mature enough to make big decisions for themselves.

In retrospect, once we ARE mature, we realize that we didn't know squat and wish we hadn't done the dumb things we did.

This is why it's important for parents to protect kids and teens from their own stupid selves, and not just say "they're gonna do it anyway" or some other such nonsense.
 
K

KWAK

New Member
vraiblonde said:
This ^ and the poll results are saying something very profound:

Young people think they know everything, that they can "handle" it and are mature enough to make big decisions for themselves.

In retrospect, once we ARE mature, we realize that we didn't know squat and wish we hadn't done the dumb things we did.

This is why it's important for parents to protect kids and teens from their own stupid selves, and not just say "they're gonna do it anyway" or some other such nonsense.
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I agree! What I didn't mention was that my "too-cool" boyfriend broke up with me that very evening! And I was devastated. It was a couple of years before I had sex with anyone else after that!
 
Pete

Pete

Repete
HalfAngel said:
I agree! What I didn't mention was that my "too-cool" boyfriend broke up with me that very evening! And I was devastated. It was a couple of years before I had sex with anyone else after that!
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He hosed you and dumped you all in the same night?
 
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