buddscreekman
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Sexual abuse and the opposite sex
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Wishing you and your Husband the best.
buddscreekman
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I have thought of it many times over the years as it has impacted every relationship I've ever had,including my marriage. But I am extremely uneasy about discussing the details of it. I feel almost as if I can look at in the third person and leave it alone,but if I have to identify with it and talk about it,it is almost like reliving it.
buddscreekman
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Thank you for no bad remarks
I actually had a moment of crap...delete this. But we don't know any of you in real life.....and I really don't like talking to people I know about this.
aps45819
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buddscreekman
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Who said it was?
Nickel
curiouser and curiouser
Maybe talking about it/reliving it in a safe place with a neutral person to talk to would be good for you in the long run. It seems like this is disrupting your life and you want to be able to get past it. I wish you all the best.
Nickel
curiouser and curiouser
She suffered sexual abuse as a child which affects her interactions with the opposite sex as an adult.
buddscreekman
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You are confused. If you read the posting,as well as the title,I created a thread discussing two things essentially - a history of sexual abuse and how it relates to the opposite sex. Thus the title is sexual abuse and the opposite sex. There is some presumed connecting of the dots. And why be a dick and play semantics?
buddscreekman
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Please talk to someone-preferably a professional....wishing you well.
I know I should. If any of you have seen anyone and found them helppful and would like to share a referral,please pm me if you're not comfortable saying so on here.
buddscreekman
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No problem. I'm no doubt a little hypersensitive as well right now. And I know,it's a deep dish for the forums but I just wanted to get it out somewhere anonymous and get some feedback.
Baja28
Obama destroyed America
This^^
Maybe someone else who has the same problem will pop in and discuss it with you. It helps to talk to others with the same circumstances.
Good luck to ya!
Give Carol Marcy a call, here's her website: http://www.joylanehealingcenter.net/
She's quite holistic and gentle, and I'll bet you'd feel comfortable with her. She deals a lot with childhood trauma that manifests itself in adult reactions and she's very effective. You're not crazy, you just haven't dealt with and let go of the abuse you suffered as a child. It's perfectly normal and something that can be fixed.
Good luck!
Chasey_Lane
Salt Life
Love her!!! She's very comfortable to speak with. She has two of the cutest doggies that will greet you and keep you company, too!!
Talking about it to an unbiased professional is the best thing to do. It may well likely be painful and uncomfortable to relive. However, working through it will help you in the long run.
Good Luck!