angel_lex21
loved & never 4gotten JBE
My daughter is alright, she is accepting it more each day, my son doesn't really understand other that Aunt Juanita is in heaven and we can't see her. Thankyou for your thoughts
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My daughter is alright, she is accepting it more each day, my son doesn't really understand other that Aunt Juanita is in heaven and we can't see her. Thankyou for your thoughts
i would like to say i am sorry for all my post.i am in a downward spiral and cant stop.i love rob and i just dont understand why he took the root he took.im beating myself up wishing i could have done something.why did i not go over to robs tuesday instead of waiting for wed.why didnt i do something.why kill juanita the mother of your child,why leave your house when you were fine at 8 oclock.why didnt i do something.i am in a bad place right now and like i said im sorry.im just going to pray rob might find peace in heaven that he could not find here.im going to pray juanita is in a better place now and she can find some peace.im going to pray the 5 kids that are without a father and 3 without a mother will grow up normal without devestating images of what happened.once again im sorry just dont know how to deal with this yet.
angel_lex21
loved & never 4gotten JBE
I understand your loss, I understand the beating yourself up, I was standing there on the porch with the police when he killed her, I am full with what if's. I can't eat I can't sleep I have not even been able to bring myself up to go to see her family and the children because I am not sure I can keep myself together long enough. I love her children and would do anything for them, we kept them safe and I tried to keep Juanita safe. You have a right to mourn for him but please don't get on here and drag her threw the mud.
kmw1123
New Member
you have to stop blaming yourself and beating yourself up over your friend's actions. The "what if's" will drive you insane if you don't stop. I had to deal with that when my ex killed himself right after I broke up with him. Just pray for him and the families. That is all you can do.
Bay_Kat
Tropical
In all honesty and I'm saying this to help you. Since you were such a good friend of his, you should try to seek some sort of counseling just someone to talk to and sort out your feelings. If you let them build up, then sometimes bad things can happen. If you want help and can't afford a counselor, I strongly suggest the health department, they have people there that can help you at probably no cost. Just a suggestion.
i ask you not to say such a thing to someone you dont know.im not rob so please do not say such hatefull things to a man that loves his wife more than my life is worth.please dont say things like that to a man whos son is his pride and joy and the greatest gift god could ever give me.you dont know me so please dont tell anyone my wife should leave me before i murder her.that is just uncalled for
once again im sorry about what i said.im just lost right now and went about it the wrong way.im also sorry for what you went through i will also pray for you and your family to help you move on not forget just to help you move on.
Bay_Kat
Tropical
I don't know if it would be fair to say that, but recently it has had many issues. I heard several on the scanner just this evening. I'm so sorry that I actually told my sister a few months ago that CRE was a great place to live and she bought a house there and now she is hearing all these horror stories and I don't know what to say.
AK-74me
"Typical White Person"
No, it would be fair to say that there is quite a bit of trash of ALL colors though.
FireBrand
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Bay_Kat
Tropical
I've been having problems also, it's hit or miss. They only allow a certain amount of people to listen at one time. Mine is down right now too. I've got my crappy trunking scanner on that doesn't pick up very well, especially for what I paid for it. Sounds quiet right now.
Bay_Kat
Tropical
Try here, you might be able to find something that works for you.
Southern Maryland Police & Fire Radio Scanner
FireBrand
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Bay_Kat
Tropical
Thanks !
I like getting just Calvert, but this is my back up in case that one fails, which it seems to do often lately.
No. I think there is alot of "trash" in this whole country. CRE unfortunately gets a bad rap because of some of the people living there make very poor decisions. I live in CRE, on a very nice street, connected to several other very nice streets. All full of people who just can't afford to pay a mortgage on a $350,000 or more house, and CRE happens to have affordable housing.
I'd hate to think that good people like my neighbors and myself get judged based on other people's poor decisions, simply because of where we live. (I know you didn't say everyone living there is trash, I just hope that no one else is feeling that way). As far as places to live go, I'd say that CRE is relatively safe, especially compared to some other surrounding areas (in other counties).
I also hate to think that anyone assume that being in a domestic situation, such as the one being talked about in this thread, makes one "white trash." It happens probably more than most people realize, in all areas, to people in all different classes.
I don't post much ever, but just thought I'd respond to this one. I hope its not offensive in any way to the person to whom I responded, its certainly not meant that way.
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toppick08
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lbreder
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I think a big key here needs to be forgiveness. I know there are so many people out there that are angry with someone or another. People need to forgive and it will help ease the pain. Im not saying do it right away. You have to forgive the fact such a tragic thing happened and think these kids are young enough that they could do the same thing. Learn to come together for these kids and work something out so they dont see that they need to pick a side. I wasnt there and dont know what happened. All I know is someones life was taken and the person took his own. Leave the rest in Gods hands and pray he will have plans for these kids to have a great life.
Domestic situations happen in every marriage, but when it rises to the level where violence comes into play, that in my opinion makes you trash. If you were not educated well enough by your mommy or daddy to realize you don't strike your spouse, well, mommy or daddy has made you trash!