Should you wait?

[BuddyLee]

Originally posted by janey83
what, no one has heard of the diy method?

That gets old and boring after the first year.

Besides why do it yourself when you have someone you love out there.

 

[janey83]

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Originally posted by SmallTown
you need to date hotter women then

*cough* I'm right here.

 

[SmallTown]

See. The problem guys run into is that we feel we are looking out for what the girl wants. We have all been brought up that boys are horny, and girls are little angels.
That my friend, is one of the biggest lies in the universe. They want it just as much (if not more) than we do. They just won't admit it.

The one thing that can be said about all women. They all like to get ######... Well...

 

[BuddyLee]

Originally posted by janey83

Care to back it up.

 

[janey83]

Originally posted by BuddyLee
Care to back it up.

do you really want to make me mad on this issue?

 

[SmallTown]

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Originally posted by janey83
*cough* I'm right here.

Hey, I would be offended by buddy if I were you. He obviously doesn't think enough of you to allow to to enjoy the pleasure of sex for a couple of years.

 

[SmallTown]

and then what happens if you want the two years, or until you're married, then find out the sex sucks? Talk about a waste of precious time

 

[BuddyLee]

Originally posted by janey83
do you really want to make me mad on this issue?

Nope. I'm just wondering if you could back up the statement?:shrug:

 

[janey83]

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Originally posted by SmallTown
Hey, I would be offended by buddy if I were you. He obviously doesn't think enough of you to allow to to enjoy the pleasure of sex for a couple of years.

why does sex have to be such an issue?

people say that they need to have sex before marriage to know what they're getting into...what does that mean? if they're bad it's like "I love you, but this isn't working out for me"......that's horrible.

 

[janey83]

Originally posted by BuddyLee
Nope. I'm just wondering if you could back up the statement?:shrug:

it should be a compromise of what each person in the relationship wants...not just the woman appeasing the man's needs.

 

[SmallTown]

Sorry buddy. If I had known janey was frigid, I wouldn't have pushed so hard for you guys to get together. My bad.

 

[SmallTown]

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Originally posted by janey83
people say that they need to have sex before marriage to know what they're getting into...

Yes, plus it feel so F'in good.

 

[janey83]

Originally posted by SmallTown
Sorry buddy. If I had known janey was frigid, I wouldn't have pushed so hard for you guys to get together. My bad.

:shrug: sure explains why you're online a lot....couldn't find any women to buy into your plans, huh?

 

[BuddyLee]

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Originally posted by janey83
why does sex have to be such an issue?

people say that they need to have sex before marriage to know what they're getting into...what does that mean? if they're bad it's like "I love you, but this isn't working out for me"......that's horrible.

I don't know. I worry and think about all things. The girl that I marry I will have to know for a fact that she is the one or close to being the gal for me. I know that the one I'll marry won't be perfect to my liking but I'd really like to explore all of our possibilities in the relationship and keep it healthy. I think sex is not everything in the relationship but it does certainly make things turn more smoothly. Where will your relationship be if your together for two years and still at the same stage you were at month 2. Things will certainly get boring for the both of you and eventually the relationship could turn sour. In a perfect world for some people no sex until marriage would be ideal. Too bad for them we don't live in a perfect world. The same goes for sex addicts. In a perfect world a relationship would be nothing but sex. Too bad for them we don't live in a perfect world.

 

[SmallTown]

Originally posted by janey83
:shrug: sure explains why you're online a lot....couldn't find any women to buy into your plans, huh?

the plans of you being frigid?

 

[janey83]

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Originally posted by BuddyLee
I don't know. I worry and think about all things. The girl that I marry I will have to know for a fact that she is the one or close to being the gal for me. I know that the one I'll marry won't be perfect to my liking but I'd really like to explore all of our possibilities in the relationship and keep it healthy. I think sex is not everything in the relationship but it does certainly make things turn more smoothly. Where will your relationship be if your together for two years and still at the same stage you were at month 2. Things will certainly get boring for the both of you and eventually the relationship could turn sour. In a perfect world for some people no sex until marriage would be ideal. Too bad for them we don't live in a perfect world. The same goes for sex addicts. In a perfect world a relationship would be nothing but sex. Too bad for them we don't live in a perfect world.

hmmmm...yeah, it's hard for me because my longest relationship was 3 months, so maybe if I was with someone for 2 yrs...it'd be different. Just gotta check back with me in a bit.

 

[SmallTown]

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Originally posted by janey83
hmmmm...yeah, it's hard for me because my longest relationship was 3 months, so maybe if I was with someone for 2 yrs...it'd be different. Just gotta check back with me in a bit.

ah, so maybe it isn't a matter of being frigid. Just haven't found the right one yet. Ok. We're making progress here.

 

[BuddyLee]

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Originally posted by janey83
hmmmm...yeah, it's hard for me because my longest relationship was 3 months, so maybe if I was with someone for 2 yrs...it'd be different. Just gotta check back with me in a bit.

Well see thats the thing. You haven't been with anyone for too long and neither have I. I don't know the thing that gets me is that if your with that person for sooooooo long and you both LOVE each other then I don't think it should be an issue.:shrug:

Pee Wee's word of the day is: LOVE

:everythinginpeeweeshousescreams:

 

[janey83]

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Originally posted by SmallTown
ah, so maybe it isn't a matter of being frigid. Just haven't found the right one yet. Ok. We're making progress here.

lol, oh wow..so now you're my therapist.

 

[FromTexas]

Originally posted by Kain99
BL it's not the time involved it's the emotions.... when you are ready, you know it!

Its usually about the time you feel someone trying to poke through your boxers and escape through your jeans.