Spoiled
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I went to a friends house with my other friend, lets call him brian.... Brian and i where waiting for my friend to get home from work... He gets home we play some Xbox and his parents invite us to eat dinner with them in their kitchen... I let them know im not hungry but will gladly sit at the table with them and brian decides he is hungry... So we are eating dinner and somehow it comes up im having people over to swim and stuff (it was the 3rd time this week i was having people over... Mind you there is no drinking, smoking or drug use at my house) so i invite anyone over who wishes to come. My friends mom says "So Mike, are you going to get girls to take their tops off again tonite"... At this point im shocked, its happened twice and ive been having people over since the start of summer about twice a week... How does she know this EVER happened and why the hell was she bringing it up at the dinner table. So i kindly said "As far as i know, no ma'am" (mom is from louisana so when addressing adults i often say ma'am/sir)... She then questions "Do you ask them to take their tops off", now i maybe foul-mouthed with my friends, and a liberal ####### on these message boards, but i am not that low... So i reply "No ma'am, i havent asked anyone to take their top off" she then questions brian asking the same question and he is defensive, probably as disturbed as me and his voice showed it "Up until 2 weeks ago i had a girlfriend, so it clearly couldnt of been me"... The only time i have ever heard anyone say something like that seriously at my house was the ladies son... It turns out the kid told his mom that it happens when ever girls are over in order to keep his sister and her friend (who is cute and i had a mere intrest in) from being allowed to come over to my house knowing, i dont care who comes as long as the no-substance rule is inplace... And im not shy when it comes to inviting people.
Looking back the best way to show my anger at having my morals and social life attacked like that would have been to say "thank you for offering me dinner" and leaving...
or if i wanted to be an ass as i am on these boards i could have said "I dont wish to talk about this in your house but im more than willing to talk about it some place where we are on equal grounds"
She has also informed one of my friends girlfriends parents that they where having sex (the parents already knew) and various other things... I dont plan on going to their house again until she apologizes without me prompting her...
anyone have advice for me?
Looking back the best way to show my anger at having my morals and social life attacked like that would have been to say "thank you for offering me dinner" and leaving...
or if i wanted to be an ass as i am on these boards i could have said "I dont wish to talk about this in your house but im more than willing to talk about it some place where we are on equal grounds"
She has also informed one of my friends girlfriends parents that they where having sex (the parents already knew) and various other things... I dont plan on going to their house again until she apologizes without me prompting her...
anyone have advice for me?
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