foxxynhounds
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Okay, I get that not everyone gets invited to birthday parties, and that kids will often tell others at school that they are invited, when in fact they are not. When this happens to my kids, they are disappointed, but I remind them that sometimes their classmates don't understand that not everyone is invited and I come up with something to take their mind off of it.
In this situation, a parent of a child that my daughters (twins) regularly play with at school pulled me aside when passing in the hallway and asked for our e-mail address so that she could invite our daughters to her daughter's b'day party. She told me when it was and asked me to set the date aside.
I hadn't heard anything, so I assumed that their plans had changed. I didn't mention anything to my girls. However, their friend (the birthday girl) told them all about it this week, told them they were invited and asked them if they were coming. Thus, the girls came home and relayed this to me.
I still hadn't received an e-mail, but our address is sometimes difficult to understand (we have an O where it looks like it should be a 0), so I reached out to the mom via e-mail and asked if something had changed.
She responded that she was so sorry, but they chose a venue where they couldn't invite everyone (or something like that), and my girls were not invited. She said that she hopes they are not disappointed.
Had this been a standard situation, like I first described, then I get it. But SHE told me they were invited, so I didn't correct them when they told me about the party, as told to them by their friend. I told them maybe it was an e-mail issue. I don't have alternate plans for them (today) b/c I had penciled this in on my calendar.
I'm annoyed. Very, very annoyed. But do I have any right to be?
In this situation, a parent of a child that my daughters (twins) regularly play with at school pulled me aside when passing in the hallway and asked for our e-mail address so that she could invite our daughters to her daughter's b'day party. She told me when it was and asked me to set the date aside.
I hadn't heard anything, so I assumed that their plans had changed. I didn't mention anything to my girls. However, their friend (the birthday girl) told them all about it this week, told them they were invited and asked them if they were coming. Thus, the girls came home and relayed this to me.
I still hadn't received an e-mail, but our address is sometimes difficult to understand (we have an O where it looks like it should be a 0), so I reached out to the mom via e-mail and asked if something had changed.
She responded that she was so sorry, but they chose a venue where they couldn't invite everyone (or something like that), and my girls were not invited. She said that she hopes they are not disappointed.
Had this been a standard situation, like I first described, then I get it. But SHE told me they were invited, so I didn't correct them when they told me about the party, as told to them by their friend. I told them maybe it was an e-mail issue. I don't have alternate plans for them (today) b/c I had penciled this in on my calendar.
I'm annoyed. Very, very annoyed. But do I have any right to be?