Some Men....

[rack'm]

so men are like dogs? IF! IF! men could only be told to do something once....and do it....I promise relationships would go more smoothly.

Do tell us what you are telling your men to do and earlier your complaint was that men are liars......:shrug:

 

[missperky]

B1tch-B1tch-B1tch.....ugh

nag nag nag

 

[gumbo]

it looks more pleasing to the eye than yellow dried up pee and body hair stuck to the rim....however my toilet is cleaned weekly.

Personally I wipe away them yellow droplets from the rim with TP and the main reason I leave the toilet seat up, is to stop them un trained nasty SOB pigs from pissing on my toilet seat.

But in reality my is so close to the water , it's hard to miss.

 

[Pandora]

very true to your last statement. Guys definitely don't mind read. They need to be told over and over and over again to do the same tasks. And by the time you finally get them to do something, you figure you might as well have done it yourself. My motto "If you want it done right you've got to do it yourself"

Now that sounds like nagging.

And no, you don't do it yourself. If it is his task, it stays put until he does it. I made that mistake for years; he knows now I will not just do it myself.

 

[chewy3384]

so men are like dogs? IF! IF! men could only be told to do something once....and do it....I promise relationships would go more smoothly.

"told" being the key word here....most guys don't like being told what to do all the time. being asked is fine.

 

[nitwhit3286]

Do tell us what you are telling your men to do and earlier your complaint was that men are liars......:shrug:

oooookkk men are lazy and liars.....just simple tasks. Like umm take out the garbage.....you tell em once you might as well have said it fifty times.

 

[nitwhit3286]

"told" being the key word here....most guys don't like being told what to do all the time. being asked is fine.

Ok I usually say "Can you take out the garbage bag that is sitting next to the door?" .....and then I wait....and wait....and wait...and wait some more until finally maybe if I'm lucky the garbage will be taken out....

 

[rack'm]

oooookkk men are lazy and liars.....just simple tasks. Like umm take out the garbage.....you tell em once you might as well have said it fifty times.

It's not men, just the guys you pick.

 

[chewy3384]

oooookkk men are lazy and liars.....just simple tasks. Like umm take out the garbage.....you tell em once you might as well have said it fifty times.

you're starting to sound like my ex...."do this and do it now"

 

[nitwhit3286]

Now that sounds like nagging.

And no, you don't do it yourself. If it is his task, it stays put until he does it. I made that mistake for years; he knows now I will not just do it myself.

And thats my problem. I guess I am OCD. I don't like stuff to be randomly laying around. A place for everything and everything in its place. If the garbage sits for the remainder of that day..I am angry because it was "asked" this morning if "he" could do it.

 

[missperky]

And thats my problem. I guess I am OCD. I don't like stuff to be randomly laying around. A place for everything and everything in its place. If the garbage sits for the remainder of that day..I am angry because it was "asked" this morning if "he" could do it.

But you didn't say when, did you?

 

[nitwhit3286]

you're starting to sound like my ex...."do this and do it now"

No, I am not not demanding. I don't really ask much. I just ask the garbage be taken out. I cook, I clean, and I take care of my daughter. The only thing I dont do is work a full time job. I will be doing that soon enough. I really don't ask a whole lot...but when I do ask I don't want him to procastinate because I don't.

 

[gumbo]

so men are like dogs? IF! IF! men could only be told to do something once....and do it....I promise relationships would go more smoothly.

Excuse me! You all are the ones with the nick name of a female dog.
Besides women circle back just like dogs. Let something go wrong with their relationship with their new Bo and bam,,, Sniff sniff sniff around the Ex's house.

 

[nitwhit3286]

But you didn't day when, did you?

So, maybe I should be more specific with my requests? Ok, thats one that I won't do is draw a picture.

 

[Pandora]

Wrong rack'm, I bet your wife bangs her head on the wall trying to get you to take the trash out too.

The thing is, this issue is common among many woman, not just nit. I see an unequal household chore list in every household where a wife is present. Women connect helping with the household chores as intimacy, it is a fact. I guarantee if a man wants more sex, run the vacuum, dust, do laundry, clean the bathroom. It WILL work!

 

[missperky]

 

[missperky]

So, maybe I should be more specific with my requests? Ok, thats one that I won't do is draw a picture.

Can you take out the trash? Sure.....


3 days later...

 

[nitwhit3286]

Excuse me! You all are the ones with the nick name of a female dog.
Besides women circle back just like dogs. Let something go wrong with their relationship with their new Bo and bam,,, Sniff sniff sniff around the Ex's house.

No....thats men to a T.......Men always go stomping back to the woman prior that made their life hell in the first place. If you want to go back and be mistreated again and be in an unsatisfying relationship then go on back to her. you deserve her if you aren't wise enough to see you are better than that and you can to better. Its pretty damn sad.

 

[rack'm]

Wrong rack'm, I bet your wife bangs her head on the wall trying to get you to take the trash out too.

Not at all :shrug:

 

[nitwhit3286]

Can you take out the trash? Sure.....


3 days later...

Oh..and its been like that before......man steam if coming out of my brain right now just thinking about it..haha!