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[Nicole_in_somd]

That certainly answers the question.

You are a

Again eff off, I would rather be a dork or a loser than anything like you.

 

[Kyle]

Again eff off, I would rather be a dork or a loser than anything like you.

You got your wish.

 

[Ken King]

but in your other post you wrote



Ken,
I expected more from you. It is not plain and clear, because you do not have the whole story on her or other people that attempt or deal with suicidal thoughts. You have no idea what she went through, what her family went through or her friends that did try to help. You have no idea of anything that lead up to this point. You can only but so much and even those closest to her may never understand why she did what she did.

Why should one expect more from me? I am only human.

I didn't blame others for what she did, it just seems based on what some have said is that she was surrounded by loved ones yet was still so alone and unable to cope with what she was dealing with that rather then cry for help (maybe she had, but no one heard her) she took her own life. It just makes me question how much support was actually there for her prior to her final decision.

 

[Mikeinsmd]

No I just MOVED BACK, you don't know me and you have no idea what we or anyone else knew or tried to do....you do not know anything except what was given out in the media.....so back the eff off. Do not assume anything.

You need to climb off your high horse and STFU!!! You obviously didn't do enough now did you?? Why weren't you following her around?? Your "holier than art thou" attitude doesn't fly here.

You mentioned the family will hear of these posts. Well who will tell them?? Why don't you take your pent up aggression out on that person??

Haven't you been in here long enough to know telling us to "back the eff off" is like opening the door to a candy store for a kid??

The woman had kids and she abandoned them. That tells me all I need to know about her. People give their lives to save others (like the Navy Seal did). They don't take their own life! As others have said, that's the cowards way out and she was a coward!!!

This is the freaking internet!! Don't like what you see and read find the freaking off button and use it!!!

 

[Nicole_in_somd]

Why should one expect more from me? I am only human.

I didn't blame others for what she did, it just seems based on what some have said is that she was surrounded by loved ones yet was still so alone and unable to cope with what she was dealing with that rather then cry for help (maybe she had, but no one heard her) she took her own life. It just makes me question how much support was actually there for her prior to her final decision.

I know they did all they could do....and it hurts to know that she is gone and there might have been something that someone could have done. It hurts to know that her son will not have his mom. It hurts to know what she went through and it had to come to this.

It hurts even more knowing all of these and to see people that did not know her make the statements they did.

I can only pray that you would not go through it. It is a hard thing to do just being a friend...I could not imagine how hard it must be for her family.

Sometimes you can have all the support in the world at your fingertips and it just is not enough.

 

[Nicole_in_somd]

You need to climb off your high horse and STFU!!! You obviously didn't do enough now did you?? Why weren't you following her around?? Your "holier than art thou" attitude doesn't fly here.

You mentioned the family will hear of these posts. Well who will tell them?? Why don't you take your pent up aggression out on that person??

Haven't you been in here long enough to know telling us to "back the eff off" is like opening the door to a candy store for a kid??

The woman had kids and she abandoned them. That tells me all I need to know about her. People give their lives to save others (like the Navy Seal did). They don't take their own life! As others have said, that's the cowards way out and she was a coward!!!







This is the freaking internet!! Don't like what you see and read find the freaking off button and use it!!!

If you don't like what I write right back at you dumbazz.

You think that someone in here that knows the family does not come in here or tell them? Are you that retarded?

Why don't you bring your ass over here and shove me off my high horse and make me STFU? Hollywood is not that far from me.

You don't know ####. You or anyone else can attack me all you want and it don't mean shiat to me. You are not accomplishing a freaking thing. If I am an ass and a loser for standing up for someone I care about then so be it.

Did you know her? NO, Do you know me? NO. Enough said.

I am done with this Bullshait. I would love to see you at the funeral and say those things to her friends and family in person and see how far that gets you.

 

[slotted]

If you don't like what I write right back at you dumbazz.

You think that someone in here that knows the family does not come in here or tell them? Are you that retarded?

Why don't you bring your ass over here and shove me off my high horse and make me STFU? Hollywood is not that far from me.

You don't know ####. You or anyone else can attack me all you want and it don't mean shiat to me. You are not accomplishing a freaking thing. If I am an ass and a loser for standing up for someone I care about then so be it.

Did you know her? NO, Do you know me? NO. Enough said.

I am done with this Bullshait. I would love to see you at the funeral and say those things to her friends and family in person and see how far that gets you.

Chill girlie, when you add to the thread, you only keep it going. I'm sure it would have been history by now....



Was the deceased cute?

 

[Ken King]

I know they did all they could do....and it hurts to know that she is gone and there might have been something that someone could have done. It hurts to know that her son will not have his mom. It hurts to know what she went through and it had to come to this.

It hurts even more knowing all of these and to see people that did not know her make the statements they did.

I can only pray that you would not go through it. It is a hard thing to do just being a friend...I could not imagine how hard it must be for her family.

Sometimes you can have all the support in the world at your fingertips and it just is not enough.

Not knowing what she was suffering from or what was done for her I wonder if commitment was ever a consideration? Sometimes really tough choices need to be made to try to save a person bent on destruction.

Why get bent out of shape or worry about what others think or say as they are only opinions? You apparently know more about this than most and you can either get hostile about it and fuel the fire or let it blow by and get on with healing. You have that control, use it wisely.

 

[Kyle]

An A&W Root Beer says she refuels it before the weekend is out.

 

[itsbob]

but in your other post you wrote



Ken,
I expected more from you. It is not plain and clear, because you do not have the whole story on her or other people that attempt or deal with suicidal thoughts. You have no idea what she went through, what her family went through or her friends that did try to help. You have no idea of anything that lead up to this point. You can only but so much and even those closest to her may never understand why she did what she did.

So, who was she talking to on the phone when she took the short walk off of the tall bridge??

 

[itsbob]

I think to all the ones that came in here and make light of this situation or tacky ass jokes in here should get the shait knocked out of them.

Who in the hell do you think you are coming in here and saying some of the stupid shait that you did? This woman was someone mother, sister, daughter and she died.

Her family and friends are devastated and many of them might even be members of this forum, to have to come in here and read all this crap about someone they just lost.

There is no God damn excuse for making fun or joking about the death of someone.
It is the lowest of lows. There is nothing funny about the torment she may have gone through to have brought her to the point of killing herself, and there is nothing funny about losing someone you loved.

I knew her, and she was a good person. To sit and read this crap makes me sick. You are freaking pathetic.

In this situation there is but one Pathetic one.. the one that walked off of the bridge.. MAYBE if someone reads this thread, and sees people that take their own lives DON'T get sympathy, and nobdy is BOO HOOOO!! MAYBE they won't take their own life in the future..

You show sympathy.. and tomorrow someone else is going to be on the bridge goine.. "They'll be sorry....." "They're going to regret.. " So it's tragic, tragic for those left behind that have to live with it, the jumper is not suffering anymore, she doesn't have to deal with it, doesn't have to tell her kids.. she was a weak minded, no back bone... slug. AND if you're a Christian.. if I remember correctly THIS is one sin that will gurantee you a seat at Satan's dining table for now and all eternity.

 

[BuddyLee]

There is no God damn excuse for making fun or joking about the death of someone.

You don't like Van Halen?

 

[slotted]

In this situation there is but one Pathetic one.. the one that walked off of the bridge.. MAYBE if someone reads this thread, and sees people that take their own lives DON'T get sympathy, and nobdy is BOO HOOOO!! MAYBE they won't take their own life in the future..

You show sympathy.. and tomorrow someone else is going to be on the bridge goine.. "They'll be sorry....." "They're going to regret.. " So it's tragic, tragic for those left behind that have to live with it, the jumper is not suffering anymore, she doesn't have to deal with it, doesn't have to tell her kids.. she was a weak minded, no back bone... slug. AND if you're a Christian.. if I remember correctly THIS is one sin that will gurantee you a seat at Satan's dining table for now and all eternity.

The bible is silent on suicide. Hell, if "Jesus laid down his life willingly", then I say he committed suicide.

The one unforgivable sin according to the Bible is blasphemy of the Holy Spirt.
Eff the holy spirit is what I say.

 

[vraiblonde]

Vria I am taking it personally because I knew her. She was a good person, when I knew her she would give the shirt off her back to help anyone.

Then you should have been a better friend to her in her time of need.

 

[Kyle]

She's really snapped her cap.... Now she's PMing me to tell me how much support she has.

 

[Geek]

She's really snapped her cap.... Now she's PMing me to tell me how much support she has.

Be nice to Nicole

 

[Kyle]

Be nice to Nicole

I AM being nice. I've tried to help her understand her error... Slotted even spelled it out for her.... I guess maybe she isn't a very good listener.

 

[PAgirl76]

I guess it is easy to point the finger and say she took the easy way out, and to others that may be true; however to her it couldv'e been the only way out of whatever her troubles were. For myself, I always put my kids first. I couldn't imagine doing that to my kids or family, but I also don't have a mental illness problem. I did read on the Baynet that one of her family members posted a note saying that they did try several things with her and nothing seemed to work. Don't know what they tried. I do feel bad for the family but I certainly will not judge her for what she did. But according to the bible a person who commits suicide will spend eternity in hell. Jesus did willingly lie His life down, but He did it so that men can have eternal life. He was the perfect sacrifice. Read the Bible and get an understanding before you slam the name of Christ. I agree with the person that said when a person wants attention they announce it to everybody and try stupid stuff to hurt themselves but people who really have that desire to die, just do it.

 

[slotted]

But according to the bible a person who commits suicide will spend eternity in hell. Jesus did willingly lie His life down, but He did it so that men can have eternal life. He was the perfect sacrifice. Read the Bible and get an understanding before you slam the name of Christ.

Give me a chapter and verse for that, please.

I'll debate the bible with you anyday, you sound very clueless on it. I know it better than you and the funny part is that I don't even believe it.

:Igotjesusinaheadlock:

 

[domeglowing]

Then you should have been a better friend to her in her time of need.

Wow, so now it is her fault. She was not a good friend? Hmmmm and you got that based off some posts in here despite what she wrote and what the family wrote on baynet you have the nerve to say something like that.

Well, not that it comes as a surprise.... the limited know it all thinking that comes out of here and Accusatory statements that you and your little forumites come up with.

So how much do you know about the family and friends? Do you actually know any of them? How much of this story do you or any of the other losers actually know to make such odious statements that have been made in here?

Nice to see that NOT everyone in this godforsaken somd forum think like you and there were others that have made valid and intelligent comments but of course you and the regular goonies in here have to take advantage of a tragic situation to get your jollies off.

How many of you are willing to put your money where you mouth is an tell this poor girls family and friends it was their fault to their faces?

Because if you do please let me know so I can be there and personally see you get your face wiped into the dirt.