Still miss him

softballgrl

softballgrl

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A lady from church did email and ask me if I had 'made a move his way yet'......good grief...I think if people would stop reminding me of him it would be a lot easier.
 
Bay_Kat

Bay_Kat

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softballgrl said:
A lady from church did email and ask me if I had 'made a move his way yet'......good grief...I think if people would stop reminding me of him it would be a lot easier.
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That's strange you say people keep reminding you of him and it would be easier if they didn't, yet you continue to post about him. That does not make sense to me.
 
itsbob

itsbob

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softballgrl said:
It was so nice to know that someone would be home at night to talk to about the days interactions. We seemed to be comfortable with each other right from the start. I miss that. It's hard to find that comfort level now. I loved cooking for him and taking care of him. He usually seemed so thankful. I only wish his friends weren't so involved in our every move. I couldn't stand that. I went to visit his family and instantly liked them, they reminded me of my family growing up. So many things remind me of him. ...but...maybe loving the 'memory' will help. I'm not an expert at dating that's for sure. I wish the ending was as good as the beginning ~ guess some things have to end in order for us to grow and move toward something greater, but....I still miss him. I haven't taken his picture out of the origional frame and it's still up. Any tips on moving on? .....and yeah, I'm prepared for the jokes you guys will send me, like you always do.

have a good night ~ blessings!!!
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Did he find someone else willing to do those things you thought were 'icky'??
 
Bay_Kat

Bay_Kat

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softballgrl said:
hello! I said I MISS him.......that was the bottom line of the post.
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You need therapy, the real deal. If you think you're going to get help from a bunch of strangers - more power to you, but it sounds like you're getting more and more messed up by the post. I think your problems go way beyond missing some guy.
 
softballgrl

softballgrl

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Bay_Kat said:
You need therapy, the real deal. If you think you're going to get help from a bunch of strangers - more power to you, but it sounds like you're getting more and more messed up by the post. I think your problems go way beyond missing some guy.
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Have you ever been in love or are you just brain dead?
 
Bay_Kat

Bay_Kat

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softballgrl said:
Have you ever been in love or are you just brain dead?
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I have and I still am. I gave my heart to a man I've been with for 11 years and we are still in love. That's the difference, you fell in love with someone who obviously didn't really care about you, that right there should tell you to get over him and move on.
 
softballgrl

softballgrl

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Bay_Kat said:
I have and I still am. I gave my heart to a man I've been with for 11 years and we are still in love. That's the difference, you fell in love with someone who obviously didn't really care about you, that right there should tell you to get over him and move on.
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it's a process sweet cheeks! if you can't relate or don't have something NICE to say...go post in another thread..... don't go blab your face telling someone they need therapy or whatever you said. you are probably one of those women that jump from guy to guy to get over someone....not me. I'm not settling for just anyone!
 
softballgrl

softballgrl

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Bay_Kat said:
You sound weak, and he probably got tired of your whining. He needs a stronger woman that can deal with issues, you obviously can't.
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women...shut up...it takes a lot to make me mad and you're really irritating me. you don't even know the half of it. I, me ,....myself.,...I I I I was there for HIM with all his Drama. we're done talking... you have no idea what you're talking about. c-ya, chow, ...........don't write anything else, you're stupid.
 
Bay_Kat

Bay_Kat

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softballgrl said:
women...shut up...it takes a lot to make me mad and you're really irritating me. you don't even know the half of it. I, me ,....myself.,...I I I I was there for HIM with all his Drama. we're done talking... you have no idea what you're talking about. c-ya, chow, ...........don't write anything else, you're stupid.
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I'm not the one crying in a public forum about missing someone after so long. Booooo Hooo, pity party for you. Get a back bone!

Oh and I've been with the same man for 11 years, I don't jump from man to man like you say. I keep my man happy, which I guess you couldn't.
 
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sockgirl77

sockgirl77

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softballgrl said:
it's a process sweet cheeks! if you can't relate or don't have something NICE to say...go post in another thread..... don't go blab your face telling someone they need therapy or whatever you said. you are probably one of those women that jump from guy to guy to get over someone....not me. I'm not settling for just anyone!
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Process? How long has it been? Get the eff over him. You weren't even with him long enough to be this psycho over him.
 
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