Still miss him

kelb

kelb

art imitating life
softballgrl said:
** I can't get him back. I have health issues that he isn't willing to deal with I think** eventhough....I never 'bothered' him with them...I can handle them myself usually. He was kinda at a cross roads with his own life at the time I think. He was changing careers and .....I don't think he was ready for long-term. I'm not sure. His relationship behavior wasn't really 'welcoming'. We went thru A LOT during the two years. We had 'real life' thrown at us pretty quickly and I think we did a great job of handling things until the end there when I needed him dearly. Things could have been handled better.

I have been dating some really nice guys....I'm just not ready for long-term myself right now, but I'm having fun. There are some really nice guys out there so we'll see......maybe in a few months I'll be singin' a different tune. Hangin' out with the girls will do for now too. I'm single, no kids, good family, great friends.....what more is there?
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:shrug: now Im confused
 
kelb

kelb

art imitating life
:wah: I hate to sound insensitive but.... This has got to be a joke.. lol its been a year?
 
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Kain99

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I know what's it's like to make a connection and then lose. You just have to trust, that everything happens for a reason

Then you buy a gallon of ice cream and cry yourself to sleep. :huggy:
 
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missperky

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softballgrl said:
** I can't get him back. I have health issues that he isn't willing to deal with I think** eventhough....I never 'bothered' him with them...I can handle them myself usually. He was kinda at a cross roads with his own life at the time I think. He was changing careers and .....I don't think he was ready for long-term. I'm not sure. His relationship behavior wasn't really 'welcoming'. We went thru A LOT during the two years. We had 'real life' thrown at us pretty quickly and I think we did a great job of handling things until the end there when I needed him dearly. Things could have been handled better.

I have been dating some really nice guys....I'm just not ready for long-term myself right now, but I'm having fun. There are some really great guys around here. we'll see......maybe in a few months I'll be singin' a different tune. Hangin' out with the girls will do for now too. I'm single, no kids, good family, great friends.....what more is there?
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News flash...he isn't worth it..Move on.
 
Lilypad

Lilypad

Well-Known Member
softballgrl said:
well, you're right about him not being able to be there emotionally ...but he wouldn't have ever cheated on me......Lord, I don't think so, but....you're right...if he couldn't be there before marriage, he wouldn't have been after. ......I feel like two years of my life and now three, because I'm still talking about this..I feel like I truly invested that time and supported him emotionally WAY MORE than I've ever supported anyone...He really was a 'Drama KING'....my ex-husband never put me thru anything like this guy did. I think I longed for him to love me the way I loved him, and I kept trying but...he was slow with showing it emotionally. oh well...... It's just a reminder when I pass him on the road... I hate it. need some sleep...talk to yall later.
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Honey, consider youself lucky it was a longer relationship!:buddies:
 
softballgrl

softballgrl

New Member
Thanks everybody! Doin' good here. Had a great day ~ didn't pass him on the road today! YEAH..... Trying to make new memories...ones that don't include him. PMS is coming thou ~ that's the true tester there. Favorite ice cream to pig out on.. Mint Chocolate Chip !!!! I have some ready to go. :)
 
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