The Child Support Problem.

pixiegirl

Cleopatra Jones
missperky said:
Can you read at ALL? I have an order, I have since 99, I have been dealing with the courts for years and the judges don't do crap. My kids don't go without, you don't even know me. Take a chill pill.

I read where you said you NEEDED it and that it was too much BS to get it. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and get off your arse and do something about it! :yay:
 
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missperky

Guest
MMDad said:
I think someone hit a sore spot. I wouldn't say it that way, but I agree.

Not reporting deadbeat parents is like not reporting rape. You may not like it, but if you don't help stop the problem, you are part of the problem.
It is reported if you have an order, if you don't then noone knows.
 

RoseRed

American Beauty
PREMO Member
I guess I am lucky that I don't have to fight to get my daughter's support. He pays up on time and usually throws in a little extra.
 
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missperky

Guest
pixiegirl said:
I read where you said you NEEDED it and that it was too much BS to get it. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and get off your arse and do something about it! :yay:
I do need it, and I'm not going through all the :bs: I have been through to get it. Got it now? My kids are fine and they have been doing great without it, but that don't mean he has the right to not pay. PMS?
 

MMDad

Lem Putt
RoseRed said:
I guess I am lucky that I don't have to fight to get my daughter's support. He pays up on time and usually throws in a little extra.

I wouldn't expect someone like you to procreate with a deadbeat. Is the extra so you can get more tat's and piercings?
 

pixiegirl

Cleopatra Jones
missperky said:
I do need it, and I'm not going through all the :bs: I have been through to get it. Got it now? My kids are fine and they have been doing great without it, but that don't mean he has the right to not pay. PMS?

No PMS. If you need it but won't do what it takes to get it (which is $25 and a trip to social services) then don't complain that you're not getting it! Get it now?

I never once said that he shouldn't pay. I'm in the same situation only I don't NEED the money.

Saying that you NEED the money and then in the same breath saying that you're kids are doing great without it is awfully contradictory don't ya think?

If you NEED it then go get it regardless of the "bs."
 
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missperky

Guest
pixiegirl said:
No PMS. If you need it but won't do what it takes to get it (which is $25 and a trip to social services) then don't complain that you're not getting it! Get it now?

I never once said that he shouldn't pay. I'm in the same situation only I don't NEED the money.

Saying that you NEED the money and then in the same breath saying that you're kids are doing great without it is awfully contradictory don't ya think?

If you NEED it then go get it regardless of the "bs."
I don't have to pay $25 and go anywhere, I have a freakin order, he don't pay :ohwell: Life don't end. If you don't need the money good for you, I'd like to have it just to piss him off. Good day.
 

MMDad

Lem Putt
missperky said:
I was tryin to be serious. What am I supposed to look at?

Click on Parents and start reading. I don't know the process, but this is where to find the info. I hope you do it. Good luck!
 

mAlice

professional daydreamer
JPC said:
:whistle: The laws of child support were changed and improved for the whole State of Maryland because of the unjust corruption from the St. Mary's County Court. This is true and verifiable by going to this link,

Courts Website for the State of Maryland. First click "Appellate Opinions" and look up Court of Appeals, March 8, 2000, Thrower vs. Support Enforcement, and anybody can see it for themselves.

The St. Mary's Court would not let child support parents have their right to legal representation and it put our County parents into jail without a real Judge and did not give the parents their right to a trial, and as a result of the above linked case the laws for the entire State of Maryland were changed just to stop the St. Mary's County Court and to make certain that the abuses would not happen anywhere else as it did happen here.

So now the St. Mary's Court has only done what the high Court has ordered it to do but nothing more. This Court of ours does not accept that it did anything wrong and it does not repair what it did do wrong.

:yay: When I get elected then the still biligerant Master of the SMC Court will either resign himself voluntarily or I will help him do it involuntarily. SMC does deserve better than that. Of course if I do not win then he gets to stay on the Bench because no other official in all of SMC has shown the guts to put that dirty snake out of our Court. SMC does deserve better. I will get him removed but the others only look away like timid little birds.

Child support is a big deal. Our Courts are putting dead-broke parents into jail and years into prison in demand of money that does not exist. Only poor parents go to jail.

In Maryland a little less than 25 percent of Court ordered child support gets paid while a little over 75 percent of Court ordered child support does not get paid. That means that most custodial parents do not get paid and most of the separated parents do not pay the money. So the systen is broken. It has failed already in its present form. It sencelessly turns parents into criminals and it alienates the children too. Child support is a failed policy that needs reform to make it family friendly.

:yay: When I get elected is when reforming will begin, and if I do not get elected then the problem will just continue because no one else has the guts to act. Maybe all of our other officials are primarily only concerned about their blind greed feeding off the profits from the Navy Base expansion and to hell with the rest of us. When I get elected then there will be this one that is not sold out to the big money / big business and there will then be this one that is not afraid to take action against the wrong doing.

:war: ------------------ :wah:------------- :getdown:

This is something personal, isn't it? :lmao:
 
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missperky

Guest
MMDad said:
Click on Parents and start reading. I don't know the process, but this is where to find the info. I hope you do it. Good luck!
Thanks, but I already know all of this.
 

pixiegirl

Cleopatra Jones
missperky said:
I don't have to pay $25 and go anywhere, I have a freakin order, he don't pay :ohwell: Life don't end. If you don't need the money good for you, I'd like to have it just to piss him off. Good day.

A court order and filing with the enforcement office are two totally different things idiot! And if you po they'll even waive the fee for you. What this does for you is they pick up tracking and prosecuting. The support goes from him to them to you. If he goes 90 days in arrears THEY will have charges brought up against him. Get it now? It's not a flipping court order it's what ya do AFTER the order to make your life easier.

Wasted freaking effort, I swear. :doh:
 
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