The dishes are done man.

Dymphna

Dymphna

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vraiblonde said:
Bet he wishes he'd have just done the damn dishes.
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:yeahthat: When huntr lived in an on-campus apartment with 3 other guys, no one did the dishes. The dishes were piled in the sink higher than the sink was deep.

I think we need more details before we rule out justifiable assault.


Actually, one of the guys' girlfriends would eventually do the dishes....not me, I let them deal with their own crap, and went back to my own apartment, tyvm. It would be a different forumite who did their dishes.
 
frozenrain

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morningbell said:
I only cry when the dishes aren't done....

Police: Dirty dishes led to woman's rampage
She faces charges after allegedly biting, swinging sword at boyfriend
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I do not like my hubby doing house work as I feel it is my job.Of course if he wants to put dishes away then it is up to him but I feel uncomfortable makes me feel I am not doing my job right.
I think it goes back to when I was a teenager and was sleepy in the weekend mornings. I would hear my mum hoovering and she would be bashing it into the skirting board as if to make a point....get out of bed and help:lmao:
The lady in the article obviously had anger issues. I heard about a man who divorced his wife citing that she did not put the lid on the toothpaste....after 20 years....
 
morningbell

morningbell

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frozenrain said:
I do not like my hubby doing house work as I feel it is my job.Of course if he wants to put dishes away then it is up to him but I feel uncomfortable makes me feel I am not doing my job right.
I think it goes back to when I was a teenager and was sleepy in the weekend mornings. I would hear my mum hoovering and she would be bashing it into the skirting board as if to make a point....get out of bed and help:lmao:
The lady in the article obviously had anger issues. I heard about a man who divorced his wife citing that she did not put the lid on the toothpaste....after 20 years....
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:lmao:
Go mum!

My BF doesn't do the dishes the right way, it drives me nuts but when I get busy and see the sink piling up I get a bit anxious :jameo:
 
frozenrain

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vraiblonde said:
Having some slob guy around who won't do dishes makes me angry, too. I can relate to a sistah.
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I guess we do not know the whole story he could have been a vile man for all we know and she could have snapped but all I am just saying is washing dishes is hardly dragging a bundle to the local stream five miles down the road these days. we do have it easier now. For example my washing machine broke once and I washed the bed sheets in the bath.That was hard especially squeezing the water out....So we are lucky today....
I know ladies have jobs now.When I was working full time I used to get home at 8pm cook dinner, give baths, read books with son etc Clean house but I just got on with it like billions of other parents,wives and husbands.
Every situation is different if they were both working full time. Then yes she has every right to expect help.
However there is no excuse for violence. Cross words fine . If it was a continual thing then discuss it with him. If she was still unhappy then end it.
There must have been something deeper than this for her to go crazy or she had a short fuse and was lazy......
 
frozenrain

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morningbell said:
:lmao:
Go mum!

My BF doesn't do the dishes the right way, it drives me nuts but when I get busy and see the sink piling up I get a bit anxious :jameo:
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Yes I am quite easy going in that if I find my husbands clothes on bathroom floor I just pick them up does not bother me.I am easy going about housework .My hubby likes it clean and no clutter. I have a thing about germs .So I bleach and wipe surfaces clean .However if there is a bit of clutter I can leave it and not fuss about. I do not want people to feel uncomfortable and be on edge that they are going to mess stuff up.Some days I am in spring clean mood but basically I just get on with it.
I respect my hubby to come home to a clean place so I try my best.
However I always remember my mum moaning "a womens work is never done' .I think it just puts you on edge and home should be a place of calm.
My son knows to keep his room clear. The other day he said 'mum I have been playing in the cupboard today so I keep my room tidy 'bless him...but I think it is from my hubby who always checks his room.

I admit sometimes when I am washing kitchen floor everyday because the crumb monster is throwing crumbs everywhere I think this is boring but that is my job and for me to complain is fruitless and I could be a poor person rooting through the rubbish dumps ... I am so lucky. I certainly would not expect my hubby to do it....
 
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