The Kids

[pelers]

Not only do the parents need to grow up themselves they need to stop dragging other people into their drama. I can't even fathom my parents sharing an argument with me, let alone trying to make me pick sides.

What a completely ####ed up dynamic all around.

 

[Caution]

Not only do the parents need to grow up themselves they need to stop dragging other people into their drama. I can't even fathom my parents sharing an argument with me, let alone trying to make me pick sides.

What a completely ####ed up dynamic all around.

It's hard for kids to respect parents when the parents act like this and the kids have them wrapped around their pinky fingers. When all is said and done and the parents look back at this situation I bet they will be ashamed of themselves. If they don't, and the kids follow in their footsteps and act this way I hope someone is around to tell them. "I TOLD YOU SO"

 

[RoseRed]

Not only do the parents need to grow up themselves they need to stop dragging other people into their drama. I can't even fathom my parents sharing an argument with me, let alone trying to make me pick sides.

What a completely ####ed up dynamic all around.

The "kids" learned from the Masters.

 

[Caution]

The "kids" learned from the Masters.

Exactly, Now that my boys are getting older I see so much of myself in the way they act. Some good, some bad. But kids will pick up on how a parent conducts themselves and some of that sticks.

 

[sunnyside393]

The father should F the mother again.
All will be happy.

I have experienced this thought myself

 

[KDENISE977]

It's not really about the money.....money is a tool on the father's side to "win" the kids..."winning" the kids is a get back at their mother for the things she did (affairs)during the marriage, she did the things she did as a get back at the things their father required of her in the marriage (abortion), and on and on it goes, physical fights erupt, public drunkeness, drugs, but the worst of all to me about these kids is the finesse they have developed at manipulating the situation

Are you kidding me? The only place these "kids" should be is with DCFS, or should have been if they weren't at the age they're at... that's just ####ED UP !! EPIC PARENTING !!