Larry Gude
Strung Out
So, given what we know now... what is first in Tiger's life?
Huh?
So, given what we know now... what is first in Tiger's life?
Huh?
The point I totally failed to make was that Tigers dad taught him to make everything else second.
You wrote:
I'm assuming you meant golf.
Given what we know about Tiger now: his failing marriage, all the swingin' affairs... what do you figure is first in his life now?
A. Golf
B. Family
C. How he can somehow get away with renting his next porn star
D. More rehab
I meant Tigers dad taught him to make himself first. Golf, sponsors, chicks, toys, money, what have you.
Tiger, Tiger, Tiger.
And you see no change in him, do I understand this correctly?
Who knows? My comments are directed at his post round comments. They were 'old' Tiger, I think.
And this is what digs at me. I really wanted to like Tiger. He had the potential to make his mark on history as the greatest golfer ever. All the stars were aligned for him: great play, beautiful family, huge dollars, bigger-than-life personality...
Even now, he has a chance to redeem himself; and I still see the same old Tiger. But I'm a reasonable guy and perhaps he needs more time. I have to remember he is still a relatively young and immature dolt that too much got thrown at him too fast and just didn't know how to properly process it all in a rational way.
Okay, gotta call it like I see it. Bullchit! Behavior patterns are pretty much set by the late teens. It is extremely difficult to modify behavior after this age. By the time someone is in their thirties, what you see is pretty much what you're going to get. Absent a MAJOR life-changing event, change just ain't gonna happen. What you saw on the course was the same old Tiger. His "recent unpleasantness" wasn't even close to making it as a major life-changing event. He is what he is.
And this is what digs at me. I really wanted to like Tiger. He had the potential to make his mark on history as the greatest golfer ever. All the stars were aligned for him: great play, beautiful family, huge dollars, bigger-than-life personality...
Even now, he has a chance to redeem himself; and I still see the same old Tiger. But I'm a reasonable guy and perhaps he needs more time. I have to remember he is still a relatively young and immature dolt that too much got thrown at him too fast and just didn't know how to properly process it all in a rational way.
Okay, gotta call it like I see it. Bullchit! Behavior patterns are pretty much set by the late teens. It is extremely difficult to modify behavior after this age. By the time someone is in their thirties, what you see is pretty much what you're going to get. Absent a MAJOR life-changing event, change just ain't gonna happen. What you saw on the course was the same old Tiger. His "recent unpleasantness" wasn't even close to making it as a major life-changing event. He is what he is.
I seriously doubt Tiger was hanging with strippers when he was a teenager or even when he was in his 20's. I think all this started after his marriage AND after he had kids AND after his dad died. The single mindedness I think is nothing new. However, I think the babes is the last few years.
Perhaps I should have said the attitude and mindset that drive the behaviors, or the personality which is pretty much fully developed by age 18.
(that pesky English language again.... )
Okay, gotta call it like I see it. Bullchit! Behavior patterns are pretty much set by the late teens. It is extremely difficult to modify behavior after this age. By the time someone is in their thirties, what you see is pretty much what you're going to get. Absent a MAJOR life-changing event, change just ain't gonna happen. What you saw on the course was the same old Tiger. His "recent unpleasantness" wasn't even close to making it as a major life-changing event. He is what he is.
Fans don't know the person they are watching in a sport yet they want to either put them on a pedestal or bury them. Appreciate their ability, not their personality.