The Traveling Wife

CSA

New Member
So, my wife goes on travel for work. She calls me and tells me that a morning meeting was canceled. She then proceeds to tell me that the afternoon meeting isn't important and that she and her boss are traveling 500 miles (round trip) to the "Grand Canyon". I can't help feeling a little bent about this situation. Would this be alright with most people or am I overreacting?
:banghead:
 
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Wenchy

Guest
CSA said:
So, my wife goes on travel for work. She calls me and tells me that a morning meeting was canceled. She then proceeds to tell me that the afternoon meeting isn't important and that she and her boss are traveling 500 miles (round trip) to the "Grand Canyon". I can't help feeling a little bent about this situation. Would this be alright with most people or am I overreacting?
:banghead:

I would have a problem with that. Have you thought about hiring a PI?
 

Mikeinsmd

New Member
What gender is her boss?
Are they close in age?
Is her boss attractive?
Why don't you trust her?
Has she cheated before?
She didn't have to tell you the meetings were cancelled.
She didn't have to tell you they were going to the Grand Canyon.
Why are you seeking marital advice from total strangers?

:popcorn:
 

forever jewel

Green Eyed Lady
I would be suspicious about that. Have you had suspicions in the past that would fuel your concern? If you have, maybe you should contact a PI.
 

onebdzee

off the shelf
Mikeinsmd said:
What gender is her boss?
Are they close in age?
Is her boss attractive?
Why don't you trust her?
Has she cheated before?
She didn't have to tell you the meetings were cancelled.
She didn't have to tell you they were going to the Grand Canyon.
Why are you seeking marital advice from total strangers?

:popcorn:

aren't you supposed to be in bed asleep, young man?
 

fttrsbeerwench

New Member
Mikeinsmd said:
What gender is her boss?
Are they close in age?
Is her boss attractive?
Why don't you trust her?
Has she cheated before?
She didn't have to tell you the meetings were cancelled.
She didn't have to tell you they were going to the Grand Canyon.
Why are you seeking marital advice from total strangers?

:popcorn:

:yeahthat:
Except for that last part... I don't want to know what makes some people come here and ask questions like this, given how most of the folks on here behave...:crazy:

OH, and if he trusted her, he wouldn't be asking us would he??:shrug:

:lol:
 

buddy999

It's Great to be American
Mikeinsmd said:
What gender is her boss?
Are they close in age?
Is her boss attractive?
Why don't you trust her?
Has she cheated before?
She didn't have to tell you the meetings were cancelled.
She didn't have to tell you they were going to the Grand Canyon.
Why are you seeking marital advice from total strangers?

:popcorn:

These are all very good questions. As I see it, the 3 most important questions are:

What gender is her boss?
Has she cheated on you before?
If not, Why don't you trust her?

I agree that there are definate warning signs here but if your wife and her boss have a good working relationship it may be an innocent trip. If there have been no problems in the past, I would give her the benefit of the doubt.

If there have been problems in the past, you definately want to confront her about it. Keep in mind that confronting her may solve the problem and it may create new problems.

Whatever you decide to do, remember to keep the faith.
 
CSA said:
So, my wife goes on travel for work. She calls me and tells me that a morning meeting was canceled. She then proceeds to tell me that the afternoon meeting isn't important and that she and her boss are traveling 500 miles (round trip) to the "Grand Canyon". I can't help feeling a little bent about this situation. Would this be alright with most people or am I overreacting?
:banghead:
So she went to Vegas, Phoenix or LA for work? If she was going to fool around couldn't she do it there? Just be happy she gets to see the Grand Canyon.
 

Merlin

Registered Smarta$$
CSA said:
So, my wife goes on travel for work. She calls me and tells me that a morning meeting was canceled. She then proceeds to tell me that the afternoon meeting isn't important and that she and her boss are traveling 500 miles (round trip) to the "Grand Canyon". I can't help feeling a little bent about this situation. Would this be alright with most people or am I overreacting?
:banghead:
Side trips are not abnormal while on travel. If a meeting or whatever was cancelled or delayed, I would hit the road with whoever wanted to tag along. Beats sitting in a hotel room twiddling your thumbs waiting for the meeting or work to resume the next day. I would love to see the Grand Canyon someday. Preferably with my spouse, but if she had the opportunity to see it, I would not think badly if she went for it. Tell her to bring home pics and a souvenir!

If something inappropriate was going on, she would not have mentioned it at all.
 

jwwb2000

pretty black roses
It sounds as if you are jealous she is having fun while she is working out of town. Let her enjoy the Grand Canyon visit.
 

itsbob

I bowl overhand
CSA said:
So, my wife goes on travel for work. She calls me and tells me that a morning meeting was canceled. She then proceeds to tell me that the afternoon meeting isn't important and that she and her boss are traveling 500 miles (round trip) to the "Grand Canyon". I can't help feeling a little bent about this situation. Would this be alright with most people or am I overreacting?
:banghead:
unless you have a reason to be suspisious I wouldn't worry about it.

If I was on travel out that way, having never seen the Grand Canyon, I'd do the same thing.. and when I'm on travel we always find time to take side trips, either alone or in groups of two or three, no matter the sex of the fellow travellers.

But to make you feel better, I would hope she has her cell with her.. Just call a couple times (once or twice) around the time she should be at the Canyon and just tell her you called to see how she was doing and that you love her.
 

mainman

Set Trippin
jwwb2000 said:
It sounds as if you are jealous she is having fun while she is working out of town. Let her enjoy the Grand Canyon visit.
Sounds to me like her boss might be visiting the "grand" canyon...
 
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