daisycreek
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does he like older women?
I think she is playing him.. being interested enough to hang onto him in case she doesnt/can't find someone else!
shes saving him for a spare
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Today's dating advice thread...
- Thread starter Cowgirl
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does he like older women?
I think she is playing him.. being interested enough to hang onto him in case she doesnt/can't find someone else!
shes saving him for a spare
rottenredhead
Oldie w/newbie name
As soon as she said she was going to put her profile back because she 'paid for it' should have been a HUGE red flag. Sorry your friend is going through this.
I'm single.. send him my way
I'm single.. send him my way
LexiGirl75
100% Goapele Head!
I drive that to go to work. She's sounds like a Taurus, not because she's full of bull but hey that works too. Tell him not to indulge in her head games.
nobody really
I need a nap
and 299 are whackjobs. the other one thinks he might be gay
Chain729
CageKicker Extraordinaire
And for the men, one is crazy and fugly, the other is OK, but later on admits and/or proves she's married or crazy.Queenofdenile1
Love is Blind
"I've been hurt in past relationships" is code for "I'm a drama king/queen who wants the world to revolve around me, and if you should be so misguided as to get involved with me, I will make your life a living hell."
Everyone has been hurt in past relationships. When you announce it, it's a manipulation tool. Usually guys do this with women - "I've been hurt..." That's the woman's cue to try and "heal" him.
I'm surprised Ricardo didn't flag that already.
Well, since it was so politely stated to me on another thread recently by a couple of men on the forum that "there are still Gentlmen in the world", I will say... "Not all women are Dramaqueens" when they state they have been hurt. Some actually are ligit and perhaps real tired of dirtbags talking to them and treating them like garbage. There are men who "cry me a river" everytime some female dumps on them and when they finally get a fairly decent female to "heal their wounds", they treat them like crap.
Chain729
CageKicker Extraordinaire
They don't talk about "it," or give you their life sob-story within the first few dates either.
Poohhunny1605
New Member
Well, if they are 30-40s range this subject shouldn't have even come up. He should move on with his life and forget about her. Sounds like she is stuck in some teenage world, saying "she is going to put her profile back on the net because she paid for it." So, put your profile back on the net, someone else will be stupid enough to deal with her drama..
I would tell him that he needs to sit back and not worry about her anymore, if he is interested in her than he is wanting the drama just as much as she does. So, let him dig his own hole, there really isn't any advice you can give him, except, if he is interested, sit back and wait for her call. DO NOT CALL HER! Let her do all of the chasing, because thats what she wants from him.
IMO
Cowgirl
Well-Known Member
:shrug: I told him, but I'm not sure what his decision will be.
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toppick08
Guest
godsbutterfly
Free to Fly
Neither one should! Any woman or man who sits down and gives you their bio complete with the whole "They done me wrong" song has either mistaken you for an analyst, they're playing you or they really are in sad shape.I'm not trying to be cold-hearted but it takes time to get to know somebody and the conversation has to be give and take or the relationship is going nowhere fast.
I agree that you should take time to get to know someone, but there are some people that are just very open from the start and if they feel comfortable around you - they let all out.
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toppick08
Guest
This just isn't clicking with you, is it? Cause and effect, sis.
Any woman who has to complain to a date that she's been hurt before is a drama queen - there's no other reason to tell him that. If he's a nice guy, he wasn't going to jerk her around anyway, and if he's a bad guy, he's not going to care about her "hurt" if he wants to use her for something. What she's doing is announcing, "I have baggage - BEWARE!" and any guy who sticks around for that doesn't have pure motives.
Guys who cry about their failed relationships are manipulators. Of course they're going to treat you like crap - you didn't really think the past relationship failure was all the girlfriend's fault, did you? They only said that to present a challenge so you would work harder to woo them. Women do the same thing.
It's poor form to talk about prior relationships before the 8th or 9th date.
I think talking about prior relationships is somewhat important, but in many ways it can cause problems because some people tend to compare or insecurity, etc. occurs. However, I prefer hearing things early on especially if the person seems to have a trend w/bad relationships, can't get over a past relationship, etc. because it can make you decide quicker if that person is really somebody you would want to continue to date.
Bay_Kat
Tropical
How old are you? You type like you're 13.