KDENISE977
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I thank everyone for their opinions and realize now that every child is different. Thanks to all who commented. My son is now happily asleep because he's now sick with his allergies. Poor little man can't catch a break.
Toddler sleep patterns
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doubtfull24
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Happy to report my little man slept all night long for the first time in a long time. The only thing I did different was gave him half almond milk half water in his bottle. I guess I will have to see how tonight goes 
KDENISE977
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doubtfull24 said:Happy to report my little man slept all night long for the first time in a long time. The only thing I did different was gave him half almond milk half water in his bottle. I guess I will have to see how tonight goes
Mine did too !! Too bad it was probly due to the Benedryl he needed to stop all the snot and coughing.
somdfunguy
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Mine slept 8-5:30 so maybe there was something in the air last night.
KDENISE977
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AND he skipped his PM nap all together (he decided to rip his diaper off and take a crap in his crib at daycare so no sheets=no nap). I may have them try no PM nap one day next week and see if that helps the nights?!
libertytyranny
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I disagree. Especially if a pattern has developed where crying gets results. I have found children whose parents go running at every single moment of discomfort to be spoiled and unable to cope or problem solve.there is a difference between "I am hurt" and "I am used to you putting me to sleep and I demand that" knowing the difference is simple if you allow yourself to realize that every moment of discomfort does not have to be relieved.
But that's a parental philosophy that's unlikely to change..some parents feel their purpose is the shelter and save their kid from everything, some believe it is more important for them to feel consequences of their actions so they may make associations and learn. I happen to fall in the latter, and it also happens to be backed up by research and most theories of learning. Funny story: the other day monster was playing with the decorative screen I have..I have told her on many occasions not to touch it, but being a classic 15month old, that just means she looks at me before she messes with it
anyway, my general course of action is to tell her no, and remove her from the area..this time, I let her pull it down on herself (its pretty light and unlikely to actually hurt her) and it was leaning on her back and she started getting upset and started hollering mo mo momomommmmm..I let her sit there for a minute before I saved her..she has not touched it since 
Regardless, good luck to the mommas with sleep issue babies, being sleepy does not make for the most patient or happy mother
somdfunguy
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always forgetting the fathers (not that im having sleep issues)
libertytyranny
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KDENISE977
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Wishing everyone's babies restful happy sleep
somdfunguy
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Easily fell asleep tonight
KDENISE977
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Keep this tread going. Slept all night again last night !!! Didn't get up till almost 8 this morning. Blueberry muffins were a hit !
somdfunguy
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530 this morning but she ate and was back asleep by 630
Roman
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I do agree with you, that you can't solve all of their problems, and I do believe in letting them cry, and to learn how to soothe themselves back to sleep. But 2 hours is far too long imo. When my kids woke up at night, it was "Business only". No playing, and no bottle. Just a sip of water, and a diaper change, and a kiss. I'm not saying that you are wrong. Everyone has their own opinion, and that's what makes the world so interesting.I disagree. Especially if a pattern has developed where crying gets results. I have found children whose parents go running at every single moment of discomfort to be spoiled and unable to cope or problem solve.there is a difference between "I am hurt" and "I am used to you putting me to sleep and I demand that" knowing the difference is simple if you allow yourself to realize that every moment of discomfort does not have to be relieved.
But that's a parental philosophy that's unlikely to change..some parents feel their purpose is the shelter and save their kid from everything, some believe it is more important for them to feel consequences of their actions so they may make associations and learn. I happen to fall in the latter, and it also happens to be backed up by research and most theories of learning. Funny story: the other day monster was playing with the decorative screen I have..I have told her on many occasions not to touch it, but being a classic 15month old, that just means she looks at me before she messes with it
Regardless, good luck to the mommas with sleep issue babies, being sleepy does not make for the most patient or happy mother
Is there a book you were given that states a baby, mini toddler should sleep 18 hours a day? One day you will be wishing your child wanted you to spend time with them. I am all for structure and schedules but the baby is just that a baby. It is not realistic that the baby will do and follow what you want it to do. If you wanted to raise something and provide it with minimal attention then you should get a cat, or maybe even a fish.
KDENISE977
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You are wrong for this and it makes no sense. Why would you bother to even comment if you were going to be rude or nasty? Negative comments in a thread about children helps no one.
Wow, this coming from someone who has openly admitted on the Internet that you gve your baby Tylenol so you can sleep or have alone time. I have children, I love them and I wish they were little again. I gaurantee you it will get harder in different ways as they grow. My point is that children are not convenient. We cannot just shove them in the fridge as left overs. If you want I will be happy to let you meet my children.
KDENISE977
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and MY point was you were offering no help, only being nasty. Who does that help?:shrug: What's the point in being mean?
Thank you, as you managed to state this much more eloquently than I did. Being a parent in and of itself is a lifelong adventure, it is tough, stressful an inconvenient at times, of course.
In reality though this stage only lasts a few years and those that are upset that the schedule does not work right now will one day look back and cherish those days. I still love seeing my children sleep as even at 22 and younger I can still see that baby face that I brought home.
doubtfull24
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I am sorry. I have no clue what you are talking about? Raise something with minimal attention? My son has all of my attention. Since the day he was born for your information. What is wrong with wanting your child to get a good night sleep nothing in my opinion. I spend almost all day everyday with my boys! :shrug:
Also... Having had a child when I was younger and now that I am older believe me I appreciate everything more! I enjoy every moment I can with my son he truly is a gift from god and I love him more than anything. His life is not an inconvenience for me in any way shape or form because my life is for him. So maybe you should think before you assume and just make a statement like that!
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