Who cares? Woman alter their breasts already. People wear glasses and dye their hair get tattoos and piercings.
That's fine but altering a breast doesn't make it something different than what it is.
It may
look different because of the synthetic augmentation
[1]. But what you are arguing is that "gender affirming care"
[2] changes someone's fundamental nature. It does not. Titjobs, glasses, tattoos and dyed hair does not change what someone inherently
is. It only changes others' perception of them. In a similar vein gender reassignment does not change what someone inherently is. Whether they like that or not.
Why do you care what other people do and what their gentitals are like?
I know this quote isn't directed at me, but ... I don't.
I'm perfectly happy to say "Yes/No maam" even as I stare at her mAdam's apple. Personally I don't see why anyone gives a crap - It doesn't cost a damn thing to be nice and treat someone how they want to be treated, and not judge someone for living their best life.
I'm told by transphobes that "I don't want to participate in their fantasy/mental illness". Well, that's fine, But I find that ornery ass attitude to be as equally bad as as the aggressive, entitled and rude behavior that I hate about any purple-haired alphabet person. Everyone has this "my-way-or-the-****-you-way" attitude and there is no quarter or peace. **** that. Whatever happened to 'you do you'? That is on both sets of a-holes.
That being said, none of this means that I believe that cutting off a dick and popping estrogen tablets makes someone a woman, any more than an "otherkin" is really a two headed wolf mage because they feel the magick wolf spirit inhabiting their body. It is simply adjusting the perception that people have of you. It doesn't change what you are. Nothing can do that
[1] Which is the purpose, I suppose which makes the argument inherently flawed [3]
[2] Jesus ****ing Christ
[3] For the record I hate the way fake tits look I hate the rigidity of them and the poor nipples are never the same afterwards - I would prefer a titty that looks like a sock with an orange in the toe, than a fake one that points at the moon. But that's just me.