Unfaithfulness

[Masey]

Which unfaithfulness is more destructive to a marriage/relationship:

 

[BS Gal]

Which unfaithfulness is more destructive to a marriage/relationship:

None of the above?

 

[BS Gal]

You couldn't wait for the poll to show up?

Ooops. Sawry. I thought you just got sidetracked and forgot to finish.

 

[CandyRain]

I chose "Emotional" because I assumed you meant "cheating" and not "abuse". If you meant "abuse", I choose "Adultery". But, IMO, emotional cheating is THE WORST.

 

[Toxick]

I chose "Emotional" because I assumed you meant "cheating" and not "abuse". If you meant "abuse", I choose "Adultery". But, IMO, emotional cheating is THE WORST.

What the crap is emotional cheating?

 

[Masey]

I chose "Emotional" because I assumed you meant "cheating" and not "abuse". If you meant "abuse", I choose "Adultery". But, IMO, emotional cheating is THE WORST.

I agree about the emotional cheating. If my spouse/partner were confiding their secrets, thoughts, dreams, feelings, etc., to another it would hurt the most and be the most unforgivable.

 

[cattitude]

 

[Masey]

What the crap is emotional cheating?

You're a man, right?

 

[CandyRain]

What the crap is emotional cheating?

Emotional cheating is the type of cheating that most women find more destructive for their relationship. Women know that there are many other attractive women out there and that men are very visually stimulated by nature. Not that this condones sexual cheating, but it is well known that some men have a hard time controlling their sexual desires.
The situation is more hurtful to a woman when her partner finds someone else whose personality he enjoys more. She often sees this as a sign that she no longer is interesting to him and that she is not fulfilling his emotional needs.

This is also the type of cheating that has less rigid boundaries. It's easy to tell if someone is cheating sexually -- they are either having sex or they aren't -- but what defines emotional cheating from a woman's point of view?

One example would be if a man were to regularly take one particular coworker out to lunch or dinner meetings. In most cases, it would be safe to assume that she offers him more than just a discussion about work. She is probably also providing him with emotional companionship, giving him an opportunity to share his thoughts and feelings.

Men who are cheating emotionally often begin to question whether or not they should be seeing that one particular woman as much as they are. They know deep down inside that she means more to them than just a regular female friend would and thus feel a degree of guilt for seeing her.

 

[vraiblonde]

You're a man, right?

What was your first clue? That he used "emotional" followed by "crap"?

 

[BuddyLee]

What the crap is emotional cheating?

That's when you stop asking her how her day was.

 

[Toxick]

You're a man, right?

Thank you.
That was most helpful.

 

[BS Gal]

Masey, is there something going on you need to share with the rest of the class?

 

[Ponytail]

Physical, emotional, and adultery I put equal weight on.

 

[CandyRain]

Physical is ok as long as it involves, how did Kwiliia put it, "tweaking the bean".

 

[Qurious]

Emotional & Adultery is the worst.

You wanna rumble - lets go - you'll lose!

 

[CandyRain]

Emotional & Adultery is the worst.

You wanna rumble - lets go - you'll lose!

Who are you talking to?

 

[Toxick]

Emotional cheating is the type of cheating that most women find more destructive for their relationship. Women know that there are many other attractive women out there and that men are very visually stimulated by nature. Not that this condones sexual cheating, but it is well known that some men have a hard time controlling their sexual desires.
The situation is more hurtful to a woman when her partner finds someone else whose personality he enjoys more. She often sees this as a sign that she no longer is interesting to him and that she is not fulfilling his emotional needs.

This is also the type of cheating that has less rigid boundaries. It's easy to tell if someone is cheating sexually -- they are either having sex or they aren't -- but what defines emotional cheating from a woman's point of view?

One example would be if a man were to regularly take one particular coworker out to lunch or dinner meetings. In most cases, it would be safe to assume that she offers him more than just a discussion about work. She is probably also providing him with emotional companionship, giving him an opportunity to share his thoughts and feelings.

Men who are cheating emotionally often begin to question whether or not they should be seeing that one particular woman as much as they are. They know deep down inside that she means more to them than just a regular female friend would and thus feel a degree of guilt for seeing her.

So when a man enjoys the company of a woman "too much", he's cheating?


Sorry, what you describe doesn't sound like cheating to me at all.

 

[Ponytail]

Emotional & Adultery is the worst.

You wanna rumble - lets go - you'll lose!

Easy for you to say when ya keep dating woosies. Tell me again why your SO won't do certain sexual stuff with you.

 

[CandyRain]

So when a man enjoys the company of a woman "too much", he's cheating?


Sorry, what you describe doesn't sound like cheating to me at all.

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