Unfaithfulness

Which unfaithfulness is more destructive to a marriage/relationship:

  • Physical abuse

    Votes: 13 28.3%
  • Virtual (porn)

    Votes: 2 4.3%
  • Emotional

    Votes: 26 56.5%
  • Adultery

    Votes: 21 45.7%

  • Total voters
    46

Masey

New Member
BS Gal said:
Masey, is there something going on you need to share with the rest of the class? :popcorn:

If you must know, in the back of the bedroom closet I found an old gym bag with porn (i.e. adult movies and magazines) in it. I said it was a form of unfaithfulness because I didn't know about it.
 

mv_princess

mv = margaritaville
Masey said:
If you must know, in the back of the bedroom closet I found an old gym bag with porn (i.e. adult movies and magazines) in it. I said it was a form of unfaithfulness because I didn't know about it.
Doesn't everyone own porn?
 

Sharon

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Staff member
PREMO Member
CandyRain said:
Emotional cheating is the type of cheating that most women find more destructive for their relationship. Women know that there are many other attractive women out there and that men are very visually stimulated by nature. Not that this condones sexual cheating, but it is well known that some men have a hard time controlling their sexual desires.
The situation is more hurtful to a woman when her partner finds someone else whose personality he enjoys more. She often sees this as a sign that she no longer is interesting to him and that she is not fulfilling his emotional needs.

This is also the type of cheating that has less rigid boundaries. It's easy to tell if someone is cheating sexually -- they are either having sex or they aren't -- but what defines emotional cheating from a woman's point of view?

One example would be if a man were to regularly take one particular coworker out to lunch or dinner meetings. In most cases, it would be safe to assume that she offers him more than just a discussion about work. She is probably also providing him with emotional companionship, giving him an opportunity to share his thoughts and feelings.

Men who are cheating emotionally often begin to question whether or not they should be seeing that one particular woman as much as they are. They know deep down inside that she means more to them than just a regular female friend would and thus feel a degree of guilt for seeing her.
Good grief. She probably drove him to it if she started nagging him about this type of :bs:
 

BuddyLee

Football addict
Masey said:
If you must know, in the back of the bedroom closet I found an old gym bag with porn (i.e. adult movies and magazines) in it. I said it was a form of unfaithfulness because I didn't know about it.
Consider the alternative, the real deal.
 

Qurious

Im On 1.
Masey said:
If you must know, in the back of the bedroom closet I found an old gym bag with porn (i.e. adult movies and magazines) in it. I said it was a form of unfaithfulness because I didn't know about it.


Did he sleep with Big Boob Brenda in the porn?

If not - its not being unfaithful...i can understand u being upset and hurt...but thats not cheating.
 

BS Gal

Voted Nicest in 08
Masey said:
If you must know, in the back of the bedroom closet I found an old gym bag with porn (i.e. adult movies and magazines) in it. I said it was a form of unfaithfulness because I didn't know about it.

I really didn't need to know, but thanks for sharing. So are you saying that if you DID know about it, it wouldn't be a form of unfaithfulness?
 

Sharon

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Staff member
PREMO Member
Masey said:
If you must know, in the back of the bedroom closet I found an old gym bag with porn (i.e. adult movies and magazines) in it. I said it was a form of unfaithfulness because I didn't know about it.
:lmao:






Sorry...I can't help it. :killingme
 
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