What would you do? Forgot birthday & anniv...

[FED_UP]

He lost you at worrying about performance in bed too, huh...

Might have stretched it a little ha ha.

Fellas, who else is bold enough to say we really don't care about birthdays and anniversaries, don't be scared. We only entertain that stuff to keep the lady happy. Sorry but men are just not that sensitive about all that stuff. It may be nice to take a cruise or something, but he is not going to tell you what he would rather be doing.

 

[Chasey_Lane]

Or picks up chicks at the bar.

I met hubby at a bar, and he's fabulous and you know it.

 

[FED_UP]

There are certain men you marry, and certain men you dump.

See Fed Up? That's the kind of guy you dump.

But honestly, most men are the kind you dump, so you can either keep the idiot you have or go find you some other idiot. So it really depends on how much you care that your insensitive boob of a husband can't be bothered to remember your birthday or anniversary. Because you can give him the boot, then hook up with some schmuck who remembers the events and spoils you accordingly, but has a drug problem. Or slaps you around. Or picks up chicks at the bar.

:shrug:

I have been on both ends of the dumping game, most likely everyone has . Vrail you have probably been dumped so many times that your nick name is dump truck. Why do I get hated on when I speak the truth? On a side note Vrail I want to take you out on a date so I can dump you after you have cooked breakfast.

 

[vraiblonde]

Because you can give him the boot, then hook up with some schmuck who remembers the events and spoils you accordingly, but has a drug problem. Or slaps you around. Or picks up chicks at the bar.

I believe we're having some reading comprehension issues here.

The comparison was between the guy who's fine except he forgets your bday, and the guy who remembers that stuff but treats you poorly in other aspects.

 

[vraiblonde]

On a side note Vrail I want to take you out on a date so I can dump you after you have cooked breakfast.

Dreaming is free

 

[DaisyDuke]

Buy yourself a present, you very much deserve it. He didn't get you one, don't bother with his. Then get on with life. There are much more important things to worry about.

 

[Vince]

Curious for advice/opinions.....what would you do if your spouse completely forgot both your birthday and 10 year wedding anniversary?

A husband that consistently forgets an aniversary or birthday needs his azz kicked. Guess it just depends on how you were brought up too. My father always took my mother out to dinner, etc. for their aniversary. He did not forget a birthday either. Now sometimes Mom ended up at a baseball game with Dad for an aniversary, but that's married life. You give 95% and take 5%, but it all works out.

 

[Gilligan]

A husband that consistently forgets an aniversary or birthday needs his azz kicked. .

Here!. At least I was consistent.

 

[Vince]

Here!. At least I was consistent.

Kinda like saying, I robbed all these banks, but at least I was consistent, they were all banks.

 

[migtig]

Any advice? It started out as a bit of a joke that he forgot again, but with all the times it's come up since then, now it's just sad.

Burst into tears, call your girls, and go out for the night.

 

[Gilligan]

Kinda like saying, I robbed all these banks, but at least I was consistent, they were all banks.

I finally learned my lesson. Now I issue a fair-warning statement right up front:

"You are hereby notified that I have never remembered a birthday or anniversary in my life. It is therefore not very likely that, in my advancing years, I ever will in future. Thank you."

 

[FED_UP]

I believe we're having some reading comprehension issues here.

The comparison was between the guy who's fine except he forgets your bday, and the guy who remembers that stuff but treats you poorly in other aspects.

She needs to get over it, there are far more important things going on in this world than to dwell over a cake and card. OK for the 10th anniversary he should have at least made a little effort. Does OP fill disrespected I guess? Like I said before, to the men it's just a job to keep you happy with gifts or you get your panties in a bunch. If she really wants to punish him hold back on the butt for a few months.

 

[mv_princess]

She needs to get over it, there are far more important things going on in this world than to dwell over a cake and card. OK for the 10th anniversary he should have at least made a little effort. Does OP fill disrespected I guess? Like I said before, to the men it's just a job to keep you happy with gifts or you get your panties in a bunch. If she really wants to punish him hold back on the butt for a few months.

So if your other half manged to beat cancer, and really wanted just the little things in life, like a birthday.

You would just brush it off because there are other things going on?

 

[toppick08]

I'd hide in a mine...

 

[Vince]

I finally learned my lesson. Now I issue a fair-warning statement right up front:

"You are hereby notified that I have never remembered a birthday or anniversary in my life. It is therefore not very likely that, in my advancing years, I ever will in future. Thank you."

A Warning Label. I like it. We should all get warning labels so women know what they're getting before they get us.

 

[vraiblonde]

"You are hereby notified that I have never remembered a birthday or anniversary in my life. It is therefore not very likely that, in my advancing years, I ever will in future. Thank you."

Danger, Will Robinson. If you do not make your woman feel special, she will find someone who does.

 

[FED_UP]

So if your other half manged to beat cancer, and really wanted just the little things in life, like a birthday.

You would just brush it off because there are other things going on?

Um saying complain about something really important. Men just don't see these things important as women, thats the bottom line, we are not that sensitive about that kind of stuff. Maybe OP should make her husband buy 10 birthday cards and keep them in a drawer, that way he is good for the next 10 years, just whip it out the drawer. Impressive huh

 

[mv_princess]

Um saying complain about something really important. Men just don't see these things important as women, thats the bottom line, we are not that sensitive about that kind of stuff.

Right death is pretty unimportant.

I agree.

 

[FED_UP]

Right death is pretty unimportant.

I agree.

You know what I mean ha ha. Know man would ever come on here and boo hoo that his lady forgot his birthday or anniversary, its not our nature to be so concerned with that stuff. But out of the kindness of our heart and courtesy we cater to it, or we don't get no butt. Not that we don't love you anyless.

 

[K_Jo]

You know what I mean ha ha. No man would ever come on here and boo hoo that his lady forgot his birthday or anniversary, its not our nature to be so concerned with that stuff. But out of the kindness of our heart and courtesy we cater to it, or we don't get no butt. Not that we don't love you anyless.

That's because it would never happen.