migtig
aka Mrs. Giant
That's because it would never happen.
He doesn't understand that. :shrug: Besides, I'm really starting to think he's ghey since he only wants, talks about, gets is "butt".
What would you do? Forgot birthday & anniv...
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He doesn't understand that. :shrug: Besides, I'm really starting to think he's ghey since he only wants, talks about, gets is "butt".
mv_princess
mv = margaritaville
Were you dropped on your head as a child?
My father the forgetful man that he can be sometimes, and fully self-centered.......has never not once forgotten a birthday or anniversay.
Infact that man remembers all three anniversay's for them (first date, marriage, and renewal wedding)
kwillia
n/a
Did he send thank you cards to the women he left on the side of the road... hmmmm?
mv_princess
mv = margaritaville
Did he send thank you cards to the women he left on the side of the road... hmmmm?
Probably not. I will yell at him tonight, not to worry.
LOL. Now you tell me. I was wondering where she went.
Toxick
Splat
I agree with this. My anniversary is just another day to me. February 14 is just another day. I just turned 40 a few weeks ago, and it was just another day to me.
You're right. Most men don't look at these days as special or important.
But women do. And if you like to get your dingaling fiddled with once in a while, you better at least go through the motions.
I've never missed a birthday, holiday or anniversary. Not because they're special to me... but because they're special to her. And if you care about your woman, you'll take the time to make note of these days and respond accordingly.
Crikey, mate! A man who gets it! :eartag:
I prefer to think of guys like that as merciless destroyers of any possible more lenient and slack status quo for the rest of us.
Toxick
Splat
Any 5th grader can remember a date.
If I can remember July 4, 1776, December 25, 0000, September 17, 1787 and all that, then I can keep track of June 2, 2001, May 31, 1979 without too much effort. And it makes my baby feel good.
Who wouldn't do that?
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toppick08
Guest
Any 5th grader can remember a date.
If I can remember July 4, 1776, December 25, 0000, September 17, 1787 and all that, then I can keep track of June 2, 2001, May 31, 1979 without too much effort. And it makes my baby feel good.
Who wouldn't do that?
Dates are easy...history is not....
Toxick
Splat
I prefer to think of guys like that as merciless destroyers of any possible more lenient and slack status quo for the rest of us.
We're men, we don't want lenient and slack status quo.
(plus when we make women feel good, we get way more hummage and surprise rib-eye dinners ... trust me on this.)
Must we result to vulgar and insult missey ha ha. Toxic explained it pretty well also, men just go through the motions of it, we love you and sort of mean it on the event birthday or anniversary, but other than that if you did not care it would not bother us one bit.
More hummage? Rib-eye dinners?? I guess I belonged to same tribe but wrong sect. Bummer.
rpexie
.:Georgia Peach:.
I know a couple that has this same issue and after eight years of missed birthdays and anniversaries, they have figured it out.
The wife just uses the husbands money to buy whatever she wants. When it dawns on the husband that he has yet again forgot an imprtant day, he apologizes and (braces himself) then asks "What did I get you?" she replies "a new camera" or "a few outfits", whatever it was.
Does he want to complain? Sure, but he just grins and bears it and says "Well Im glad you like it!"
Moral of the story is, if he wants to be in charge of how much money is spent, he would make a point to remember a day that is meaningful to his wife. then he could present her with some Target storebrand bath salts and she would have to pretend to like it. Since he chose not to, she gets to console herself with something she actually wants.
So the next time you hand your husband his anniversary gift, and he says "Dang, I forgot!". Tell him "No you didnt, you bought me this brand new Nikon camera, and I LOVE it!"
Then take a picture of his shocked face.
The wife just uses the husbands money to buy whatever she wants. When it dawns on the husband that he has yet again forgot an imprtant day, he apologizes and (braces himself) then asks "What did I get you?" she replies "a new camera" or "a few outfits", whatever it was.
Does he want to complain? Sure, but he just grins and bears it and says "Well Im glad you like it!"
Moral of the story is, if he wants to be in charge of how much money is spent, he would make a point to remember a day that is meaningful to his wife. then he could present her with some Target storebrand bath salts and she would have to pretend to like it. Since he chose not to, she gets to console herself with something she actually wants.
So the next time you hand your husband his anniversary gift, and he says "Dang, I forgot!". Tell him "No you didnt, you bought me this brand new Nikon camera, and I LOVE it!"
Then take a picture of his shocked face.
See, Pex, that misses the point of "it's the thought that counts". I am gainfully employed and can buy myself whatever I please without anyone's permission. A man who forgets your birthday is a man who needs to be dumped on the side of the road so he can spend some time thinking about what a turd he is.
He doesn't understand that. :shrug: Besides, I'm really starting to think he's ghey since he only wants, talks about, gets is "butt".
Butt is good, butt I do get my share, butt you probably don't, so butt out. I had to bring butt up because that is that worse punishment a woman can do to you is deny the butt. Except throwing hot grits on him, that just might get his attention to. OP sounds like a sweet lady, butt she should understand how a man feels about that stuff also. He does have some making up to do though. I think she must have given him vibes that she not sweating these events as they get older.:shrug:
So we cant get off cheaper, thanks for the hint.
rpexie
.:Georgia Peach:.
This is true. Dump him on the side of the road then console yourself with all your shiny new things while he walks home.