When you visit friends.....

bcp

In My Opinion
Ive thrown people out the house for just farting.

you need to say something. gentle at first, if the message is not recieved, then maybe they are not as good of friends as you thought.
 

Rael

Supper's Ready
Make it a game. Okay kids, let's play "Find the golden Lego! You'll only know it is golden if it gets into the container. Ready? Set? Go!"

edit: not for the 10-month old, obviously...
 
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frozenrain

New Member
Make it a game. Okay kids, let's play "Find the golden Lego! You'll only know it is golden if it gets into the container. Ready? Set? Go!"

edit: not for the 10-month old, obviously...


Yes the 10 month old could do the hoovering instead:lmao:

Just have to make it fun for them. Such as tidy up songs .Also be clear with your friend.She may just think that you are o.k with it. Most people I know would offer and sometimes I say just leave it I will do it However it is very important children learn good manners and social behaviour.


Good luck.
 

onebdzee

off the shelf
The thing is they are little....10 months and 2. They live in a mess and I think the last straw was sharpie marker from their mother's purse all over my oak Amish table while mom just shrugs her shoulders and says oh well.

Finger nail polish remover(non acetone) or those Mr. Clean magic pads(can't remember the name) will get the sharpie off.....and personally, I'd lose the "friend"

I always made my mutts clean up after themselves at someones house or at mine....It usually carries over into adulthood, also :yay:
 

StrawberryGal

Sweet and Innocent
Finger nail polish remover(non acetone) or those Mr. Clean magic pads(can't remember the name) will get the sharpie off.....and personally, I'd lose the "friend"

I always made my mutts clean up after themselves at someones house or at mine....It usually carries over into adulthood, also :yay:

Magic Eraser. :huggy:

Those do work very well! :yay:
 

MDTerps

Back in the saddle
The two year old is not to young to start learning to clean up with your help of course. He/She may only get a few things put away but at least you have them helping. I know most people don't like Barney, but my son loved him and learned allot from watching the shows. We would always sing the "clean up song". Helped to make it a little more fun.
The 10 month old may just sit and watch in amazement but is still learning and singing the song would hold his/her attention for a bit. He/she would catch on soon enough and think it's a game.
 

caramelalb

New Member
The Legos and Cars belong to my children and are kept in shelves in my family room. The friends were over sunday and my kiddos were in their room working on homework. Kids start whinning for toys and mom gets them down. They make a mess then get a cell phone call and leave. It's not fair for my kiddos to have to clean up the mess so hubby and I were still finding legos on monday after work.
I took the table to someone and told her what it's going to cost to be repaired. She said the marks were little and couldn't Ijust put a scarve over the marks that the repair bill sounds really high and at this point they don't have the money to "pitch in".
 

hotmomma

mmmmhmmmmm
The Legos and Cars belong to my children and are kept in shelves in my family room. The friends were over sunday and my kiddos were in their room working on homework. Kids start whinning for toys and mom gets them down. They make a mess then get a cell phone call and leave. It's not fair for my kiddos to have to clean up the mess so hubby and I were still finding legos on monday after work.
I took the table to someone and told her what it's going to cost to be repaired. She said the marks were little and couldn't Ijust put a scarve over the marks that the repair bill sounds really high and at this point they don't have the money to "pitch in".

Sounds like she has no respect for you or your things. Ditch her.
 

morningbell

hmmmmmm
You would drop a friend because their children play with toys and don't clean up the mess?

Before they leave, gather the kids and tell them to pick up. It should take all of two minutes. :shrug:[/QU
The thing is they are little....10 months and 2. They live in a mess and I think the last straw was sharpie marker from their mother's purse all over my oak Amish table while mom just shrugs her shoulders and says oh well.

YOU HAVE GOT TO BE KIDDING ME! I'd flip and tell them to get out. Her kids have busy issues, find a new friend or have her kids just play outside with yours. Are your kids even the same age?
 

itsbob

I bowl overhand
I agree 10 months and 2 are too young for hotwheels.

Guess I'm going to have to go home tonight and break little Bubba's heart and throw away his collection of >200 hotwheels.

2 years old is too young for hotwheels?? How long has it been since you had a 2 year old boy in your house?

Hell, my 2 year old sleeps with his.. Before going to bed he surveys his kingdom and picks out 4 or 5 of his favorites before jaunting off to bed. I guess i could by him a cabbage patch doll, or a purple dinosaur to sleep with. NOT!
 

pixiegirl

Cleopatra Jones
This sounds very familiar. Is this the same chick who was ready to drop a friendship over a camping trip gone bad?
 

itsbob

I bowl overhand
Finger nail polish remover(non acetone) or those Mr. Clean magic pads(can't remember the name) will get the sharpie off.....and personally, I'd lose the "friend"

I always made my mutts clean up after themselves at someones house or at mine....It usually carries over into adulthood, also :yay:

OR, just plain rubbing alcohol.
 

pixiegirl

Cleopatra Jones
http://forums.somd.com/parenting-children/146131-can-i-vent-my-vacation.html

Different girl. Maybe you two should be new bff's? :lol:

On a more serious note, I make my children help clean up but often insist that guests children only help a little. I very much appreciate the gesture but chances are they aren't going to clean to my liking so picking up a few things and not being a total heathen is good enough for me. That being said, I don't allow any child in my house to act like a heathen. They can be children and play but if any of them starts acting like a beast the mom voice comes out. I take no issue with telling my friends' children not to do something in my house.
 
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kris31280

Guest
I help my son pick up any and all toys he takes out. It's impolite to leave another person's home trashed unless they tell you to just leave it because they plan on taking care of it themselves.
 
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