Why do you stay in Maryland?

Gilligan

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Just ask @Gilligan if he would want to move his garage/workshop. And leaving being an island. Doubtful a place such as his is replaceable.
It isn't replaceable...that's too true. My island compound is rather unique....more like owning a small marina with machine and wood shops than it is a residential property.

But the character of the island has changed a lot and continues to....it's fast become a refuge for wealthy folk that think nothing of paying 6-700K for a small island property, demolishing what was there, and building very expensive "mansions" for their "summer homes". They are not like us....as the old saying goes.
 

Gilligan

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Funny how this differs from New England. No land grants up there, just people carving up the forests and making farms and towns. My Loyalist kin did get some land granted in southern Nova Scotia, while my Scottish kin carved farms out of the northern park, like their ancestors did in the Highlands.
Many of the MD land grants were "pension grants"; the King's treasury was broke and retiring officers were offered large tracts of land in the "new colony" in lieu of a normal retirement income. Our farm in Howard County was one of those....a retirement grant given to a British colonel. Originally 2000 acres, it was a lot smaller when we owned it, but we had the original homestead, the first part of which was documented as existing in 1704. The second addition to the home was also log construction, showing up in land records in 1804. The last and much larger addition was completed in 1864 and is "balloon framed" rough-cut timber construction.
 
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lucky_bee

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BFF/college roommate convinced me to come here 13 years ago for a change of scenery. I was a navy brat and didn't have any real roots at the time. Married a guy also not from here, Navy brought him here early in his career and he ended up back here as his first wife was local and his area of expertise required him to work in some very specific areas, PAX being one of them. Now I'm kinda stuck if I want to continue being stuck with him :lol: both his older kids are technically adults now, so we're no longer legally tied here (though obviously, we'd like to stay near to them) but he likes his work. His work has talked about moving operations to another state, and if that happens we plan to go with them. I can easily find my type of work anywhere and our son is still young enough to handle a new state move. We don't have much allegiance to this county or state, but also don't have any issues if we end up being here for another 10-20 years, it's a fine enough place to live with a family.

And while I didn't think I had any allegiance to New England 13+ years ago, I have been missing it more and more since having my son and wanting to be closer to family. I miss it's charm and small town life, but I definitely don't miss the winters :crazy:
 

spr1975wshs

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Zombie Thread, I know...

Accompanied the wife here in August 2012 to take up the job she got at NAVAIR. I went back to northern Illinois to pack up the house and get it ready for sale, then got here a couple of day after Hurricane Sandy blew through.

I retired after a little over 21 years with Lowe's in January 2024. She retired from NAVAIR after a little over 12 years in September 2024, also had 13 years as an Air Force officer.

We grew up in western Mass., but will NOT go back there. Not sure where yet, but it won't be MD for the remaining years.
 

NorthBeachPerso

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I've hesitated about this thread. On another forum I told people who were considering moving from wherever to wherever to sit down first and list their reasons why.

Then do the same with what they'd be giving up by moving elsewhere. Things like family, familiar places, stores, church, etc.

I did that because it seems that many people move when they retire because, for some reason, they think "that's what retirees do".

We toyed on and off over the years about buying a campish property in NWPA where I'm from. But life intruded and we never got around to it. Now, I barely can keep up with one house let alone another one seven or eight hours away. And don't get fooled by taxes, in many states it absolutely depends on where you live. I paid my mother's property taxes the last several years she was alive and the taxes where she was in a small rural town in Pennsylvania were just a few hundred dollars less than what I pay on mine here even with the trash and water and sewer Special Assessments on a house assessed, at that time, six or seven times what hers was.

As to why we stay, the kids and now grandkids are all here. The kids were all raised in Maryland and have no intention of moving. Plus, I transitioned from being a hillbilly to being a marshbilly decades ago.
 

StadEMS3

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When I retired from the Air Force out of Andrews in 2009, I had an awesome fed job offer in DC so I stayed; sure wasn't going back to my home state of taxachusetts. Now that I'm verging on a second retirement in 4yrs, I plan to vacate MD. No kids, wife, or family here so I'm thinking of moving to TX where a lot of my Air Force One friends moved to. I have a contractor job offer there working the AF1 program, but ehh, I'd rather putz around chasing old ladies on a golf cart and have a 1 bedroom house with a 10 car garage built. ;)
 

NorthBeachPerso

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When I retired from the Air Force out of Andrews in 2009, I had an awesome fed job offer in DC so I stayed; sure wasn't going back to my home state of taxachusetts. Now that I'm verging on a second retirement in 4yrs, I plan to vacate MD. No kids, wife, or family here so I'm thinking of moving to TX where a lot of my Air Force One friends moved to. I have a contractor job offer there working the AF1 program, but ehh, I'd rather putz around chasing old ladies on a golf cart and have a 1 bedroom house with a 10 car garage built. ;)
Don't forget to put a pineapple on the cart's dashboard.
 

Homer J

Power Chord
I'm here for the job. The plan was to leave MD when I retire. That plan has been modified, because both kids have established their lives and families here, and we want to stay close to them. We may still try to at least get across the Potomac into Virginia. We'll see what the next three years brings.
 
Family has been here since 1634. Invaded in larger numbers in 1650 or thereabouts;. Grew up in what was nothing but farms and wilderness in Howard County. Our farm was patented in 1690.

The state is dead to me now. Liberal pond scum have sucked the life out of it.
How exactly? I'm military, father was a firefighter, his father was a postman, his father was a cop. My distant relative was a Hessian deserter who wanted to raise a family here rather than fight. This state is worth a lot, why would you abandon it?
 

Gilligan

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How exactly? I'm military, father was a firefighter, his father was a postman, his father was a cop. My distant relative was a Hessian deserter who wanted to raise a family here rather than fight. This state is worth a lot, why would you abandon it?
Maryland's disgusting far-left elected scum ruined the state. My property taxes and vehicle/boat registrations will exceed $1200/month soon. That is "how exactly". It is beyond impossible to reverse the far-left tilt of the state.
 

black dog

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How exactly? I'm military, father was a firefighter, his father was a postman, his father was a cop. My distant relative was a Hessian deserter who wanted to raise a family here rather than fight. This state is worth a lot, why would you abandon it?
Born and raised Marylander here, my family arrived around 1699. I left a dozen years ago for the second time.
I left over excessive taxes, Maryland's anti-gun laws & policy's for starters. Its turned into just, another State to be from.
 
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