morningbell
hmmmmmm
There is a HUGE difference between vehement and verbal abuse.
I am a yeller... I SAID CLEAN YOUR ROOM NOW!!!
I don't say... CLEAN YOUR ROOM YOU VILE WORTHLESS PIG....
difference....
I don't name call just emphasize the orders given, when needed, and with 2 sons, often.
I don't call names either.
Yeah. Don't get me wrong. I have no problems being yelled at most of the time, and I usually laugh because the person is getting worked up while I'm calm, but its the rudeness that gets to me. Yelling/arguing in public is ridiculous, IMO, as is slamming doors while other people may be trying to sleep I just dislike when people argue so loudly in public because it should be our business, not everyone elses (and there is no reason to disrupt someone else's nice dinner with our arguement, for example)
I don't yell in public.