Here, I actually disagree with you. While even gay and bi friends I have, have said they do know people who say they are gay or bi but honestly think they really aren't -
I do think people are born that way. I wouldn't say it is "normal" anymore than being born blind or missing limbs or mentally retarded is "normal" - but I don't believe it is their fault.
I have two children who were born with abnormalities - I love them more than life, but they had no choice in the matter.
So it may surprise Sappy and others that while some of us support the baker in this instance - we still support gay marriage.
I have gay married relatives. That's fine with me. I support this man in his religion also.
I would not compel a Hasidic Jew or Muslim to do something against their religion, and there are a lot of places where that might happen.
Can you imagine an employer who compelled a religious person to work on a day their religion forbids them to?
To touch someone his religion forbids him to?
These men chose a baker and they could have bought anything in the store, and there would have been no problem - and that's from the owner saying that.
He said that.
What he objected to was making a wedding cake and thus endorsing the marriage and he believed he could not do that.
Almost certainly they could have gone to dozens of other places and had no problem.
They could have bought every other thing in the store, and he would have had no problem with it.
A Hasidic Jew or Muslim is not allowed to touch a member of the opposite sex unless they are married or related -
can people see that some people might take offense at that? It's their religion. They have that right.
For those who don't seem to understand tolerance towards religion - I suggest consider political lines.
Such as your union supporting Trump, and you paying union dues - and you can't have a job without the union.