bulldog
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It varies from duty station to duty station and from military branch to military branch. However, it's been my experience that there are 2 sets of senior wives. There are the ones who are officers wives, and usually the "commanding" rank will be the wife of a Col. who organizes and structures the other officers wives under her "command". Not every wife will be part of this. She'll pick and choose. The lowest ranking officer's wife in her "command" is then the POC with the officers wives for the lady in charge of the second group of senior wives for the NCO's. That is usually run in much more hands on manner, with newsletters, websites and phone trees. On average that is run by a Top Sergeant's wife (or First Sergeant's wife). Her recruiting methods for assistance will be a bit different than the officers wives who are sort of mandated by their spouses to keep up appearances. A senior NCO's wife will usually ask for volunteers with various activites (family days, newsletters, et al) and then she is completely dependent on them pulling their weight for the jobs they volunteered for.
Now, unlike IcIt's experience, every military base I've been to, has had some sort of wives program to some level or another. Also unlike Icit, I know the USMC has something called the "Key Wives" program that runs really well. The Army has "Officers Wives Club" and "Family Readiness Groups". The Air Force has ESC and Key Wives. The Navy has Key Wives as well with Ombudsmen.
If anybody is a wife of a military man and interested in getting involved in program that helps with your own military community, I suggest you contact your Forward Readiness Officer (FRO). If you don't know who that is, your spouse should.
Thanks for your reply. Navy is largely the same. We call them different things, but I was never aware of any wife (except the Ombudsman) going through any type of training. I asked about "senior" just to get a flavor for what others view it as. In the Navy, it's pretty easy for the enlisted ranks as "senior enlisted is E-7/8/9. In the officer ranks, the water muddies a bit and it changes with who you ask. Some will say that "senior" officer is 04 and above, some/most say 05 and above.