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by....Wanting Something in a Person that Wasn't there
alias....Blonde
I lived with a guy for 14 yrs. We owned a house & eventually a business together. He told me he was divorced. I eventually found out he wasn't. (I was married twice before and so was he-so that's why i went for the living together thing) He still had contact with his X(or so as he called her) They didn't have children, but he said he was in contact with her because he raised her child which he called his stepdaughter.(okay understandable) The stepdaughter came over the house one day which followed by bringing her mother(the supposedly X) which was drunk and made a big scene in front of my house screaming "He's my husband" ! So...i wanted nothing to do with them and then he swore he would take care of the problem.(he didn't)
I went through this period of back and forth lies, manipulation. I didn't know how bad it was getting. He chased all my friends away and slowley chipped away at me until i quess i was under control of some sort. I periodically found crack bags at the house. I couldn't figure out how he was doing it with out no money. I quess his X was giving and doing the crack with him. I was just trying(i quess) to keep thngs together and move on to a normal life. He was unpredicable and was nice and a minute later nasty.
Years passed....he kept avoiding the questions, problems, drugs,etc. It wasn't all that bad, but I don't know how i stayed for that long(i feel so stupid now) I worked on the house like a man, putting floors in, tile, painting, cutting the grass while he was so lazy it was unbelievable. I don't know why i stayed(it wasn't because of love) I think i was worried about my children. I wanted them(2 boys) to have a good school and a nice house to live it. I also spent my time going to school part time and furthering my education. I was not happy with him that is for sure! FINALLY... I planned my escape.... and left....he made the house go to foreclosure and stole money from the business after i left. Before i left he left for 2 weeks(apparently with the X) She got arrested for hitting a car, drinking and driving, etc. I have a restraining order against him and a charge of arson threat. They both have court cases coming up in Sept. HA! I think it's so funny.
He keeps calling my job. I'm recording it and taking it to the judge in Sept. He needs to leave me alone. He went to a court case last week with his x(really wife). A friend of mine spotted him there with his X. He called my friend later and told them not to tell me he was with her.(ha) He keeps leaving messages on my answering machine at work like he wants to go back together. Can you believe it? I can't wait until i get him in court. That Mother needs to leave me alone! It has been almost 9 months now and i'm so happy that i left. I have to go to the court case with him, but i'm also thinking about going to the(x-really wife's)court case just for revenge and a good laugh because of all the yrs of ...whatever it was...
I don't know why i wrote this...i feel really dumb. You wouldn't know it if you met me. I have a good job, a nice car, i'm attractive, a nice girl, etc. I guess i'm just putting out a warning to people be careful out there. There are alot of bad people. If it happened to me, it could happen to anyone! Be careful.
ps. How can you be married to someone and they leave you and are living with another woman for 14 years and you still see them? Also his (x-really wife) had a boyfriend and a child with another guy. The kid is with him now! Didn't she even care about her child? If my husband left me and was living with someone else i wouldn't talk to himif hecalled. Is this what drugs do to you? JERRY...JERRY!!!!
Pss. This will never happen to me again!
Psss. Eventually...i will be seeking a 50/50 relationship. Right now i'm just getting my ducks in a row & taking care of me.
Blonde
SEE LIES or SEA THE LIES
by....Wanting Something in a Person that Wasn't there
alias....Blonde
I lived with a guy for 14 yrs. We owned a house & eventually a business together. He told me he was divorced. I eventually found out he wasn't. (I was married twice before and so was he-so that's why i went for the living together thing) He still had contact with his X(or so as he called her) They didn't have children, but he said he was in contact with her because he raised her child which he called his stepdaughter.(okay understandable) The stepdaughter came over the house one day which followed by bringing her mother(the supposedly X) which was drunk and made a big scene in front of my house screaming "He's my husband" ! So...i wanted nothing to do with them and then he swore he would take care of the problem.(he didn't)
I went through this period of back and forth lies, manipulation. I didn't know how bad it was getting. He chased all my friends away and slowley chipped away at me until i quess i was under control of some sort. I periodically found crack bags at the house. I couldn't figure out how he was doing it with out no money. I quess his X was giving and doing the crack with him. I was just trying(i quess) to keep thngs together and move on to a normal life. He was unpredicable and was nice and a minute later nasty.
Years passed....he kept avoiding the questions, problems, drugs,etc. It wasn't all that bad, but I don't know how i stayed for that long(i feel so stupid now) I worked on the house like a man, putting floors in, tile, painting, cutting the grass while he was so lazy it was unbelievable. I don't know why i stayed(it wasn't because of love) I think i was worried about my children. I wanted them(2 boys) to have a good school and a nice house to live it. I also spent my time going to school part time and furthering my education. I was not happy with him that is for sure! FINALLY... I planned my escape.... and left....he made the house go to foreclosure and stole money from the business after i left. Before i left he left for 2 weeks(apparently with the X) She got arrested for hitting a car, drinking and driving, etc. I have a restraining order against him and a charge of arson threat. They both have court cases coming up in Sept. HA! I think it's so funny.
He keeps calling my job. I'm recording it and taking it to the judge in Sept. He needs to leave me alone. He went to a court case last week with his x(really wife). A friend of mine spotted him there with his X. He called my friend later and told them not to tell me he was with her.(ha) He keeps leaving messages on my answering machine at work like he wants to go back together. Can you believe it? I can't wait until i get him in court. That Mother needs to leave me alone! It has been almost 9 months now and i'm so happy that i left. I have to go to the court case with him, but i'm also thinking about going to the(x-really wife's)court case just for revenge and a good laugh because of all the yrs of ...whatever it was...
I don't know why i wrote this...i feel really dumb. You wouldn't know it if you met me. I have a good job, a nice car, i'm attractive, a nice girl, etc. I guess i'm just putting out a warning to people be careful out there. There are alot of bad people. If it happened to me, it could happen to anyone! Be careful.
ps. How can you be married to someone and they leave you and are living with another woman for 14 years and you still see them? Also his (x-really wife) had a boyfriend and a child with another guy. The kid is with him now! Didn't she even care about her child? If my husband left me and was living with someone else i wouldn't talk to himif hecalled. Is this what drugs do to you? JERRY...JERRY!!!!
Pss. This will never happen to me again!
Psss. Eventually...i will be seeking a 50/50 relationship. Right now i'm just getting my ducks in a row & taking care of me.
Blonde
