A Little Tale About My X & His Wife!

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Bronwyn

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Traffic said:
Good point! Although i am selfishly enjoying myself right now. If i ever get another relationship i'm trying for a healthy one.
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I don't know how you stuck with it for 14 years in the first place. I hope you learn your limits and how to enforce them. Of course it's always easier to give advice than take it ourselves.

I wish you the best, and I hope you find a better man next time.

PS - Don't move in together until you've had a detective do a complete background check first :lmao:
 
DocHudson

DocHudson

Seat Belts Save Boobs
Good Luck

I'd only suggest, "Cut All Ties". You don't even need to go to Court with him. Have an Attorney represent your interest and don't go to Hers.
Good Luck, be cautious.
:buddies:
 
SquirrelBait

SquirrelBait

Look at her SMILE
vraiblonde said:
How refreshing. Usually when someone comes on here to tell their tale, and someone else teases them about it, they'll get all pissy and abusive, then stomp off in a huff.

Because you don't appear to be an ass, I predict good things will come to you. :yay:
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For once I agree with you. I have moved more great sweet women away from complete #######s in the past year or know great women being with control freak ####tards that are now making the move like you. Make no sense to me how jackasses get great women to beat down and control

Wish you the best in your new life and thanks for sharing your story so maybe others will follow in your footsteps
 
ArkRescue

ArkRescue

Adopt me please !
It's really not THAT hard for years and years to pass when you keep thinking you need to give the person time to get themselves together, then you yourself get busy in school, work, kids etc. So I can understand how it became 14 years for her. It also isn't easy to jump up 1 day and decide to live in THIS AREA on one income either... been there, done THAT TOO.

If you own property together that further complicates things, especially in the bad economy we've had the past few years. Not like you can just sell a house in 30-60 (or 90-120???) days for a PROFIT and be done with it. Also there are likely other joint bills involved ..... if only we knew how complicated it can be to break up, maybe we'd handle things differently as we progressed in a relationship?

Bronwyn said:
I don't know how you stuck with it for 14 years in the first place. I hope you learn your limits and how to enforce them. Of course it's always easier to give advice than take it ourselves.

I wish you the best, and I hope you find a better man next time.

PS - Don't move in together until you've had a detective do a complete background check first :lmao:
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Bronwyn

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ArkRescue said:
It's really not THAT hard for years and years to pass when you keep thinking you need to give the person time to get themselves together, then you yourself get busy in school, work, kids etc. So I can understand how it became 14 years for her. It also isn't easy to jump up 1 day and decide to live in THIS AREA on one income either... been there, done THAT TOO.

If you own property together that further complicates things, especially in the bad economy we've had the past few years. Not like you can just sell a house in 30-60 (or 90-120???) days for a PROFIT and be done with it. Also there are likely other joint bills involved ..... if only we knew how complicated it can be to break up, maybe we'd handle things differently as we progressed in a relationship?
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I suppose I was speaking from personal experience. :lol:
 
itsbob

itsbob

I bowl overhand
Just a few questions/ concerns..



Where was the house?

Square footage??

And is it in a "Short Sale"??
 
aliceheimer

aliceheimer

Member
Traffic said:
GET READY FOR A SHORT STORY...

SEE LIES or SEA THE LIES
by....Wanting Something in a Person that Wasn't there
alias....Blonde
now i'm just getting my ducks in a row & taking care of me.

Blonde
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Sounds like you are headed in the right direction, now...sista'! Good luck!
 
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ItalianScallion

Harley Rider
SquirrelBait said:
Make no sense to me how jackasses get great women to beat down and control...
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Many men are liars and users. Women are more emotional than rational. Those men "play" on those emotions. The only thing worse than those men, are the women who enable them.
Women get wrapped up in the emotion of the moment (the fantasy of love). Love is somewhat blind but it shouldn't be stupid. This is exactly what ruins it for the few good men. She might meet a really good guy next time and lose him because of her past experience (once bitten, twice shy).
NEVER live with someone first. Ladies, do the necessary background checking and spend the time getting to know someone BEFORE you commit. :buddies:
 
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BELDsmom

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aps45819 said:
I mow the lawn and wash the dishes. I'm the guy that washes the clothes then drys them, folds them and puts them away. I vacuum the carpet and mop the kitchen floor. I dust the stuff and cook the food.

I wouldn't know how to act if somebody did half of it for me :lol:
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You should set up a spouse training service, or rent yourself out! Either way I'd pay:howdy:
 
aps45819

aps45819

24/7 Single Dad
ArkRescue said:
That's funny because the attributes you cite would make you seem like THE perfect spouse for being so helpful and contributing so much to the running of the household.
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I don't contribute to the running of the houshold, I run the houshold. :lol:
If I don't do it, it doesn't get done.
 
GWguy

GWguy

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ArkRescue said:
That's funny because the attributes you cite would make you seem like THE perfect spouse for being so helpful and contributing so much to the running of the household.
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I'm the same way as APS, Mr. Mom, Mr. Fixit. However, that doesn't account for, and just isn't enough, when personalities are involved.
 
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